Episode 210: Are You Safe But Stuck? Uncovering Hidden Obstacles Blocking Your Growth

Being Human

Discover the blind spots and defense mechanisms quietly holding you back from real growth. In this episode, Dr. Greg unpacks tough truths, shares relatable personal stories, and offers practical insights to help you break free and flourish.

Discussed in this episode:

• The importance of growth and development in becoming the best version of yourself;
• Blind spots and defense mechanisms: how they form and why they hold us back;
• The role of avoidance in blocking personal growth;
• Personal insights from Dr. Greg’s life and leadership at the CatholicPsych Institute;
• The value of outside perspectives, such as consultants, mentors, and spiritual directors;
• How blind spots are similar to scabs and calluses—defense mechanisms that protect but also limit us;
• The connection between personality traits and defense mechanisms;
• Why personality tests can be helpful but don’t define your identity;
• The beginner’s mind: approaching growth with humility and openness;
• How blind spots can lead to years of avoiding challenges or tough decisions;
• The importance of seeking help proactively rather than waiting for crises to force growth;
• Why embracing growth is a lifelong journey that leads to freedom and fulfillment.

Resources mentioned or relevant:

• Feeling stuck? Schedule a free consultation to to explore how working with a Mentor can help you move forward;
• Grow in self-awareness and freedom through Catholic Mindfulness;
• Feeling called to help others? Learn more about our Certification program (CPMAP): CatholicPsych Model of Applied Personalism;
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• Visit our website to read the CatholicPsych blog, shop in the CatholicPsych bookshop, or discover other resources we have available;
• Download The Integrated App for access to free audio exercises, courses, prayer resources, and more;
• Become a member of the Integrated Life Community to get access to every course Dr. Greg has created, plus the opportunity to participate in Integrated LIVE’s - weekly, Mentor hosted Q&As covering topics like boundaries, communication, trauma, forgiveness, and more!
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