It's all about the cake

The Tutor Podcast

Neil explores the importance of identifying and prioritising personal values for success in tutoring, teaching, or coaching businesses. Drawing from his extensive experience, Neil shares insights on how a clear understanding of one's core values can alleviate the overwhelm of opportunities and guide decision-making. He emphasises the significance of recognising what truly matters—like family, honesty, and professional integrity—over material gains. By using the metaphor of cake, Neil encourages listeners to focus on building a solid foundation of values before seeking the "icing" of financial success and other perks. This episode is a thought-provoking exploration of how aligning actions with values can lead to a more fulfilling and purposeful career.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Identify Your Values: Understanding your core values is crucial for making decisions and navigating opportunities. Take time to reflect on what is truly important to you.

2. Prioritise Your Values: It's not just about knowing your values; it's essential to order them correctly. Your highest value should serve as the foundation for all other values, guiding your choices and actions.

3. Self-Reflection Questions: To clarify your values, ask yourself why each value is important to you. Continue this questioning process until you reach a point of clarity about your deepest values.

4. Distinguish Between Cake and Icing: Your highest values represent the "cake" of your life, while other desires and goals are the "icing." Focus on building a strong foundation (the cake) before seeking additional rewards (the icing).

5. Commit to Your Values: Recognize that certain opportunities may not align with your highest values. Be prepared to turn down lucrative offers if they compromise what you hold most dear, ensuring that your actions reflect your true priorities.

BEST MOMENTS

"Every day, my friend has lots of opportunities... it means he has to endure the agony of overwhelm of opportunity."

"Values are like the building blocks of a house. Your highest value is the foundation upon which every other block is laid."

"If I'm presented with an opportunity to do something a bit shady... I just ask myself, if Alex found out I did this thing, what would he think?"

"When your values are disordered, your life will feel like a battlefield."

"Those deeply held highest values, the ones you'll never compromise. They're your cake. The other things, well, they're the icing and the sprinkles on the top of that cake."

VALUABLE RESOURCES

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Neil Cowmeadow is a maverick peripatetic guitar teacher from Telford with over 19 years’ experience in the business of helping people. Learn how to start, grow and love your business with Neil’s invaluable advice and tips without the buzzwords and BS!