WE AS A SOCIETY ARE FAILING OUR BOYS!!! On Tha Mic With M And T podcast

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Send us a text Fix your mental health in 2025 and face the hard truths you’ve been avoiding. This video gets real about what it takes to prioritize your mental well-being, cut toxic relationships, and get your finances in order. Stop making excuses and start taking control of your life—because the habits, mindset, and decisions you carry into this new year will shape your future. We discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, setting boundaries, and taking actionable steps to improve your mental health. Learn why men often struggle to open up, how poor choices keep us stuck, and why being honest with yourself is the first step to growth. Plus, we dive into the critical need to re-evaluate your relationships and finances—because a truly healthy life means balancing all aspects, not just one. Are you ready to take charge of your mental health, relationships, and money in 2025? Let’s make next year your best year yet. Hit like, subscribe, and don’t forget to tap the bell for more unfiltered advice and real talk that will transform your life. #journalingformentalhealth #selfimprovement #budgeting #financialliteracy #burnoutprevention CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:35 - Mental Health Awareness 07:32 - Unprotected Sex Risks 12:27 - Insights from a Hairstylist 14:57 - Life Coach vs Life Advisor Explained 19:11 - Women's Mental Health Perspectives 22:54 - Evaluating Your Relationships 28:30 - Setting Healthy Boundaries 32:40 - Elderly Wisdom on Needs 33:18 - Allowing Behavior in Relationships 35:39 - Parenting Sons Effectively 38:59 - Breaking Free from Maternal Obligations 48:20 - Understanding Money Management 50:00 - Navigating Student Loans 51:07 - Financial Planning Basics 51:41 - Effective Budgeting Strategies 52:33 - Benefits of Auto Pay 54:47 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Why Modern Men Must Level Up: Hard Truths Revealed 1:15:17

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Send us a text Modern men face critical challenges that demand immediate change. In this powerful discussion, we reveal the harsh realities about relationships, family dynamics, and personal responsibility that many men need to hear. From shocking statistics about marriage rates to the real cost of raising children, we're breaking down why "leveling up" isn't just an option – it's essential for survival. Discover why traditional approaches to success aren't working anymore and learn what it really takes to build wealth, maintain healthy relationships, and create generational success. We explore how changing economic landscapes, technology, and social dynamics are forcing men to adapt or get left behind. This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles the uncomfortable truths about personal development, financial responsibility, and the critical importance of obtaining real skills in today's competitive world. Whether you're struggling with career choices, relationship challenges, or finding your path forward, this discussion provides the wake-up call you need. Join us as we break down the essential steps modern men must take to secure their future, protect their families, and build lasting success. This isn't just about survival – it's about thriving in a world that's changing faster than ever before. Subscribe, hit the notification bell, and join our community of men committed to growth and success. #selfimprovement #redpill #moderndatinglife #blackfamilydynamics #mgtow CHAPTERS: 00:00 - The War on the Black Family 01:25 - The Black Marriage Rate 03:51 - Income by Race 06:42 - Average Income for Black Men and Women 07:52 - Poverty Rate for Black Children 08:04 - Dropout Rate for Black Boys 09:58 - Societal Restraints and Rising Above It 12:49 - How the World Has Changed 16:09 - When to Intervene in Kids' Relationships 21:56 - Sowing into Our Children 24:07 - Importance of Marriage 25:45 - Analyzing the Cost of Dating 30:10 - Giving Too Much Too Soon 31:51 - Importance of a Father's Presence 36:56 - Father’s Presence in a Child’s Life 44:57 - Get a DNA Test 49:29 - Don’t Look 52:53 - Importance of Job Training 56:20 - The Next Set of Millionaires 59:43 - Investing in Yourself 01:02:45 - Get a Skill 01:07:10 - Disrespect is Keeping Us Down 01:08:52 - Marriage is More Than Love 01:10:35 - Look at Tyrese’s Wife 01:12:58 - Who It Really Affects 01:14:55 - Outro Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Are we raising a Generation of Broken Women?(Audio Only) 1:18:11

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Send us a text Uncover the unseen cost of broken relationships in this thought-provoking discussion. We dive into how social media platforms influence perceptions and expectations in modern relationships, exploring the impact of accountability, self-worth, and societal norms. Discover the importance of personal growth and self-improvement in overcoming relationship challenges, with a focus on the roles of men and women in fostering healthier dynamics. Are you ready to confront the reality of broken relationships and their hidden costs? Join us as we unravel personal stories, share valuable insights, and offer guidance on building a more fulfilling life. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell for more enlightening content. #focusonthefamily #modelingsuccessforyourkids #selfimprovement #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Why are women so broken 01:46 - Financial stability without a woman 04:24 - Men and self-worth tied to money 06:34 - Joblessness and self-esteem 08:59 - Men's emotional distance explained 13:06 - Understanding Postpartum Depression 20:33 - Making a positive change 22:10 - Importance of Authenticity 24:53 - Parenting and honesty issues 26:36 - Reasons for having children 33:05 - Men's accountability in relationships 34:20 - Understanding child support 38:30 - Co-parenting dynamics 40:31 - Common excuses men make 43:15 - Guiding a man towards growth 46:54 - Choosing the right partners 48:55 - The 6-6-6 Rule Explained 53:18 - The 4% Rule in dating 56:40 - The men you desire may not reciprocate 59:45 - Societal pressures on attraction 1:05:47 - Historical dating practices 1:09:50 - Suggestions for single individuals 1:13:00 - Readiness before dating 1:13:30 - Building a solid relationship 1:15:00 - Reasons men avoid commitment 1:17:08 - Outro Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Would you Sell your Soul in order to Live your Dreams? A Cautionary Tale 1:03:21

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Send us a text In Hollywood, integrity is non-negotiable. Dive into a raw and unfiltered conversation about the industry's dark side, where power dynamics and moral dilemmas often overshadow talent and ambition. This video unpacks the recent controversies surrounding figures like Puff Daddy, exploring the high stakes of maintaining integrity in an industry where fame and fortune are tantalizingly dangled as rewards. With candid discussions on the pressures and choices faced by those in the spotlight, this video challenges viewers to consider the personal cost of success. From the manipulation of young talent to the systemic issues perpetuating these cycles, it's a thought-provoking look at Hollywood's cultural and ethical challenges. Join us for this eye-opening discussion, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more insights. CHAPTERS: 00:00 - The Price of Fame 11:17 - The Shirley Temple Effect 14:49 - Corruption in Powerful Positions 16:55 - Supporting Future Generations 19:30 - The 50 Foot Bed 22:00 - The Black Market 26:10 - Choosing Cheaper Options 28:40 - Importance of Access 32:30 - Puff Daddy's Family Dynamics 39:45 - CEO Accountability After Arrests 43:15 - Impact of Stage Parents 46:29 - Parental Involvement in Entertainment 47:55 - The Silence of Amanda Bynes 51:38 - Behind the Scenes in Hollywood 54:14 - Lack of Support Systems 56:16 - Consequences of Growing Up in Fame 58:55 - Exploring Conspiracy Theories 1:00:29 - Importance of Integrity 1:02:47 - Like, Comment, & Subscribe Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Are You Sabotaging Your Dating Life with Poor Hygiene? 1:07:32

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Send us a text 🔥 The SHOCKING Hygiene Habits Men MUST Change! 🔥 Are your cleanliness standards up to par? In this eye-opening discussion, we dive deep into the surprising hygiene practices that men need to rethink RIGHT NOW. From the importance of daily bathing to the necessity of proper grooming, we're calling out the routines that might just be holding you back. Discover why standards start at home and how they impact your personal and social life. Join us as we challenge outdated habits, expose the real consequences of poor hygiene, and reveal the secrets to presenting your best self. Don't miss out on these life-changing insights — your future self will thank you! CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:22 - Standards 06:37 - How to Tell Your Man He Needs to Wash 14:56 - Sheer Clothing Fashion Tips 17:40 - Dating Older Women 18:50 - Moms and Relationships 28:14 - Physical Health Tips 31:31 - FDA and Your Health Concerns 33:00 - Importance of Diet and Nutrition 38:00 - Importance of Mental Health 46:10 - Lack of Accountability in Relationships 49:15 - Stop Trying to Change Your Partner 51:37 - You Can’t Change a Man 59:28 - Men Aren’t What You Think 1:05:10 - Happy Anniversary 1:05:42 - Thank You for the Love 1:06:09 - We Live This Everyday 1:07:09 - Outro Please subscribe to our channel and hit the bell icon to stay updated with our latest content wherever you listen to podcasts. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCASTS: @OVERCOMETOOBECOME Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Should Women Always Get Half in a Divorce? A Heated Debate 1:03:11

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Send us a text Dive into the heated debate on Kenya's controversial divorce ban: is it a move to protect men or an oppressive measure against women? In this eye-opening discussion, we explore the new law, the Prime Minister’s bold statements, and the implications for marriages in Kenya. Are prenuptial agreements and paternity tests really the answer to saving marriages, or are they just stoking the fires of gender inequality? Join us as we dissect the statistics showing that 80% of divorces are initiated by women and question if men are deliberately pushing their spouses to file for divorce. We'll also reflect on real-life stories and the emotional toll of these decisions. This video raises critical questions about the balance of power in relationships, societal expectations, and the true meaning of marriage. Don't miss out on this controversial and thought-provoking discussion. Like, subscribe, and hit the bell button for more deep dives into the issues that matter most. Share your thoughts in the comments below – we want to hear from you! Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Celebrity Scandals and Real-life Impacts: Lessons from the Diddy Saga 1:05:47

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Send us a text Discussing domestic violence statistics and the pitfalls of abusive relationships, On tha Mic w/M & T delve into current high-profile cases and personal anecdotes to illustrate the complexities and choices involved. They explore the psychological impacts of abuse, the influence of societal norms, and the importance of self-awareness and support systems. Practical advice is offered for those trapped in abusive situations, emphasizing the need for self-empowerment and the availability of resources. This episode is an eye-opening conversation on the realities of domestic violence, its pervasive nature, and the challenging journey toward recovery and resilience. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Living on a Tightrope: Side Hustles, Social Media, and the Shifting Roles of Relationships 1:17:03

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Send us a text Have you ever caught a glimpse of the financial tightrope that teachers walk every day? Prepare to have your eyes opened as we peel back the curtain on the lives of educators, particularly those who turn to platforms like OnlyFans to supplement their incomes. As we navigate the uncomfortable intersection of private side hustles and public personas, we discuss the societal expectations that both confine and define the roles of teachers. The conversation traverses the rocky terrain of systemic educational funding failures, public discomfort, and the implications of educators' after-hours activities on their professional standing. This episode isn't just an exploration of the financial struggles within the education system; it's a deep dive into the tumultuous waters of modern relationships and the role of social media. We shine a light on the controversial topic of fidelity, societal reactions to unexpected revelations, and the accountability that married men have when engaging with content creators on platforms like OnlyFans. From the impact on marriages to the societal lens that magnifies every move teachers make, we dissect the complex dynamics at play. We also consider whether the traditional roles of men and women in relationships are shifting under the weight of new expectations. To round off our discussion, we tackle the emotionally charged topics of fatherhood, co-parenting, and blended family dynamics. We confront stereotypes, highlight the importance of a father's presence, and discuss the balance between financial provision and active parenting. With personal anecdotes and insights, we unpack the nuances of discipline within step-families and the essential communication needed to navigate the intricacies of co-parenting. Tune in for an episode that promises to challenge preconceptions, spark dialogue, and offer a fresh perspective on the responsibilities that define our most intimate relationships. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Navigating Age Gaps: The Complexities of Dating, Attraction, and Social Stigmas 1:06:48

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Send us a text Have you ever found yourself at a family dinner where your uncle arrives with his new girlfriend who's suspiciously close to your age? It's a scenario that raises eyebrows and a multitude of questions, which we tackle head-on in our latest episode. Join us as we dissect the controversial topic of age in relationships, from the double standards faced by older women dating younger men to the stigmas of older men with much younger women. We'll share intimate family stories that reveal the potential for strife when age-gap relationships clash with societal norms, and discuss whether love truly knows no age—or if there's reason to be wary. Navigating the choppy waters of age-gap relationships isn't without its perils, as I can personally attest from a friend's experience that was more a cautionary tale than a fairytale. This episode isn't just about the drama, though; it's an eye-opening discussion about cultural and generational divides, the relatability factor in partnerships with wide age differences, and the sometimes-harsh realities of dating across life stages. We're pulling no punches as we draw from the world of sports and entertainment to paint a vivid picture of how varying years can translate to contrasting experiences and expectations. Ever wondered if that well-dressed individual at the bar is out of your league or simply playing it down to avoid unwanted advances? Our conversation veers into the complexities of dating for plus-size women, the psychology behind accepting less than you deserve, and the importance of body language in the art of attraction. We share tips on how to better signal your interest across the room with just a look, and muse on how wealth and attire play into the dynamics of attraction. Prepare to have your perspectives challenged and to walk away with a newfound understanding of the dating world's intricate dance. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Unseen Red Flags: Navigating Respect, Control, and Communication in Relationships 1:11:19

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Send us a text Ever find yourself in a relationship that feels slightly off, but you can't quite pinpoint why? That's where our latest episode comes into play, offering an invaluable lens to identify the red flags in relationships that too often go unnoticed. We dissect everything from the subtle invasion of controlling behaviors to the crackling tension of unresolved issues. With each story and insight shared, we arm you with the knowledge to recognize problems and the tools to address them before they escalate. Setting boundaries and demanding respect aren't just buzzwords; they're your armor in the dating world. This episode isn't afraid to confront the uncomfortable truths about what respect really looks like and why it's non-negotiable. Listen as we pull back the curtain on the dynamics of control and trust, revealing how maintaining individuality is paramount and why communication is your best weapon in nurturing a healthy partnership. Relationships are a two-way street, and we're here to guide you through the give-and-take with practical advice and real-life examples. Wrapping up, we don't just leave you with a list of what to watch out for; we offer a path forward. From understanding how to navigate the murky waters of relationship dynamics to recognizing the importance of self-care and introspection, we dive into the essentials of personal growth. As we raise a toast to you, our loyal listeners, for helping us reach a new milestone on our YouTube channel, we also extend a heartfelt invitation to join us in this journey of self-discovery and relationship empowerment. Cheers to stronger, wiser connections. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Crafting a Future Together Beyond Romance to Responsibilities 1:22:57

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Send us a text Prepare to navigate the oft-ignored yet critical crossroads where love meets pragmatism. Our latest episode peels back layers on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, showcasing Jeannie Mai's divorce to highlight asset protection as a savvy move—not a trust issue. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on the why and how of legal safeguards before marriage, offering a fresh perspective on preparing for life's what-ifs while deeply in love. In the wake of a global health crisis, the conversation shifts to underline the vital importance of frank dialogues on finances, health emergencies, and caregiving. We dissect the emotional labor involved and its impact on partnerships, unmasking the gendered expectations that can burden relationships. By sharing stories of adversity and resilience, we underscore the need for empathy and growth when life throws a curveball at love and commitment. Wrapping up, we confront the unavoidable adult responsibilities with both humor and sincerity, discussing the messy outcomes of passing without a will and the significance of expressing final wishes. We examine the seductive traps of the funeral industry and emphasize the necessity of life insurance and clear communication in a marriage. This episode isn't just a conversation; it's an essential guide for couples intent on fostering maturity and foresight in their union. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Cultivating Connections: Ethics in Career Growth, Family Bonds, and the Art of Helping Others 1:11:03

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Send us a text Have you ever considered the lasting impact of the relationships you build along your professional path? Reflect with us on the transformative power of supporting each other in the workplace, beyond mere ladder-climbing. The conversation this episode is enriched with the wisdom of Katt Williams, diving into the ethics of career growth and the intricate dance of maintaining one's integrity while navigating office politics. It's a candid look at the balance between hard work and strategic relationship-building that anyone from a fresh-faced intern to a seasoned executive can appreciate. Then, we shift gears to the tender topic of family dynamics, especially as our loved ones grow older. Stories of connection and estrangement stir the heart, revealing the poignant truth about our future as determined by our past actions. How do you handle introducing a partner to a family member with less-than-enlightened views, or the challenge of familial expectations when they clash with personal values? These narratives pull at the threads of family fabric, examining how to maintain individuality and peace amid potential discord. Wrapping up, we shed light on the education system's shortcomings and the importance of holistic, hands-on learning that gears our children toward both success and fulfillment. And to inspire, we share a powerful tale of a man's journey from survival on the streets to a purpose-driven life, all while underscoring the quiet, potent beauty of helping others without the expectation of recognition. Join us for a heartfelt exploration of life’s complexities, where growth and kindness aren't just goals—they're the very essence of our shared human experience. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Behind the Masks: Exploring the Layers of Love, Partnership and Parenthood 44:24

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Send us a text Are you ready to shatter the misconceptions surrounding relationships and gender roles? This episode is a no-holds-barred exploration into the realities and complexities of love and partnership, where we urge our listeners to resist the impulsive leap into commitments and take the time to truly understand their significant other. We delve into the potential pitfalls of rushing into relationships and navigate the often challenging emotional landscape that relationships bring. Switching gears, we address the bread-and-butter topic of single motherhood, shedding light on the feelings of resentment and scorn these brave women often face. We take a deep dive into the impacts on children raised in single-parent homes, and discuss how factors like financial stability and education can influence the success of single mothers. Furthermore, we don't shy away from sensitive subjects like DNA testing and the societal stigma it carries, underscoring the importance of open communication and honesty to prevent future complications. Finally, we emphasize the significance of integrity and stability in relationships, going beyond superficial attractions like sex and money. This comprehensive discussion aims to empower you with the knowledge and insights needed to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. So, whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, this episode will provide you the tools to navigate the tricky landscape of love and relationships. Remember to like, subscribe, and hit the bell to stay updated on future episodes! Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Surviving the Festive Season: Guide to Negotiating Family Dynamics 53:57

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Send us a text Got a crazy aunt, a nosy uncle, or that one cousin who just can't seem to get along with anyone else at the dinner table? As we dive into the holiday season, our episode today is all about navigating the murky waters of family dynamics and emerging victorious on the other side! We'll confess a few of our own personal holiday horror stories, some cringe-worthy, some funny and some that ended up teaching us valuable lessons. We promise - by the end of this episode, you'll be armed with all the strategies you need to handle even the most challenging family members without losing your cool. It's not just about managing the people, though. From kid-friendly conversation to the choice of background music, there are a lot of unwritten rules that can make or break a holiday gathering. We'll discuss how to keep the atmosphere light and enjoyable, while avoiding unnecessary drama. And yes, that includes tips on masking your horror when the menu is revealed, and your favorite dish is nowhere to be seen! If you've ever felt like you needed a survival guide for navigating holiday feasts, this episode is for you. And if you're on the brink of meeting your partner's family for the first time, we've got your back. From the right attire to the perfect conversation starters, we cover everything you need to know to make a great impression. We even share some of our own faux-pas, so you can learn from our mistakes and breeze through this nerve-wracking experience. Trust us, you'll soon be the new favorite in the family - or at least, you won't be the talk of the next family gathering for all the wrong reasons! Get ready for a hearty dose of holiday wisdom with a side of laughter, as we take on the madness of the festive season together. Support the show Go to http://www.overcometoobecome.com to see all of the Video Podcasts and the other podcasts under the "Overcome 2 Become" YouTube Channel Follow M at @overcometoobecome and T at @tress_city on Instagram Email us at overcometoobecome@gmail.com for thoughts, comments and show suggestions. Come join the discussion…

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Decoding Morality: The Influence of Words and Navigating Life's Obstacles 58:15

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