102. Let's Normalize Being Single and Happy

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Societal pressures surrounding marriage often fuel negative perceptions of being single, creating undue stress and stigma for those who haven't followed traditional relationship paths. Meanwhile, gay men may encounter challenges in forming healthy long-term relationships due to societal prejudices, lack of legal recognition, and historical marginalization, contributing to a higher prevalence of singlehood within the community.
In this episode, we’re exploring the joys of embracing singlehood, finding happiness in solitude, and navigating the journey towards self-love while overcoming the societal stigma and pressures of single-shaming.
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1. Snarky Opener (00:00:00)

2. Episode Introduction (00:00:25)

3. LGBTQutie Shout-Out (00:01:43)

4. Single Man Out (00:02:13)

5. Tarot (00:04:02)

6. What Does it Mean to be Single? (00:05:01)

7. How Many People Are Single? (00:05:40)

8. Single Shaming (00:06:23)

9. Not All Singles Are Treated Equally (00:07:48)

10. Gay Men Aren’t Single Because They’re “Promiscuous” (00:08:14)

11. Social Stigma Plays a Role in Gay Men Finding Partners (00:09:19)

12. Normalize Being Single and Happy (00:10:09)

13. Celebrate Your Single Self (00:12:03)

14. Embrace Singledom (00:13:16)

15. Episode Closing (00:16:23)

16. Connect with A Jaded Gay (00:20:04)

17. Outtake (00:21:31)

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1. Snarky Opener (00:00:00)

2. Episode Introduction (00:00:25)

3. LGBTQutie Shout-Out (00:01:43)

4. Single Man Out (00:02:13)

5. Tarot (00:04:02)

6. What Does it Mean to be Single? (00:05:01)

7. How Many People Are Single? (00:05:40)

8. Single Shaming (00:06:23)

9. Not All Singles Are Treated Equally (00:07:48)

10. Gay Men Aren’t Single Because They’re “Promiscuous” (00:08:14)

11. Social Stigma Plays a Role in Gay Men Finding Partners (00:09:19)

12. Normalize Being Single and Happy (00:10:09)

13. Celebrate Your Single Self (00:12:03)

14. Embrace Singledom (00:13:16)

15. Episode Closing (00:16:23)

16. Connect with A Jaded Gay (00:20:04)

17. Outtake (00:21:31)

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