Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable a ...
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Still Needing Constant Reassurance in Your Relationship? Here’s Why 👀 . This episode is for the anxious girlies who look like they have it all together … but on the inside, you’re checking the vibes like it’s your full-time job. We’re talking: ✨ Why your brain craves constant reassurance—and how to stop needing it ✨ The connection between high achi…
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This episode is for the anxious girlies who look like they have it all together (you’ve got degrees, deadlines, and the job)… but on the inside, you’re checking the relationship vibes like it’s your full-time job. We’re talking: ✨ Why your brain craves constant reassurance and how to stop needing it ✨ The connection between high achievement & emoti…
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We’re unpacking the 3 big reasons your anxious attachment isn’t healing, even if you’re doing everything “right.” Spoiler: it’s not about trying harder… it’s about trying differently. If you’re a high-achieving, self-aware, anxious girlie who still feels like a walking red flag in relationships, this one’s for you. We’re talking: ✨ Why performing y…
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Ever wonder what it actually looks like to go from anxious, overthinking, “I’m probably the problem” energy… to grounded, confident, and finally feeling secure in your relationship? In this raw and heart-hitting episode, I’m sitting down with one of my 1:1 coaching client, a high-achieving, military-working, nurse-extraordinaire, who decided to sto…
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Welcome back to the Be That Healing Girl podcast! If your mind is spiraling, your stomach’s in knots, and you’ve refreshed your texts 18 times in the last 3 minutes… this episode is your emergency toolkit! In this quick but powerful 5-minute pep talk, I’m giving you grounding reminders to come back home to yourself when your anxious attachment gets…
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Ever find yourself refreshing your texts like your life depends on it? Or spending 10 hours doing two hours of work because your brain won’t stop obsessing over that thing you said? Yep. This one’s for you, bb! In this episode, I’m giving you powerful (and surprisingly calming) reminders for when your anxious attachment kicks in HARD. Whether you'r…
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Ever held it in like a champ… until you exploded over something small (but actually not small at all)? 🙃 You didn’t want to ruin the vibe. It was the weekend. You were on vacation. You told yourself “It’s fine” five times in your head and then snapped over the way they chewed. Yup. This one’s for you, babe. In this weeks episode , we’re talking: Ho…
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Why do we keep explaining... and explaining... and explaining — and still walk away feeling misunderstood (and kind of embarrassed)? 😵💫 In this week's episode we’re diving into why overexplaining is so common for high-achieving, anxious-attached girlies — and why it actually makes you feel less secure (not more). We’ll talk about: - How overexplai…
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You’re the go-to girl at work, the one who gets it DONE… but when it comes to your relationship? Cue the overthinking, second-guessing, and constant need for reassurance. 🫠 Sound familiar? This week we’re talking about one of the BIGGEST blocks I see with my high-achieving, high-performing girlies: how to actually build self-trust (especially after…
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Are you overthinking every convo, second-guessing yourself constantly, and wondering... “Am I triggered or am I actually right?” 😅 Welcome to the most validating episode you didn’t know you needed. In this week’s episode we’re diving deep into that hot mess moment we all know too well—when you can’t tell if your anxious attachment is flaring up or …
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This week, we're getting real about the messy middle — where you logically know you’re in a good relationship but emotionally still feel anxious AF. If you’re constantly asking: “Why isn’t this enough?” “Why do I still feel so unsure?” “Why can’t I just be chill for once?!” Then this episode is your exact starting point. 👏 Inside, we’re talking abo…
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Welcome to the episode every anxious attachment girlie needs in her back pocket. If you spiral when they don’t text back, replay convos 14 times in your head, or wake up with an emotional hangover worse than a tequila bender… this one's for you. 💌 We’re talking about what actually works in the heat of the moment — when you’re triggered, panicked, a…
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Let’s be real: you’re the hyper-independent girlie who gets ish DONE. You’ve got the degree, the business, the receipts. But when it comes to relationships? Your anxious attachment is quietly (or not so quietly) throwing hands in the background. 😅 In this episode, I’m diving deep into what I call the "Don’t need anyone but kinda wish they’d text me…
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes I see when people try to “fix” their anxious attachment triggers—and why those habits might actually be keeping you stuck in the same cycle. 🚨 We’re diving into: 🔥 Why being hard on yourself is making it worse (and what to do instead) 🔥 The sneaky ways perfectionism is showing up in your heali…
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Imagine going from spiraling over “Do they really like me?” to casually ring shopping like it’s no big deal. 🤯 That’s exactly what’s happening for my clients—and in this episode, I’m giving you the real tea on how they went from anxious to ENGAGED. 💍✨ If you’re a high-achieving, overthinking, lowkey-perfectionist queen who’s crushing it in your car…
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Feel like you're the one keeping the relationship alive? 😩 You’re planning the dates, remembering the little things, prioritizing them… and they’re just kinda there. So what gives? Are you asking for too much? Are they low-effort or just wired differently? And most importantly—how do you actually get them to step up without nagging, over-functionin…
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STOP DOING ALL THE WORK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP 😤 (Why You’re Exhausted & How to Fix It) Ever feel like you’re carrying the whole damn relationship on your back? Planning the dates, making space in your schedule, keeping the energy going—while he just... coasts? Yeah, I see you, and this episode is for you. Today, we’re breaking down why high-achievin…
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This week I’m joined by Dr. Jeanine Staples-Dixon, a literal genius, tenured professor at Penn State, and someone who knows why you keep self-sabotaging in love. We’re breaking down: 🔥 Why your relationship anxiety isn’t just a “you” thing—it’s a SYSTEM thing 🔥 How patriarchy, white supremacy & capitalism keep you chasing love & approval 🔥 The snea…
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🚨 Reality check for my high-achieving, anxious girlies in relationships with an avoidant partner… 🚨 Valentine’s Day can be a lot—especially if you’re anxiously attached and caught in the push-pull dynamic. The overthinking. The “are we okay?” spiral. The low-key panic when they don’t text back right away. Sound familiar? You’re not alone, and this …
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If you’re anxiously attached and dating an avoidant, you already know this relationship is basically an extreme sport. One minute, you’re feeling all the love; the next, you’re staring at your phone wondering why they haven’t texted back for seven hours (… or seven days 😅). If you’re deep in the “is this ever going to work, or am I just setting mys…
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Okay, real talk—are you actually pushing away someone great, or do you just keep attracting emotionally unavailable people? Because SAME. Been there, lived it, wrote the metaphorical book. This week, we’re getting deep into: 💔 Why you might be sabotaging a good relationship without realizing it 🔥 The real reason you keep attracting emotionally unav…
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✨ Hey girlies, welcome to SEASON 2 of the BeThatHealingGirl Podcast! ✨ We’re leveling up big time—new vibes, new content, and SO many juicy convos ahead. Today, we’re diving into something we all know too well: the push-pull dynamic in relationships. You know, when things feel AMAZING one moment and like a dumpster fire the next? Been there. Let’s …
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✨ It’s 2025 and we’re not carrying anxious attachment into this new era okay? Feeling stuck in the what ifs and putting your life on hold for someone else? Trust me, I’ve been there. In this special year-end episode, we’re diving into how anxious attachment has been holding you back from living your best life—and, more importantly, how to leave it …
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In this episode I’m breaking down why pretending you’re totally fine when you’re actually spiraling inside is keeping you stuck. 🚨Spoiler Alert: Being unbothered isn’t an act. It’s a practice. If you’re tired of filling your calendar, holding in your feelings, and THEN word-vomiting because you can’t hold it in anymore… this episode is for you, hon…
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Anxious Meets Avoidant: How We Overcame the Fear Cycle in Our Relationship (Part 2 with Craig!)
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💖 This is Part 2 of my special series with none other than my husband, Craig! In this episode, we’re diving deep into the patterns that defined the early days of our relationship—hello, anxious and avoidant attachment styles—and how we worked through them to create the connection we have today. We get super real about the miscommunications, the fea…
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🚨 SPECIAL EPISODE ALERT! 🚨 This week on BeThatHealingGirl, I’m joined by none other than… my husband, Craig! 💍✨ We’re pulling back the curtain on our relationship and diving into everything from attachment styles (anxious vs. avoidant anyone? 👀), to the hilarity of fighting over In-N-Out Burger, to how fear vs. love plays a major role in relationsh…
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So you asked for the reassurance. You got it. And... you’re still spiraling. WTF, right? 🤯 This week, we’re getting into why that little “everything’s fine” doesn’t actually hit the way you hoped it would—and why it never will (spoiler: it’s not about them, bb, it’s about YOU). 💅 We’re unpacking the real tea on why reassurance is just a Band-Aid fo…
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Ever sent a 3-page text knowing you shouldn’t? Or started a fight just because you couldn’t scratch that itch? Yep, we’re going there. If overthinking has you spiraling like Alice down the rabbit hole (been there!), this episode is for you. We’re diving deep into the dos and don’ts of breaking free from the overthinking cycle so you can step back f…
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Does a little distance feel like a red alert to you? Whether it's a delayed text, a faraway look, or physical distance (hello, long-distance relationships!), this episode dives into the heart of how to stay connected even when your mind is spiraling. With the holidays around the corner, distance—emotional or physical—might hit a little differently,…
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In this very special episode, we’re welcoming our first guest ever to the podcast, and I couldn’t be more excited! Today, I’m joined by Athena, a former client who went ALL IN on her healing journey. We’re diving deep into her incredible transformation and how she moved from anxiety, overthinking, and self-doubt to self-regulation and confidence in…
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This week, we’re diving deep into a HUGE topic—how to heal the root of anxious attachment. If you’ve been doing all the things—therapy, hot girl walks, self-help books—and you’re still feeling stuck in the same patterns, this episode is for you. In this episode, I’m breaking down: Why surface-level fixes might not be enough to heal your relationshi…
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If you’re constantly scanning for signs that someone’s about to up and leave, even when there’s no reason to worry, this episode is for you. We’re talking about: Why you might feel abandoned even when you logically know your partner isn’t going anywhere, How to face your fear and heal instead of spiraling and I’m sharing my personal stories, includ…
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If you’re a girlie who’s out here doing ALL the things—hot girl walks, therapy, reading every self-help book—yet still find yourself obsessing over why he hasn’t texted back (or waiting for the other shoe to drop), then THIS episode is for you! We’re diving into simple micro-habits you can start adding to your routine to speed up your healing proce…
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Welcome back, bb! In today’s episode we are diving deep into the juicy topic of self-doubt in your relationship. I’m calling out all the messy patterns that keep you stuck—whether it’s your brain going full-on doom mode, or you’re on a reassurance binge asking your boo, “Do you love me?” for the 400th time. We’re talking: Overthinking yourself into…
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We’re diving deep into something every anxious attachment babe knows all too well: feeling secure when you're apart. Whether you’re long-distance, just getting back from a trip, or emotionally distant after a fight—this episode is for you. 💛 I’m spilling all the tea on how I navigated long-distance with my now-husband (yes, it’s possible to go from…
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We’re diving headfirst into something a lot of you have been DM-ing me about: external validation and how it's triggering your anxious attachment. If you’re that girly who gets told you’re pretty, and five minutes later you’re like, “But do they really mean it?!”—then this episode is for you. We’re talking all about that restless need for constant …
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You know that feeling when your partner says “I love you,” and you're like, “Yeah, but tell me again”? If that’s you, this episode is for YOU. Here’s what we’re diving into: Why you’re constantly seeking reassurance (and what it really says to your partner) - How asking for reassurance on repeat can make them feel unheard (ouch, I know ) - The firs…
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Today's episode is all about how to stop overthinking when the vacation ends. You know that moment when the trip wraps up and your brain goes into overdrive, analyzing every little detail? Did it mean as much to them as it did to me? Was that little fight a big deal? Or maybe you’re wondering if you were too much or not enough. Sound familiar? Then…
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We’re diving into a topic so many of us know all too well—feeling emotionally distant in your relationship. Whether you’re dating someone who seems emotionally unavailable or feeling like your connection just isn’t clicking the way you want, this episode is here to help you uncover what’s really going on. You’ll learn why you keep attracting emotio…
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Ever wonder why you can’t stop picking apart every text or replaying that one convo in your head? In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between overthinking and overanalyzing (because, yes, there IS a difference), and how you can start dialing it back to save your sanity—and your relationship. You’ll learn the real difference between ov…
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I’m SO excited for this episode! 🌟 Seriously, I've been dreaming of doing this kind of format for ages, and I finally found the perfect way to connect with YOU. 💖 We’re diving into your questions in a special “Situation Room” segment! 📬 Remember those newspaper columnists who would dish out advice? Well, now it’s my turn to do that with my amazing …
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the messy interplay between being hyper-independent and feeling anxious in relationships. We’ll talk about why this often leads to feeling disconnected, even when you're a total boss in every other area of your life. Plus, I’ll share some tips to help you navigate these tricky waters, so you can shift from surface…
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Today we’re diving deep into the juicy world of relationship boundaries and expectations. This topic is a total game-changer because let’s be real—boundaries are the backbone of any healthy relationship. If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving your all but getting nothing in return, or if you’re holding back from addressing those little irks that hu…
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Today, we’re getting into a juicy topic that we all know too well—needing constant reassurance in our relationships. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering if you’re the drama queen (spoiler alert: we all have our moments!), or if you’re with a good person who’s just not serving the vibe you crave, then baby, you’re in the right place! This episod…
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Hey babes! This week, we’re diving deep into how to fix overthinking in relationships. It's a special episode because my husband and I are celebrating our five-year anniversary! Whether you’re an anxious girly wondering if he still loves you or if he’s going to leave, this episode is for YOU. Join our free community for exclusive courses, live trai…
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Hey Girlies, this week we’re diving deep into the communication habits that are hurting your attachment style. If you’re an anxious girly who gets stressed when they don’t text back, this episode is a must-listen! In today’s episode we'll discuss why focusing on the quantity of texts is hurting your relationship, how to recognize and prioritize qua…
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In Today's episode we're hitting "Trigger City" and talking about how to handle it when your anxious attachment goes haywire. We're diving deep into overthinking, over-apologizing, and those full-on freak-outs. I'll share my top tips on how to respond instead of react and how to calm your mind and body when those triggers hit. Get ready to Identify…
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Hey Girlies! This week, we're tackling one of the sneakiest triggers for overthinking in relationships: LONELINESS. If you're an anxious girly constantly replaying past convos and overanalyzing texts, this episode is for YOU! In today’s episode we're talking about how loneliness fuels relationship anxiety and anxious attachment, the difference betw…
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Today’s episode is ALL about stopping that pesky overthinking in your relationships. We'll tackle how to tell if you’re spiraling or actually thinking critically, recognizing when your nervous system is in freak-out mode and tips to go from overthinking to chill and confident vibes. JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube HEALING F…
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