Balancing Life Unscripted: Embracing the Present While Planning for the Future

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Send us a text Life’s transitions can be tough, especially when faced with heartbreak or significant changes. In this episode, we uncover the profound impact that friendships have on our emotional wellbeing. Join us as we explore the concept of "picket fence friends" and how leaning on our social circles can help us heal during challenging times. We discuss the science behind the "tend and befriend" response, showcasing how our bodies are biologically wired to seek connection in moments of stress. This episode is packed with practical advice for building a robust support system. We highlight the importance of choosing the right friends, setting open communication, and allowing yourself to be supported. You’ll learn actionable steps to forge those meaningful connections and how they can turn heartbreak into healing. By the end of our conversation, you’ll have the tools to establish your metaphorical picket fence, ensuring you never face life’s challenges alone. Remember, healing is a community effort; don’t miss the chance to reach out to your friends. Join us for an uplifting discussion that reminds us of the power of connection and community in overcoming adversity. Subscribe to stay updated on future episodes, and don’t hesitate to share this with someone who might need their own picket fence right now! Build Your Own Picket Fence Step 1: Choose your fence posts wisely. These should be the people who: ✅ Love you unconditionally, but will call you out when needed. ✅ Don’t let you wallow, but also don’t force you to “move on” too fast. ✅ Know how to send the perfect meme at the perfect time. Step 2: Make the official call. Send the group text. Be honest. It might feel awkward, but I promise, your real friends want to be there for you. Step 3: Commit to the process. This isn’t just about texting them when you feel sad. Let them check in. Let them show up. Let yourself be supported. Step 4: When you’re ready, become someone else’s fence post. Because the best part? Once you’ve built your fence, you realize just how powerful it is—and suddenly, you become part of someone else’s. Shari's new book Table For 51 can be purchased now on Amazon - Purchases here and read about her travels through the US, her tough decision to divorce and her story of unexpectedly falling in love with a man who made her feel what home felt like. To book Shari to speak at your event or for media inquiries - please info@animperfectlyperfectlife.com or Shari's Publicist Kourtney Jason at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com Please visit An Imperfectly Perfect Life®, LLC to learn more about working with Shari. #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Stop Waiting, Start Reinventing: Take Control of Your Next Chapter 9:04

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Send us a text Reinvention is a messy, beautiful journey that requires people to create instead of waiting for change. Throughout the episode, we explore the importance of community, taking the first step towards change, and recognizing that everyone holds power within themselves to reinvent. • Explores the host's personal journey of constant reinvention • Highlights the significance of creating community over waiting for it • Encourages listeners to stop waiting for permission to change • Discusses the vital role of embracing imperfection in change • Emphasizes that the journey of reinvention is ongoing and necessary • Invitation to take the first step towards personal growth If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. If you're ready to take that next step towards reinvention, let's get in touch. For information about Shari Leid, please visit her website, An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley Nat@sharispeaks.com For coaching with Shari, please book a free discovery call Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available! Order your copy today - and don't forget to drop her a review! Join the movement! Join the private Facebook Page -- and grab a seat at Shari's table! ##animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #reinventioncoach #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Start and End Your Day with These Questions – Never Waste a Moment! 7:04

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Send us a text This week, we delve into the importance of intentional living through daily reflection and connection. Shari shares personal strategies for meaningful beginnings and ends to each day, encouraging mindfulness and personal growth. • Starting the day with a purposeful question • Significance of gratitude in daily life • Ending the day with a self-reflective inquiry • Connection through shared meals and community • Introducing the book *Table for 51* • Encouraging listeners to share personal reflection questions For information about Shari Leid, please visit her website , An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley Nat@sharispeaks.com For coaching with Shari, please book a free Discovery Call Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available for pre-sale! Order here #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Cameron Normand on Thriving in Blended Families 32:55

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Send us a text Blended family life can present unexpected challenges, requiring compassion and communication. Through personal stories and expert insights, we explore the realities of stepfamily dynamics, emphasizing the importance of setting expectations and boundaries for a harmonious family life. • Common challenges faced by stepparents • Importance of realistic expectations in blended families • Navigating high-conflict relationships with ex-partners • Discussing finances and gift-giving in stepfamilies • Role of communication in fostering understanding • Strategies for managing relationships with adult children • Value of pre-marital stepfamily coaching • Resources available for stepfamilies • Conclusion on the journey of blended family life and its rewards Cameron Normand, JD is CEO of Stepfamily Solutions and host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast . Through her coaching, courses, magazine and events, she has helped thousands of stepmoms and stepfamilies navigate their blended family lives. She also runs the premier Stepfamily Coach Academy, which certifies stepfamily coaches through a research and expert-backed curriculum. Cameron is a Certified Stepparent Coach and has been featured on CBS Los Angeles, the CW Austin and in The Cut, Business Insider, CNET, Kiplinger, ScaryMommy, and the Today Parenting Team, among others. Previously, Cameron spent 23 years working in politics first as a young lawyer on Capitol Hill, then leading policy strategy in various leadership roles at two of the world’s top movie studios. After becoming a stepmom of four, she realized that the tools to help blended families were few and far between. So at at the peak of her career, she walked away from politics to start a company that would fill the void. Cameron serves on several non-profit boards and was named one of the Washington Business Journal’s “Women Who Mean Business.” Cameron received her BA from the University of South Carolina and her JD from Emory University School of Law, and is currently pursuing a Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the College of William & Mary. She is a stepmom of four and is married to a retired Army veteran. In her spare time, Cameron lives for pop culture, travel, and working to train her stubborn puppy, Ernest Hemingwoof. --- For information about Shari Leid, please visit her website , An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley Nat@sharispeaks.com For coaching with Shari, please book a free Discovery Call here Table For 51 , Shari's newest book is now available for pre-sale! Order here! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Building Community Through Life's Detours 11:11

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Send us a text What if -- I told you that there is no such thing as a wrong turn? For media inquiries for Shari Leid contact Kourtney Jason, Publicist at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com For speaking engagements contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley at Nat@Sharispeaks.com To book a free discover call with Shari - please visit the link in bio or Shari's website #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Rediscovering Style: Embracing Personal Growth and a Wardrobe that Reflects Your Personal Style with Tannya Bernadette 27:58

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Send us a text Style is more than just clothes—it's a bridge to self-expression and personal growth. Join me as I chat with the remarkable Tannya Bernadette, founder of the Closet Edit, whose journey of launching her fashion business at the youthful age of 22 is nothing short of inspiring. For over 16 years, Tanya has been empowering individuals to discover joy in their existing wardrobes, challenging the notion that happiness in style comes from constant shopping. Together, we unravel the joys of rediscovering forgotten pieces and the playful challenge of mixing and matching outfits from what's already in your closet. Reflecting on my own transformative journey post-divorce, I share how moving homes became a catalyst for evaluating my wardrobe and embracing life's new chapters through fashion. Tannya and I delve into the synergy between wardrobe and personal evolution, highlighting how style can mirror life's transitions. Whether you're navigating life changes or simply looking to refresh your wardrobe perspective, this episode offers fresh insights and a creative push to reconnect with your personal style narrative. Visit The Closet Edit with Tannya Bernedette - https://myclosetedit.com/about For media inquiries for Shari Leid contact Kourtney Jason, Publicist at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com For speaking engagements contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley at Nat@Sharispeaks.com To book a free discover call with Shari - please visit the link in bio or Shari's website https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/ #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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A New Chapter Finding Love After Divorce with Special Guest Justina Chen 32:30

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Send us a text This episode dives into the refreshing approach to dating after divorce, featuring Shari Leid and Justina Chen, who explore the idea of dating as a playful journey rather than a pressure-filled hunt. With Justina's 21-date challenge as a focal point, they discuss building confidence, understanding desires, and fostering authentic connections in today's dating landscape. • Introduction to Shari and Justina’s friendship • Justina’s dating journey: 21-date challenge explained • Shari's experience with first dates following the dissolution of a 27 year marriage • Changing the mindset around dating and connections • Discovering personal preferences and desires in dating • The importance of fun and playfulness in romantic exploration • Navigating complexities when children are involved • Building trust and openness in the age of dating apps • Looking beyond superficial qualities to essential characteristics • Encouragement to engage openly in the dating process Today's guest, click here or visit Jusinachen.com to learn more about Justina Chen's work, book, and to learn how to contact Justina for speaking engagements, workshops, and consultation work. To book a free discovery with Shari click here or visit animperfectlyperfectlife.com For media inquiries contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason at Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com For speaking engagement inquiries contact Shari's Director of Development, Nat Measley at Nat@sharispeaks.com #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Introducing A New Chapter - Imperfections And All 6:53

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Send us a text The episode introduces Season 2 -- a journey of embracing life’s imperfections through authenticity, resilience, and personal growth. Shari Leid, our host, discusses her transformative experiences, including handling divorce and the courage to reinvent herself while introducing exciting new topics for season two. • Defining high-value individuals through authenticity and personal growth • The power of connections in inspiring life changes • Releasing her fourth book, “Table for 51,” capturing transformative experiences • Discussing topics for season two: dating, health, finance, and more • Emphasizing the importance of starting messy over seeking perfection • Encouraging listeners to embrace their unique journeys and connect with shared experiences Don't forget to hit subscribe! Share this with a friend and let's flip the box together. Until next time, keep it imperfectly perfect. Website: https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/ A Table For 51 Presale: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/table-for-51-shari-leid/1146738822?ean=9798991515641 Book a free discovery call: https://bookings.animperfectlyperfectlife.com/#/animperfectlyperfectlife Media Inquires: Kourtney@pacificandcourt.com Event or Business Development speaking inquiries: Nat@sharispeaks.com #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Last Episode of the Season: Divorce, Dating, and New Beginnings 10:53

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Send us a text After 26 years of marriage, facing the world of dating at 54 felt like stepping into an alternate universe. But what I discovered was not just about finding a partner; it was about rediscovering myself. Join me, Shari Leid, as I wrap up the first season of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted" and share the roller coaster ride of my divorce and the unexpected love that followed. This episode is a heartfelt reflection on closing chapters, embracing new beginnings, and the magic of speaking your truth. Settle in as I recount the journey from legal separation to the Halloween dissolution settlement and the transformation that led to a new relationship status that now graces my Facebook profile. As we look forward to the next season, I offer a glimpse into my adventures in dating and the realizations that came with it. I’ll reveal what it was like to navigate the dating scene with a curious heart and a fresh perspective. From questioning if I was dateable to meeting genuine, kind-hearted men, I learned that there’s no shortage of good guys out there. Season two promises to share these stories along with dating advice that’s grounded in real-life experiences. So grab something cozy and join me for a candid conversation about life’s unscripted adventures, infused with laughter, lessons, and hope for what lies ahead. #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Unscripted Transitions: Navigating Divorce and New Beginnings 14:11

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Send us a text As I stand on the brink of a personal reinvention, I find myself asking: what does it truly mean to embrace the beautiful chaos of life? With the end of my 27-year marriage looming, this could be the final episode before I take a brief hiatus before launching the second season of this podcast -- which will have a whole new look, video, and interviews. My journey has been anything but predictable, and this episode offers a candid look into how I've learned to transform life’s curveballs into new beginnings. From my upcoming TEDx talk in Eustis, Florida, to the exciting evolution of the Flip the Box movement, I'm sharing the stories and insights that have shaped my path as a reinvention coach. Join me, Shari Leid, as we laugh, reflect, and perhaps get a little lost together in this adventure called life. My speaking agent recently referred to me as "disarmingly weird," which I absolutely loved believe its in that authenticity and vulnerability that the magic happens. This conversation invites you into the raw and real moments of reinvention, where resilience is our guide. Grab something cozy and settle in as we explore how life's detours can lead us to the most unexpected and rewarding destinations. Whether you're amid your own life transition or just along for the ride, there’s humor, inspiration, and perhaps a few tips waiting for you here. #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Navigating Life Unscripted: Handing unexpected negative encounters 14:45

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Send us a text Have you ever faced a life-altering change and wondered how to navigate the uncertain road ahead? Join me, Shari Leid, as I open up about my personal journey through the ups and downs of life after a 26-year marriage. I share my candid experiences of saying goodbye to my dream home, stepping into the dating world in my fifties, and handling unexpected negative encounters. Throughout this episode, you'll discover the three powerful strategies that have helped me maintain a positive outlook and keep my focus, even when life feels unscripted and overwhelming. Embrace the beauty of imperfection with me as we explore how life's imperfect moments can truly define who we are. Hear how these experiences have inspired me to live with authenticity and courage, encouraging you to continue writing your own story with love and daring. This conversation is not only a reflection on personal growth but also a beacon of hope and resilience for anyone facing similar challenges. Connect with me at imperfectlyperfectlife.com for more conversations that inspire, and don't forget to subscribe and leave a review to share your thoughts. #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Navigating Midlife Divorce: The Three Friends You Need 10:49

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Send us a text Ever wondered how to reclaim your life and identity after a divorce in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or even 70s? Discover the secret weapons you need to navigate this unexpected chapter with grace and humor. Join Shari Leid as she reveals the three essential friends everyone needs: the one who spots your blind spots, the invaluable connector, and the friend who keeps you laughing. From dodging emotional potholes to embracing your new identity, this episode promises to be your guide through the messy, yet transformative journey of post-divorce life. Shari makes the daunting topic of divorce surprisingly (almost) enjoyable. Learn why having a friend who can see what you can't is crucial, how a well-connected buddy can help you rebuild, and why laughter truly is the best medicine during tough times. Whether you're sorting out the logistics of your new life or dipping your toes back into the dating pool, Shari's insights and the power of friendship will light your way to a brighter, more fulfilling future. Grab your favorite beverage and get ready for a conversation that's as enlightening as it is entertaining! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Debating with Grace: Mastering the Art of Keeping Cool in Conflict 15:48

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Send us a text Ever felt like you're walking on a tightrope during a heated argument, just waiting to fall off? Today, we promise you'll master the delicate art of debating with grace and keeping your cool. Join Shari on "An Imperfectly Perfect Life: Life Unscripted" as she shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for navigating conflicts without losing your mind or your manners. From political spats at family gatherings to the emotionally charged exchanges of a divorce, Shari guides you through staying firm in your beliefs while respecting others. Shari reveals the secret to becoming the calm, collected person in any debate: letting go of the need to win. See how this transformative mindset can lighten your emotional load and lead to more meaningful conversations. With tips on clear thinking and genuine engagement, this episode equips you to handle any disagreement gracefully. #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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The Actionist Life: Embrace Imperfection, Build Community, and Move Forward 8:53

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Send us a text Ever wondered how to transform the chaos of a major life transition into a springboard for a new beginning? Picture this: you're standing amidst the rubble of a broken relationship, feeling overwhelmed. Now, imagine turning that rubble into stepping stones for a brighter future. Join me, Shari Leid, as we explore how to embrace being an "actionist" during life's most challenging moments, like divorce. We’ll break down the difference between merely talking about change and actually living it by taking concrete steps forward. This episode is packed with candid conversations and personal insights on navigating big emotions and making meaningful progress, no matter how small. Just like rock climbing, where every climber's path to the summit is unique, your journey through life's transitions will be distinctly yours. Embracing imperfections and finding your own way forward is what truly counts. Together, we'll highlight the importance of doing what you can with what you have, right where you are. Tune in for a relatable, encouraging, and laughter-filled chat that reminds you that every imperfect step is a vital part of the journey. Grab something cozy, settle in, and let’s make progress together. #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker…

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Empowering Against Imposter Syndrome: Embracing Life's Plot Twists 9:19

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