Jason MacKenzie:Healing After Unimaginable Loss

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Jason McKenzie shares his heart-wrenching journey through grief after losing his wife to suicide and his daughter to trauma-induced mental health struggles. His story reveals how childhood trauma ripples through generations and how he found healing through sobriety, purposeful grief work, and helping others.

• Lost his police officer wife to suicide after years battling mental health issues stemming from childhood trauma
• Daughters were just six and five when their mother died, causing deep trauma despite their young age
• Developed a four-year drinking problem while trying to appear like he "had it together"
• Experienced breakthrough moment when his nine-year-old daughter said "I'm disappointed in you"
• Lost his 19-year-old daughter to a car accident related to mental health struggles
• Discovered that many mental health issues stem from unprocessed childhood trauma
• Creates TikTok videos about grief that have reached 40 million views and helped prevent suicides
• Uses somatic experiencing therapy to process grief through body awareness
• Writing a book called "Man Down" about grief specifically targeted to men
• Emphasizes the power of intentional language in shaping our experience of grief
• Practices positive reframing: "I can be grateful for 19 years with her because it's better than zero"
• Believes healing comes through facing what seems unfaceable and sitting with difficult emotions

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1. Introduction to Jason's Journey (00:00:00)

2. Losing Wife and Daughter to Mental Health (00:01:42)

3. Understanding Trauma and Mental Health (00:03:03)

4. Addiction as a Coping Mechanism (00:06:02)

5. The Turning Point: Daughter's Disappointment (00:08:44)

6. The Impact of Grief on Children (00:12:23)

7. Writing and Healing Through Helping Others (00:16:30)

8. The Process of Moving Forward (00:21:07)

9. Somatic Experiencing and Healing Tools (00:24:38)

10. Final Thoughts on Grief and Recovery (00:26:10)