Episode 26 Joseph and Falon Warren

KickAss Couples Podcast

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In this week's episode, Matthew and Kim talk to Joseph and Falon Warren. Coming up on their two-year wedding anniversary they share a daughter and baby on the way. These two really prove opposites do attract. Coming from polar opposite upbringings they each brought unique learned behaviors into their relationship. One being the quiet, non-confrontational partner and the other being the ‘say it how it is’ partner, they had to learn and adapt to become the kickass couple they are today. Tune in to hear their take on parenting, conflict resolution, and transforming negative behaviors for the better.

Key Topics:

-Being a united front in front of children

-How to improve communication

-Marriage reset

-The problem with a lack of conflict

Quotes:

“Never fight in public, never correct your spouse in public… always correct each other behind closed doors, always complement each other in public.” -Joseph

“Compliment your spouse even if you’re mad at them, even if you disagree with them, have their back in front of the kids, and then go behind closed doors and say I completely disagree with that decision let’s talk about it.” -Joseph

“We both said prior to marriage, divorce is not in our vocabulary. So if we’re getting married we are fully 100% committed... there is no just-in-case for us.” - Falon

“You get out a piece of paper and a pen… you sit down together… and say there are some things I want to get off my chest...and it sets up a super safe feeling environment where I can say how I feel to my husband and he's not responding… he's just writing down notes and then it's his turn” -Falon

“For the first time, it was a year into the marriage… and the first year we had never gotten into a fight in the 2 years we dated, an argument, a disagreement and that was really concerning me.” Joseph

“The more I speak up, the more often I do it, the more often I go to him and say, hey I’m feeling this way, or thinking this, the easier it gets each time because every time I do it he’s responding with love and forgiveness.” -Falon

“You don't love people the way you want to love them, you love them the way they want to be loved and what they need and I think that's a real pearl that all couples struggle with even if you know it doesn't mean you do it.”

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