The 5 Comfort Languages

The Venn Dialogues

How do you comfort others in a time of need? Do you ever find it difficult to know what to do or say? It’s tough for everyone! However, there are some things that would be ok to say, and other things we should keep to ourselves. Join us while we discover different comfort languages and sort through the best and worst things to do for each.

Challenge: Take the quiz to find out your comfort language!

• Quiz - Thanks to Opinion Stage

Resources:

• How to comfort somebody with the five comfort languages - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mswQdZed51M (Video)
• The Idea of Comfort - https://www.jstor.org/stable/1511452
• How Does the Comforting Process Work? An Empirical Test of an Appraisal-Based Model of Comforting - https://www.academia.edu/download/46681186/How_Does_the_Comforting_Process_Work_An_20160621-17953-qwhmvt.pdf
• ADEC Forum: The Art of Condolence - https://www.krsf.com/pdf/adec-forum-oct-13-the-art-of-condolence.pdf
• There is No Good Card for This: What to say and do when like is scary, awful, and unfair to people you love - Emily McDowell and Kelsey Crowe (Book)

Other Resources:

• The Art of Comforting - Val Walker (Book)
• Find out your Love Language (Quiz)
• Find out your Apology Language (Quiz)

Quote: Would you stop thinking about what everyone wants? Stop thinking about what I want, what he wants, what your parents want. What do you want? - NOAH from the Notebook (not Jack - got my romantic drama leads confused during the episode)

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