Hey, it’s Lois Lane Miami, and in tonight’s episode of The Equalizer Diaries, I’m just here sharing my unfiltered thoughts on life. You ever feel like you’re just going through the motions? Like everything’s the same, no matter where you go? Well, I’m diving deep into that, from wanting to dig up dinosaur bones to questioning why we settle for the …

Welcome to *The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast*. I’m Lois Lane Miami, the Equalizer, here to bridge the gaps in understanding between people from different walks of life. In this episode, I explore the “Poverty Mindset Disconnect,” a topic that resonates with me personally, as I’ve experienced both poverty and relative financial stability. Growing up in a…

Good morning, everyone! This is Lois Lane Miami on The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, and today’s episode is one that many will find eye-opening: “1000 Ways Money Buys Happiness.” It’s a bold topic, and it’s time to dismantle the age-old notion that “money can’t buy happiness.” Ever notice that the people who say money doesn’t buy happiness are often tho…

Welcome to “The Purple Koolaid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami. Today, I discuss a topic that affects us all: “Unforgiving Perfect People.” These individuals believe they know everything and dismiss anyone who disagrees with them as ignorant or unworthy. Their unwavering belief in their infallibility and refusal to forgive others for past mista…

Using the phrase "We're Grown" to Manipulate You Welcome to “The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami! After a busy few weeks, I’m back to share some insights and thoughts I’ve been eager to discuss. Today’s episode focuses on the concept of “falling for the okey-doke,” exploring the tactics men use to manipulate women, and more. For…

This is a song I wrote and performed featuring Pit Bull the rapper back in 2003 when I was working on my then “Rap Career”. I never quite made it in the music business. But I had a lot of fun, made a little money and had the pleasure of working with many great, successful and established artists. I was even signed and paid as a writer for the late,…

Welcome to “The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami, also known as the Equalizer. In this episode, I discuss the controversial notion of whether women can use men solely for sex. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, I argue that it’s not possible for women to genuinely use men in this way due to inherent differences i…

Today, we’re discussing “falling for the okey-doke” in a professional setting. We’ve previously covered avoiding traps with money and relationships, but now we’re tackling workplace pitfalls. From unknowingly training your replacement to being underpaid and covering company expenses, we’ll explore how to recognize and avoid these traps. Learn how a…

Welcome to "The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast" with your host, Lois Lane Miami, "The Equalizer" as I discuss real-life experiences, provide insightful advice, and give you engaging stories as I explore the complexities of relationships, personal growth, and the many "okey-dokes" we encounter in life. In this episode, I focus on women, by delving into the…

Today, I’m discussing a topic I see many women struggling with after a breakup: the overwhelming concern about what their ex is doing with their new woman. Drawing from experience and the countless conversations I’ve had with men in various settings—from working in male-dominated industries to touring with music professionals, I’ll share insights o…

Today, I'm diving into the complex world of cheating. We'll explore the titles women compete for—side chick, wifey, main chick—and the dynamics between these roles. Women often engage in rivalries when dealing with a cheating man, labeling each other as the mistress or homewrecker. These titles create a hierarchy where the "main" woman feels valida…

In this episode of the Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I explore the deeply emotional and often misunderstood world of cheating. I shed light on common misconceptions, such as the belief that once a cheater, always a cheater. Drawing from personal experience, I share the devastating impact of discovering infidelity and the emotional responses it triggers.…

In this insightful episode of the Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I share valuable tips on how to avoid getting involved with men who are secretly married or have live-in girlfriends. Drawing from my personal experience, I provide insight and practical advice to help you identify the subtle signs that a man might be hiding a significant other. Many people…

As most men already know, there are all types of women in the world. Some will give you their money, some need your money, and others will try to take your money whether they need it or not. Of course, there are women that fit into none of these categories, but since this podcast is about the “okey doke,” we focus on these scenarios. In this episod…