48. Breaking Free from the Blaming Bully Role: Overcoming Anger & Control (Unhappy Kid Triangle - Part 2)

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Are you stuck in the cycle of anger, control, and blame? Do you find yourself lashing out, overpowering others, or feeling constantly frustrated when things don’t go your way? Maybe deep down, you feel like a victim, but your response is to push harder, fight back, or make others "do things right."

If so, this episode is for you.

In Episode 48 of The Happy Family Coach Podcast, we continue our Unhappy Kid Triangle Mini-Series by diving into The Blaming Bully Role—the mindset that justifies blame, control, and attack in the name of self-protection.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✅ What the Blaming Bully Role REALLY is (and why it feels so justified)
✅ Why we fall into anger and control instead of trusting God
✅ How the Blaming Bully moves into the Helpless Baby & Bossy Helper roles
✅ Signs you’re stuck in this mindset (and how to break free!)
✅ Why willpower won’t fix it—only the Holy Spirit can truly transform you
✅ How to move from control to trust and from frustration to peace

🚨 Here’s the truth: The Blaming Bully believes they are the victim—and that belief fuels the cycle of attack, criticism, and manipulation. But God has a better way!

You don’t have to fight for control.
You don’t have to let frustration lead you.
You don’t have to stay in this cycle.

It’s time to let go, surrender, and walk in the peace that only comes from trusting God.

xoxo,

Danielle

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🔥 Next Week: We’re tackling The Bossy Helper Role—how trying to "fix" and "help" everyone actually keeps us stuck and exhausted. Make sure you're subscribed so you don’t miss it!

💡 Final Thought: You are not bound to blame, anger, or control. You are deeply loved, fully equipped, and called to freedom. It’s time to break free. 💛

🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward real transformation! 🎙️✨