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Speaking Out on Financial Abuse
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Financial Abuse is not a relationship issue. Financial Abuse is a domestic violence issue. Learn about financial abuse in marriage and romantic partnerships through powerful interviews with survivors of financial abuse plus experts, authors and organizations to bring more awareness, prevention and recovery to survivors of a financially abusive partnership.
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Financial Abuse is not a relationship issue. Financial Abuse is a domestic violence issue. Learn about financial abuse in marriage and romantic partnerships through powerful interviews with survivors of financial abuse plus experts, authors and organizations to bring more awareness, prevention and recovery to survivors of a financially abusive partnership.
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×Joe Dillon, divorce mediator and co-founder of Equitable Mediation, discusses his background and the benefits of mediation over a litigated divorce. He contrasts the aggressive, financially draining nature of litigated divorces with the cost effective, cooperative approach of mediation, which he has practiced for over two decades. Joe emphasizes the importance of financial literacy and transparency, highlighting common issues like hidden debt and financial abuse. He mentions his online courses on divorce mediation, which aim to educate clients on divorce preperation, negotiation tactics and emotional aspects. Dillon's approach, which includes collaboration with his partner and wife, a divorce coach, aims to help clients reach agreements efficiently and minimalize emotional and financial strain. KEY LINKS: Equitable Mediation Web Site Equitable Mediation Divorce Coaching www.financialabusehelp.net…
Joy Ingram, CEO and Founder of Love & Joy, discusses her journey from Georgia to Virginia, where she began advocacy work for domestic violence survivors. She highlights her roles at New Directions and RAFT, emphasizing the importance of supporting advocates to prevent burnout. Joy also shares her personal experience as a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault, which fueled her passion for advocacy. She notes that over 60% of advocates in the field of domestic abuse are survivors themselves and need consistent self-care and systematic changes within non-profit organizations. Joy plans to expand her Love & Joy consulting and workshop services to help and support more agencies and advocate organizations. podscan_XQctfjlcpkhh1wKc66B364fotER2ajq KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Joy shares her background, born in Hawaii and raised in Rome, Georgia, before moving to Atlanta. She explains her move to Staunton, Virginia, through an early college entrance exam. Joy recounts her midlife crisis in 2016, which led her to make a connnection with a woman at her church and who adopted her into her family. Joy discusses her passion for helping survivors of domestic abuse and sexual assault, which began with her own experience. Joy begins volunteering at a rape crisis center in Decatur, Georgia, and later at a crisis center in Atlanta. She explains the New Beginnings organization and their programs and services. Joy discusses the RAFT (Resilience for Advocates Through Foundational Training) and its mission to support advocates working in the domestic abuse fields. She highlights the unique stresses faced by advocates, such as vicarious trauma from dealing with survivor issues throughout each working day. Joy shares statistics that 61% of all advocates in the domestic abuse field are survivors of abuse themselves. She discusses the importance of collaboration and communication between domestic violence agencies, sparking her idea to form her own consulting firm. Joy explains her Love and Joy company and its place in supporting advocates in domestic abuse agencies, including workshops to prevent job burnout and promote self care. She offers advice to survivors still in an abusive relationship as well as how to receive support after the end of the abusive partnership. LINKS: Love and Joy Facebook Page RAFT (Resilience for Advocates Through Foundational Training) www.financialabusehelp.net…
Maisha Colter, CEO of AVDA in Texas, discusses her extensive background in social work and law, emphasizing her transition from social work to law to better advocate for vulnerable populations, particularly children and women. AVDA provides legal services for thousands every year, focusing on family court cases and economic abuse. Maisha highlights the organizations BIPP program, which educates abusers on gender roles and communication, and its annual interfaith workshop to train faith leaders on supporting domestic violence survivors. AVDA also conducts various community outreach events and toy drives. Maisha emphasizes the importance of safety planning and self-care for survivors. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Maisha shares her background and extensive travel due to parents' military careers. Maisha discusses her education history, starting with a bachelors' in policy studies and social work in New York. She explains her decision to pursue social work instead of law, working with children in foster care and doing family reunification. Maisha shares how her experiences as a social worker led her back to law school to finish her studies. She discusses the benefits of having both social work and legal skills, particularly in advocating for vulnerable populations like women and children. Maisha explains the evolution of domestic abuse support, particularly in recognizing and addressing financial abuse. Maisha provides examples of economic abuse, which often involves isolation from financial decision making. She outlines the legal services offered by AVDA (Aid to Victims of Domestic Abuse) including divorce, custody, child support and property issues. Maisha explains in depth AVDA's BIPP program, which targets indivduals convicted on family violence crime, providing re-education on gender roles and communication. Maisha discusses AVDA's Interfaith workship and vigil, to educate faith leaders in recognizing and support survivors of domestic abuse. Maisha shares the challenges of reaching out to many diverse communities and the importance of culturally specific community organizations. She mentions upcoming events and a gala in 2025. Maisha emphasizes to survivors the importances of safety planning and seeking resources in advance of leaving, as well as after leaving the relationship. She highlights that the survivor of domestic abuse needs continuing resources and support, which can be found through contacting a local domestic violence organization. LINKS: AVDA Website Battering Intervention & Prevention Program (BIPP) Interfaith Workshop & Vigil www.financialabusehelp.net…
Rosie Watson discusses her work as Head of External Relations with the Domestic Abuse Alliance in the United Kingdom, focusing on reducing the time victims receive legal support from weeks to hours using the WEPROTECT app. She highlights the recent United Kingdom law change recognizing coercive control as a criminal offense, now managed under multi-agency public protection arrangements. Rosie emphasizes the hidden nature of domestic abuse, particularly financial abuse, and the importance of employer support. The organization also provides interpretation and translation services to expand their effectiveness with a growing global population and is committed daily to bringing immediate legal support for domestic abuse survivors. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Rosie explains her initial involvement in the domestic abuse field through her work with Police and Crime Commissionors. She details her transition to the Domestic Abuse Alliance and expresses gratitude for a platform to focus on global issues. Rosie explains the historical view of domestic violence and the introduction of the coercive control law recently passed in the United Kingdom, including its details and effects on abusers. She emphasizes the importance of the passing of the coercive control law, putting especially financial abuse on par with other forms of arrestable domestic violence offenses. Rosie explains the development of the WEPROTECT app, which significantly reduces the time it takes victims to receive civil legal support. She explains the WEPROTECT app is free to use police forces, frontline services and victims. Rosie discusses the challengers of funding for support services and the new government's pledge to greatly reduce violence against women within the next 10 years. She expresses her concerns about the continued use of means testing to verify services for domestic abuse victims. Rosie elaborates on the need for employers and employees alike to receive domestic violence awareness training. She explains how the recent pandemic was a perfect storm for domestic abuse perpetrators and victim survivors. Rosie highlights the importance of creating safe spaces at work to start conversations about domestic abuse and empowering line managers and HR teams to support effected workers. Rosie discusses the Domestic Abuse Alliance's upcoming fundraising and event plans. LINKS: Domestic Abuse Alliance Website WEPROTECT App Information www.financialabusehelp.net…
Windi, survivor and advocate from California, shares her journey of abuse and recovery. She details her childhood, meeting her abusive partner after the tragic end to a previous engagement and the challenges of her marriage with a partner suffering from untreated PTSD and financial instability. Windi highlights her efforts to protect and educate her children about domestic abuse, as well as her advocacy work in preventing gun violence. Windi describes her passion for being an advocate for gun violence prevention after her own personal tragedy. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Windi shares her background, mentioning she was born in Los Angeles and raised in San Bernadino County, California. Windi describes her childhood as typical middle class with both parents working multiple jobs. Windi meets her future husband while both are driving on the freeway, where they exchange numbers and begin dating. She describes her partner's family and backgroud, that he was spoiled and not financially very responsbile. Windi details how her future husband told her he has no children and hopes to become married and a father soon. Windi describes their early marriage and birth of their two children, including her husband's PTSD related financial and mental instabilities. Windi talks about her unsuccessful attempts to get help for her husband through the Veterans medical system. As her husband continues to decline, Windi discovers he has a child, born during their marriage to another woman and now serving child support papers and freezing their bank accounts and assets. Windi discovers her husband is not providing support or even contacts a child he has hidden from her during their marriage. Windi talks about choosing to go into a domestic violence shelter to leave her marriage with her children, and how the DV resources helped her during crisis. Windi advises DV survivors about making a plan to escape an abusive partnership and going back to school once you are out of an abusive relationship. LINKS: Windi Joseph YouTube Channel www.financialabusehelp.net Windi with CA Rep. Mike Thompson and other advocates testifying on gun violence prevention. www.financialabusehelp.net…
Sophora Acheson, Executive Director and Co-Board President of Ruby's Place, discusses her journey from Grass Valley, Califorinia, to Santa Rosa and developing a passion for helping survivors of domestic violence. She shares her personal history of abuse and her career path, which led her to pioneer a program to reduce perpetrator violence called R.A.F.T. (Restorative Action for Family Transformation). R.A.F.T. aims to address the root causes of domestic violence by providing accountability and trauma-informed care for abusers, while insuring survivors receive necessary support. Sophora also details Ruby's Place's mobile health programs, serving nine Bay Area counties with basic medical services, dental care and education. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Sophora explains how her own experiences led her to become a licensed family and marriage therapist. She describes how she found a job as a counselor at a local domestic violence shelter. Sophora details her 14-year tenure with Ruby's Place, starting in direct service and eventually becoming executive director. She shares the history of Ruby's Place, which was founded in the 1970's as the nation's first domestic violence shelter. Introduction of the R.A.F.T. program and how its voluntary nature is the key to its success. Sophora discusses the importance of accountability and the role of trauma in driving harmful behaviors. Mobile health programs are discussed as an innovative way to bring basic health care and dental care to domestic abuse survivors. Sophora discusses October's Domestic Violence Awareness Month and her plans for a public forum to gain feedback on the R.A.F.T. program. Sophora gives advice to survivors on reaching out and that you are never alone. Ruby's Place Website R.A.F.T. Program at Ruby's Place Ruby's Place Facebook Page www.financialabusehelp.net…
The Manitoba Association of Women's Shelters (MAWS) is a non-profit organization in Manitoba, Canada, dedicated to supporting survivors of gender-based violence through education, training and community collaboration. Today, Amber Merucci, Project Specialist; Tsungai Muvingi, Provincial Coodinator and Maria Paz, Communication Specialist at MAWS, discuss their roles and the organization's rich history. They emphasize MAW'S unique focus on provincial shelters and its committment to cultural humility and reconcilliation with indigenous communities. Amber, Maria and Tsungai each highlight the challenges of working with diverse populations, including indigenous and immigrant communities. and the importance of providing accessible resources and training. MAWS also collaborates with universities and legal communities to offer comprehensive support and education on gender-based violence. Manitoba Association of Women's Shelters List of Indigenous Tribes in Canada Indigenous Peoples Statistics in Canada History of Canada www.financialabusehelp.net…
Sue, a court stenographer from Bayshore, New York, shares her harrowing experiences with financial and emotional abuse in her two marriages. She details her first husband's lies and instability, leading to a short-lived marriage and his eventual death. Her second husband, a successful financier with a beautiful mansion in Connecticut, was abusive, controlling her finances and eventually leading them both to an economic disaster. Sue's life changed after volunteering for ECLIVES, where she now serves as a vice president and rape crisis counselor. Sue emphasizes the importance of saving money, seeking support and focusing on self-care for those still in abusive relationships. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Sue shares her background, born in Brooklyn and living in suburban areas of New York City. She discusses her financial upbringing, describing her household as middle to upper middle class, with her father owning an insurance agency. Sue describes her career as a court stenographer, a career she has held for over 35 years. She recounts meeting her first husband and how it ended up a short-lived marriage after abuse and instability. Sue reflects on her poor judgement in men and her low self esteem, which led her to stay in abusive relationships. She meets her second husband, and describes his initial charm and financial success. Sue details the abusive nature of her second marriage, including verbal and emotional abuse, and his complete control over her finances and access to money. She shares a pivitol moment where her husband attacked her during an argument, leading to his arrest and their eventual divorce.…
Sybil Cummin, a licensed professional play therapist from Colorado, founded the Rising Beyond Power & Control podcast and resource website to address the gaps in support for survivors of abuse, particularly those with children. She emphasizes the concept of post-separation abuse, where abuse continues after leaving an abusive partnership. Sybil's community, designed for women, offers safety, privacy and support through live events, workshops and a private forum. She advises survivors to create safety plans, gather documentation and seek support from safe individuals. Sybil also highlights the importance of clear communication and documentation, especially in legal settings. Her work includes advocating for legislative changes and raising awareness about financial abuse. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Sybil explains the origin of her podcast and website, also her unique background as a play therapist. Sybil recognizes gaps in the resources for survivors of domestic violence, especially families sharing children with abuser. The term "post-separation abuse" and examples of that behavior in an abusive partner. Sybil highlights the legal abuse faced by survivors sharing children with their abusers. Sybil explains the importance of meeting basic needs for healing and the additional challenges faced by those with no financial literacy. The Rising Beyond community of women who have experienced domestic violence and narcissistic abuse - how it works and how it helps to heal relationship trauma. Sybil outlines the opportunities for women recovering from abuse with the Rising Beyond membership including live events, workshops and a private peer support group where survivors can communicate and help one another. Sybil discusses the challenges of building trust after experiencing abuse and the role of the community in helping survivors rebuild trust. Sybil shares in involvement with legislation to impact family court and increase awareness about domestic violence. She notes the positive changes in training and awareness within her university and the broader community. Sybil encourages survivors to engage with her podcast and website to learn more about her work and resources. LINKS & RESOURCES: Rising Beyond Power & Control Website Rising Beyond Power & Control Podcast Rising Beyond Power & Control Facebook Page www.financialabusehelp.net…
Julia Foos, a Community Education Coordinator from the North Shore suburbs of Chicago, discusses her role at Sarah's Inn, an organization dedicated to helping domestic violence survivors. Julia, who has a background in social work and gender studies, joined Sarah's Inn after discovering their podcast during COVID. She highlights Sarah's Inn's comprehensive services, including crisis lines, counseling, legal aid and the PAIP program which helps perpetrators of domestic violence unlearn toxic behaviors. Julia emphasizes the importance of addressing both survivors and perpetrators to prevent reoffending. She also mentions Sarah's Inn TV, a digital platform launched during the pandemic to reach out to survivors and educate the public. Julia describes methods to seek support and create safety plans for recovery from domestic abuse. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Julia shares her background, education and her involvement in various volunteering and leadership opportunities. Julia discusses her internships in elder care, youth exploitation prevention, suicide prevention and emphasizes her passion for women's rights and domestic violence advocacy. Overview of Sarah's Inn's history and expansion as a critical Chicago resource. Julia explains the PAIP program for perpetrators of domestic violence to help unlearn abusive and toxic behaviors. Julia gives details about Sarah's Inn TV, a multi-media broadcasting resource for survivors of domestic violence. Julia discusses upcoming plans and events for Sarah's Inn during 2025. Julia gives advice to survivors of domestic violence who haven't left their relationship or have just recently left their abusive partnership. LINKS AND RESOURCES: Sarah's Inn Website PAIP Program at Sarah's Inn Sarah's Inn TV www.financialabusehelp.net…
Stephanie Russell, a Community Educator for The Ark Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Shelter in Central Texas, discusses her journey from a retired nurse to an advocate for survivors of domestic violence. She emphasizes the importance of individualized support, noting The Ark serves a diverse population including elderly and victims with pets. Stephanie highlights the comprehensive service needs each survivor can require including legal assistance, financial planning and even kennel accomodations. She emphasizes that victims of domestic violence need to prioritize safety and seek help, including post-separation support and community resources. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Stephanie finds her passion for helping survivors of domestic violence. An internship at The Ark Shelter leads to becoming a Community Educator to spread awareness about domestic violence. Avoiding the one-size-fits-all approach in servicing a diverse population of victims with individual needs. The steps to contacting a shelter and finding immediate care and resources. Finding shelter when you own pets and don't want to leave them behind. The Ark's Start Believing Campaign and its importance in educating the community and removing the stigma of being a domestic violence victim. Upcoming plans for The Ark and Stephanie's professional goals. LINKS AND RESOURCES: The Ark Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Shelter, Brownwood, Texas The Ark Community Education & Prevention Toolkit Power and Control Wheel www.financialabusehelp.net…
Michela Giordana Castro, licensed clinical social worker and religious trauma specialist, discusses her journey from a fundamental upbringing to helping survivors of abuse and those navigating spirituality post-religious conversion. Michela emphasizes the importance of not staying silent and avoiding shame in trauma recovery. She discusses ways to seek diverse support for domestic abuse, including professional help and safe individuals, and to prioritize your own well being. Michela highlights the challenges faced by those in religious instititutions who are under relationship abuse and encourages seeking external resources and details how her business supports domestic violence survivors who are still committed to their beliefs or who are transitioning out of religous faith and looking for a new path. KEY HIGHLIGHTS 1. Statistics of Protestant clergy mentioning domestic violence during service are low. 2. An open minded approach may be required if under abuse and not receiving support from religious authorities. 3. The internet as a significant tool in finding alternative answers when needing support. 4. The detrimental effects of staying silent and being shamed during trauma recovery. 5. Diverse support systems, including therapists and safe friends, as critical in recovery. 6. The challenges faced by domestic violence victims within a religious community. 7. Highlighting the role of self care and making even small changes to improve the situation. LINKS AND RESOURCES: Michela Giordana Castro YouTube Channel Michela Giordana Castro Instagram @michelasmindmunchies www.financialabusehelp.net…
Sherry Lutz Herrington, founder of Strong Women Thriving and Sherrington Financial Fitness, shares her journey from a financially abusive relationship to becoming a financial expert and advocate. Detailing her experiences with abuse and subsequent financial disasters, Sherry empasizes the importance of financial education and support for women recovering from financial abuse. She highlights her efforts to create resources and courses to help women regain financial stability and confidence. Sherry advises women on how to seek support and financial literacy during and after financial abuse in a marriage or romantic relationship. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Growing up in a financially unstable and abusive household. How your financial childhood affects your view of money as an adult. The challenges of recognizing and leaving an abusive marriage. The importance of financial education and support when starting over after abuse. The challenges of finding resources and starting Strong Women Thriving organization. How hard work and determination and bring around financial recovery. Tips for women still under financial abuse or starting over after financial abuse. RESOURCES AND LINKS: Strong Women Thriving Website Strong Women Thriving Video Interviews www.financialabusehelp.net…
Acquania Escarne, acclaimed financial coach and entrenpreneur, discusses her journey from learning finances at an unusually early age to her 15-year career in the Foreign Service and how she cleverly funded her own extensive travel experiences. Acquania emphasizes the importance of learning financial literacy no matter your age or circumstances and understanding the role of money as a tool for achieving your sometimes lost or broken dreams. Acquania shares her financial strategies for setting smart, realistic goals and also addresses the challenges women face with money, advocating for transparency and setting boundaries. Acquania encourages survivors of financial abuse to reclaim their financial power and pursue their true selves. KEY HIGHLIGHTS Parental Influence on Financial Perspective. Jump starting your dreams financially. Women and fear of money. Building generational wealth and education opportunities for descendants. Holiday spending and financial boundaries. Strategic planning of your money regardless of where you start. Financial advise for economic abuse survivors - how to get moving! LINKS AND RESOURCES: The Purpose of Money Website The Purpose of Money YouTube Channel The Purpose of Money Financial Blog The Purpose of Money Podcast www.financialabusehelp.net…
Terry, a social worker from Amherst, New York, now residing in Florida, shares her roller coaster journey of financial abuse in a relationship. She details how her partner, initially kind, later struggled with financial stability and drug abuse. Despite her efforts to support him, including lending money and providing a home, Terry faced repeated financial strain and evictions. She emphasizes the importance of seeking support, including therapy and legal resources, and advises others to protect their financial information and seek help from organizations like the Domestic Violence Coalition. Terry's story highlights the long-term impact of financial abuse and the importance of self-care and community support in recovery. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: Seek support from a therapist or domestic violence coalition. Protect your financial information, including passwords, bank accounts and credit cards. Consider opening a PO box and have your mail delivered there. Be patient and extend grace to yourself during the recovery process. Focus on your own financial health and goals, even if it takes time. Consider sharing your story and advocating for others who have experienced financial abuse. LINKS AND RESOURCES: National Coalition to End Domestic Violence www.financialabusehelp.net…
In this powerful episode of "Speaking Out on Financial Abuse", host Laurie G. welcomes Kate and Karen from "Broken to Brilliant", an innovative Australian charity founded by domestic violence survivors. Kate shares her personal journey from surviving abuse to creating an organization that mentors other survivors in rebuilding their lives. The conversation delves into the often misunderstood nature of financial abuse and how it's frequently overlooked as a form of domestic violence. Kate and Karen discuss the evolution of Broken to Brilliant, from its humble beginnings as a book project to its current status as a multi-faceted international organization offering various programs and resources. The guests introduce listeners to two of their key initiatives: the Financial Superwomen Program, designed to empower women with essential financial literacy and confidence, and the HEART (Healing Equine Art Resilience Therapy) Program, which helps survivors reconnect with themselves and others through innovative therapy techniques. They also highlight the online accessibility of their courses, making it possibile for international listeners to benefit from their resources. Throughout the episode, Kate and Karen offer invaluable insights and advice for both current victims of financial abuse and survivors starting to rebuild their lives. Their compassionate approach and wealth of experience shine through as they discuss the importance of seeking help and the transformative power of financial education and support. www.brokentobrilliant.org…
Financial abuse can be a silent yet devastating form of domestic violence, often going unrecognized even by those experiencing it. In this inaugural episode of "Speaking Out on Financial Abuse", host Laurie G. sheds light on this pervasive issue that affects individuals across all demographics. Laurie introduces the concept of financial abuse, defining it as a behavior that seeks to control a person's economic resources and threatens their financial autonomy. She outlines various manifestations of this abuse, from forcing partners to miss work to controlling how money is spent. Drawing from personal insights, Laurie emphasizes that financial abuse can cause long-term damage, strangling choices and drowning option. She points out that many victims, and even some abusers, may not realize they're caught in a cycle of economic violence. This episode sets the stage for future discussions on financial abuse, promising to feature survivor stories and expert insights. Laurie's goal is to general more public awareness, probide resources for those affected, and ultimately help recognize, prevent, and overcome financial abuse in their relationships. By tuning in, listeners will gain valuable knowledge about this often-overlooked form of domestic violence and learn how to take steps towards financial safety and independence. Whether you're currently in a financially abusive situation, supporting someone who is, or simply want to understand more about this issue, this podcast offers practical insights and hope for a financially secure future.…
Taking control of your financial future after abuse starts with small, deliberate steps. In this episode, US Navy veteran and economist Christy Piper shares insights from her own journey through financial abuse and her expertise helping others break free from toxic relationships. As the author of "Girl, You Deserve More! How to Break His Spell Over Your, Escape Your Toxic Partner and Become Independent", Christy addresses both breadwinners who are force to support an abusive partner and those who have been financially controlled with no access to their own money. She explains how to begin to build financial independence secretly and safely, even in situations where every dollar is monitored. Drawing on personal experience and her work with survivors, Christy discusses practical strategies for documenting abuse, creating private bank accounts, identifying trustworthy allies, and maintaining "normal" appearance while planning to exit. She shares candid insights about confiding in the wrong people and how to find truly reliable support systems. Whether you're gathering the courage to leave or rebuilding after escaping financial abuse, this conversation offers actionable steps to help you move forward. Listen in as Christy provides guidance on reclaiming your financial power while protecting your safety and well being. KEY HIGHLIGHTS: 1. Breadwinners aren't immune - some abusers deliberately targer financially successful partners, draining their resources while maintaining control. 2. Keep your circle small. Even well meaning friends and family can accidently expose your plans. Trust only 1-3 who understand the need for complete privacy. 3. Maintain appearance while you're planning your exit. Keep your usual patterns while quietly building separate accounts and savings. 4. Document everything. Written records of financial control and abuse become your proof against gaslighting and denial. 5. Watch for increased surveillance while planning to leave. Abusers often escalate tracking of phones, cars, accounts during this time. 6. False hope keeps you stuck. While you're hoping things might improve, you're less likely to take the steps towards freedom. LINKS AND RESOURCES: Book: Girl, You Deserve More! How to Break His Spell Over You, Escape Your Toxic Partner and Become Independent. Youtube Channel: Christy Piper…
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