Unpacking the Relationship Escalator: Lessons from 2 Decades of Ethical Non-Monogamy

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What if everything you thought you knew about relationships was wrong? Our guest today has been openly non-monogamous for over 20 years, challenging assumptions about love and intimacy every step of the way. Get ready to question societal rules and create connections that actually work for you.

Over the past two decades, Brandon has navigated the intricacies of open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. He shares his journey - one filled with hard-won lessons on communication, self-awareness, and letting go of expectations. Brandon explains key concepts like relationship anarchy and the "relationship escalator" in plain terms anyone can understand. He's painfully honest about handling jealousy, avoiding common pitfalls, and why you must know yourself before inviting others into an open dynamic.
Tune into this taboo-busting episode to:

• The Art of Communication: Brandon will share how he helps people improve their conversation skills to better manage new relationship energy (NRE).
• Self-Discovery and Emotional Intelligence: We'll talk about the importance of understanding yourself to better navigate the complexities of polyamorous relationships.
• Breaking Free from Social Expectations: Brandon will discuss how stepping outside conventional relationship models can lead to more authentic connections.

What part of Brandon's story are you curious about? Have you faced similar challenges in non-monogamy? I'd love to hear your experiences, so feel free to share!

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Розділи

1. Unpacking the Relationship Escalator: Lessons from 2 Decades of Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:00:00)

2. Exploring Non-Monogamous Relationships With Brandon (00:00:01)

3. Navigating Communication and Relationship Expectations (00:10:18)

4. Exploring Non-Monogamy and Relationship Dynamics (00:27:19)

5. [Ad] Eye-Opening Moments Podcast (00:34:02)

6. (Cont.) Exploring Non-Monogamy and Relationship Dynamics (00:34:39)