Far away friend in Florida: How to support a friend after they lost everything in a fire

Jenny Says So Podcast

In this heartfelt episode of Jenny Says So, Jenny tackles a listener’s question about how to support a close friend who lost everything in a devastating wildfire.

Hi Jenny, I have a close friend who recently had to evacuate their home due to a fire and sadly lost everything. I live far away, so I’m not sure how to best support them from here. I also don’t want to say the wrong thing and accidentally add to their pain. What’s the most thoughtful way to help and show I care during such a devastating time? Signed, Far Away Friend in Florida

From afar, it can be difficult to know what to say or do, but Jenny introduces the VASE method—Validate, Acknowledge, Support, and Express—as a thoughtful approach to providing comfort and care. She offers compassionate advice on validating the enormity of your loved one’s loss, acknowledging their pain, and offering practical and emotional support without overstepping boundaries.

Listeners will come away with actionable tips for helping friends in crisis, such as offering financial assistance, coordinating logistical help, or simply reaching out with heartfelt words of love and connection. Jenny emphasizes that even small gestures can have a profound impact during times of overwhelming grief. Whether you’re near or far, this episode will inspire you to show up with kindness and care for the people who matter most.

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