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Вміст надано Buck Dodson. Весь вміст подкастів, включаючи епізоди, графіку та описи подкастів, завантажується та надається безпосередньо компанією Buck Dodson або його партнером по платформі подкастів. Якщо ви вважаєте, що хтось використовує ваш захищений авторським правом твір без вашого дозволу, ви можете виконати процедуру, описану тут https://uk.player.fm/legal.

In this special “Quick Buck” episode, I’m having a conversation with listeners about what’s next for the podcast including the Gay Men’s Life Lab Phone Line!

Tune as I talk about…

  1. My desire to build community and connect more deeply with listeners in 2022
  2. Finding ways to engage that aren’t through social media (which I suck at)
  3. My search for an “intern” to help grow our community
  4. How to expand our audience and how you can help

You can start engaging by leaving a message on the new GMLL phone line at 512.808.0849 with topic ideas, questions, guest suggestions, and helpful feedback.
About Buck Dodson, Host

Learn more about me and how I help gay, bi and queer men—and allies too— live, love and lead powerfully by visiting www.buckdodson.com and following me Instagram and Facebook.

If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more gay men find Gay Men’s Life Lab!

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Вміст надано Buck Dodson. Весь вміст подкастів, включаючи епізоди, графіку та описи подкастів, завантажується та надається безпосередньо компанією Buck Dodson або його партнером по платформі подкастів. Якщо ви вважаєте, що хтось використовує ваш захищений авторським правом твір без вашого дозволу, ви можете виконати процедуру, описану тут https://uk.player.fm/legal.

In this special “Quick Buck” episode, I’m having a conversation with listeners about what’s next for the podcast including the Gay Men’s Life Lab Phone Line!

Tune as I talk about…

  1. My desire to build community and connect more deeply with listeners in 2022
  2. Finding ways to engage that aren’t through social media (which I suck at)
  3. My search for an “intern” to help grow our community
  4. How to expand our audience and how you can help

You can start engaging by leaving a message on the new GMLL phone line at 512.808.0849 with topic ideas, questions, guest suggestions, and helpful feedback.
About Buck Dodson, Host

Learn more about me and how I help gay, bi and queer men—and allies too— live, love and lead powerfully by visiting www.buckdodson.com and following me Instagram and Facebook.

If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more gay men find Gay Men’s Life Lab!

  continue reading

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As I say at the end of my coaching and therapy sessions, “we’ll have to stop here.” Join me for this final episode as I wrap up the podcast. Tune in to hear about my decision, what’s next and how I hope to stay in touch. You may even hear some inspiration on approaching endings and new beginnings in your own life. To stay in touch with me and be notified of future offerings from Gay Men’s Life Lab, please join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . Even though there won’t be new episodes, I encourage you to ‘gay it forward’ by sharing any episode you think would help someone in your life. To gay superpowers! Buck…
 
In this episode, I talk with sought-after coach, speaker, professor, and author, Dr. Joel A. Davis Brown about his new book, The Souls of Queer Folk . Join me as I talk with Joel about: What it means for leaders to be “Queer-minded” How growing up LGBTQ teaches us to be leaders in life Queer culture as a wisdom tradition with value for all people, especially organizational and business leaders The 9 values that express the beauty of LGBTQ+ people Get your copy of Joel’s book, The Souls of Queer Folk and learn more about Dr. Joel A Davis Brown at: Linkedin Pneumos Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
In this episode, I talk with trauma and recovery coach, spiritual companion, and queer elder, Hunter Flournoy. We dive deep into what it means to heal as gay, bi and queer men & how compassionate community and spirituality are key to embrace ourselves and each other. Join me as I talk with Hunter about: The importance of LGBTQ Heart Circles for gay men and queer people to see & feel seen How and why Hunter helps men to accept and embrace ourselves by coming home to our bodies and breath Relationships as a spiritual practice so we can be our true selves and be with others Creating queer community to recover from our individual and collective trauma so we find safety with other LGBTQ people and beyond The retreats and spiritual journeys he offers for GBTQ men to find our truth and our depth through Learn more about Hunter Flournoy and how you can work with him at spiritjourneys.com and hunterflournoy.com . Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
In this episode, I talk with psychotherapists and founders of Calm Counseling, Dr. Vanessa Scaringi and Kate Garland, LCSW about the role of attachment styles and relationships in recovering from eating disorders, body dysmorphia and excessive exercise. Join me as I talk with Kate and Vanessa about: Why disordered eating, body image and exercise issues “work” to address chronic loneliness and disconnection How the search for sameness and conformity are risk factors for disordered eating and exercise The importance and challenge of being messy and imperfect in relationships How anxious, avoidant and disorganized attachment styles show up in eating and body image Ways to begin identifying feelings and needs and speaking up about them to safe people Learn more about Kate and Vanessa and their psychotherapy practice, Calm Counseling, at www.keepcalmatx.com and @calmcounselingpllc and follow them on Instagram . Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
A “Gays On” episode featuring Burak Yilmaz on healing and self-discovery In this episode, I talk with Burak Yilmaz about his remarkable path to freedom as a gay man which he chronicles in his upcoming book, If My Mother Never Left . Join me as I talk with Burak about: Being tortured for speaking out as a gay man in Islam Learning to survive alone on the streets of Turkey and New York City Overcoming shame and recovering from depression How writing has helped him heal and live as his true self His work to support and guide younger generations Get your copy of Burak’s new book, If My Mother Never Left and follow him at https://burak212.com and on Instagram . The “Gays On’ Series presents the voices of men who are on their journey of living openly and authentically. Not necessarily the perspective of therapists or coaches, these are the lived experiences and wisdom of gay, bi and queer man on what it’s like to heal through love. Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
We need our gay superpower now more than ever. Our communities, especially our members who are trans, gender non-binary and/or drag artists, are being subjected to assaults on our identities and human rights. Let’s double down on who we are and in this episode, why we’re here. Tune in to this ‘Quick Buck’ solo episode as I dive into the powers of camp and drag. I explore: What are gay and queer superpowers? How camp and campiness speaks to queerness and helps us feel seen The role of drag in cultivating joy, confidence, freedom and gay spirit The power of drag to artfully evoke thought and create social change Drag as an invitation to expand with your own expression of the feminine Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
Let’s talk about sex. Healthy, pleasurable and healing sex that is. In this episode, I talk with Certified Sex Therapist, coach and clinical social worker, Dr. Israel Martinez, about helping gay bring sex into the light in order to have more enjoyable, enthusiastic and shame-free sex. Join me as I talk with Dr. Martinez about: The distinct challenges gay, bi and queer men face in having healthy sex What the 5 senses have to be with having pleasurable sex The difference between ‘spontaneous arousal’ and ‘responsive arousal’ Expanding the definition of what sex actually is to you and your partner(s) Exploring more of your body during masturbation and self-pleasure Tips on using sex apps to find partners for the good sex you deserve Using www.fetlife.com and other sex-positive communities to find partners Learn more about Dr. Israel Martinez at http://www.lgbttherapynj.com and get notified of the release of his forthcoming book on gay men’s sex and pleasure. In the meantime, you can purchase his first book Helping Gay Men Find Love . Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
Gregory Elsasser-Chavez on the high costs & high rewards of coming out Part of the ‘Gays On’ Series featuring the voices and stories of gay, bi and queer men. Welcome to a new season of Gay Men’s Life! In this episode, I talk with Gregory Elsasser-Chavez about his remarkable path to freedom as a gay man which he chronicles in his upcoming book, Terms of Estrangement. Join me as I talk with Gregory about: The impact of realizing he could be a gay dad or a dead dad Finding the will to leave the Evangelical Christian church The torment of “ex-gay” reparative and aversion therapies Coming out and ending a marriage to his wife His steadfast commitment to parenting his sons through painful resistance You can follow Gregory on Twitter at GregoryElsasser and find his soon-to-published memoir, Terms of Estrangement on Kindle . The “Gays On’ Series presents the voices of men who are on their journey of living openly and authentically. Not necessarily the perspective of therapists or coaches, these are the lived experiences and wisdom of gay, bi and queer man on their path to self love. Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes come out. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more folks like you find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
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I’m sorry for the podcast silence last month, especially since it was Pride Month. Although Gay Men’s Life Lab celebrates LGBTQ+ pride every month. In this episode, I share about my decision to take a few months off from the podcast so I can spend the summer soaking up some extra self, relationship and business care. I hope you’ll tune in to join me for this relatively brief conversation about my decision. It involves filling my well, learning to set limits and listening to my inner creative. As always, I hope this might inspire you to double down on self care this summer or on whatever care your life is needing right now. Stay subscribed or start following to be notified when new episodes are on their way. You can also join my email list by visiting www.buckdodson.com . I’ll be in touch with podcast updates as well as new blogs, coaching programs and more. As always, I love hearing from you so feel free to share your thoughts, episode ideas or just say hello by leaving a message on our Phone Line at 512.808.0849. If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more gay men find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks and talk with you all in September! Buck…
 
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In the first of this two-parter, I invite you into a conversation about becoming or rediscovering hope and eagerness about dating. Join me for this deep dive into how becoming “pro dating” and a pro at dating means could radically shift your perspective on dating and creating long term relationships. Tune in to hear… What it means to be Pro-Relationship rather than Pro-Self How to approach dating like you would in a relationship The 5 characteristics of “Secure Functioning Dating” Developing a Pre and Pro-Dating Mindset Ideas for meeting dating partners IRL rather than relying solely on apps Resources Check out Wired for Dating by Dr. Stan Tatkin for more detail on secure functioning dating. Want to share your thoughts? Have ideas for episodes? Leave a message on the Phone Line at 512.808.0849 . Learn more about me and how I help gay, bi and queer men – and allies too - live, love and lead powerfully by visiting www.buckdodson.com and Gay Men’s Life Lab on Facebook . If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps more gay men find Gay Men’s Life Lab! Thanks! Buck…
 
Join me for this engaging and important conversation about porn, sex, masturbation, and most importantly, pleasure. I’m talking with Don Shewey, a psychotherapist, pleasure activist and author of The Paradox of Porn: Notes on Gay Male Sexual Culture. Tune in to hear Don and I discuss: His journey to being a pleasure activist and Sacred Intimate The integral yet complex role pornography plays in gay men’s self-discovery How porn both helps and hinders our views of our bodies, sexuality, and relationships Learning to distinguish sex, porn and masturbation The role of pleasure and desire in addressing issues with porn RESOURCES: Learn more about Don Shewey at http://bodyandsoulwork.com . Purchase your copy of The Paradox of Porn here . Gay Men’s Life Lab Phone Line – 512.808.0849 What do you think about this episode? I’d love to hear your thoughts about the role of porn in your life and in gay make sexual culture. Drop us a line at 512.808.0849 . About Buck Dodson, Host Learn more about how I help leading edge gay, bi and queer men and allies find joy, deep connection and gay superpower by visiting www.buckdodson.com and following Buck Dodson Coaching on Instagram. If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps Gay Men’s Life Lab reach more men like you! Thanks! Buck…
 
Join me for this enriching conversation with licensed psychotherapist, Brian Torres, on what it means to be a Highly Sensitive Person and how embracing this part of your nature can help you create a more optimal lifestyle. Some of the topics Brian and I discuss: The core traits of highly sensitive people What D.O.E.S. - Depth, Over-Arousal, Emotional Responsiveness, and Sensitivity to Subtleties – has to do with high sensitivity Misconceptions that high sensitivity isn’t backed by science, is the same as introversion or is a mental health diagnosis The parallels of living with high sensitivity and living as LGBTQ individuals The “Five to Thrive” tenets of self-care for Highly Sensitive people RESOURCES: Learn more about Brian Torres and his work with HSPs at www.briantorrestherapy.com . Read about HSPs in Dr. Elaine Aron’s book, The Highly Sensitive Person . Check out Dr. Aron’s documentary, Sensitive: The Untold Story featuring HSP, Alanis Morissette Gay Men’s Life Lab Phone Line – 512.808.0849 What do you think about this episode? I’d love to hear your thoughts about Highly Sensitive People. Drop us a line at 512.808.0849 . About Buck Dodson, Host Learn more about how I help leading edge gay, bi and queer men and allies find joy, deep connection and gay superpower by visiting www.buckdodson.com and following Buck Dodson Coaching on Instagram. If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps Gay Men’s Life Lab reach more men like you! Thanks! Buck…
 
You won’t want to miss this enlivening conversation about tapping into your erotic energy as a pathway to healing, aliveness and joy. Join me and my guest, Craig Cullinane from The New Body Electric School as we dive deep celebrating our erotic potential. Some of the topics Craig and I discuss: The role of “conscious eroticism” in self and collective healing His own journey from body shame to celebration The intersection of pleasure, desire, power, and unmet needs The foundational tool that superpowers inner growth Healing that happens when erotic exploration is not limited by physical attraction The dance of shame and pleasure that builds intimacy with ourselves and our bodies How Body Electric courses help GBQT write new stories about our lives through erotic liberation practices Learning more about Body Electric and other resources discussed in this episode: The New Body Electric School Easton Mountain Healing Body Shame Online Course Gay Men’s Life Lab Phone Line – 512.808.0849 Want to share your thoughts on your conscious eroticism, self healing and body transformation? Drop us a line at 512.808.0849 . About Buck Dodson, Host Learn more about how I help leading edge gay, bi and queer men and allies find joy, deep connection and gay superpower by visiting www.buckdodson.com and following Buck Dodson Coaching on Instagram. If you found this episode helpful, please ‘gay it forward’ by subscribing and leaving a quick review and rating. This helps Gay Men’s Life Lab reach more men like you! Thanks! Buck…
 
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