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Вміст надано Kiki Astor. Весь вміст подкастів, включаючи епізоди, графіку та описи подкастів, завантажується та надається безпосередньо компанією Kiki Astor або його партнером по платформі подкастів. Якщо ви вважаєте, що хтось використовує ваш захищений авторським правом твір без вашого дозволу, ви можете виконати процедуру, описану тут https://uk.player.fm/legal.
Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirling at a ball. Wondering about the historical roots of fork placement or the proper way to decline a social invitation without causing a scandal? Auntie Kiki has you covered, darling! In each episode, Kiki Astor delves into the archives of social graces, uncovering the hidden gems of bygone eras and bringing them into the 21st century with a wink and a nod. Learn how to curtsy with confidence, when to deploy the subtle art of shade, and why you should never, ever drop your pedigree papers, whether it's during a soirée, a cocktail party, or in the PTA or HOA meeting. From navigating the treacherous waters of modern technology to mastering the delicate dance of small talk, Kiki Astor is here to ensure you ascend the social ladder without stepping on any well-heeled toes. So, grab your monocle, straighten your tiara, and prepare for a delightful blend of refined advice and uproarious anecdotes that will have you laughing all the way to the gilded gates of high society. Subscribe now and embark on a journey through the annals of etiquette, where Kiki Astor transforms the socially awkward into the effortlessly elegant, one podcast episode at a time. After all, darling, why be gauche when you can be gloriously graceful? 🥂 #AwkwardEtiquette #KikiAstor #MannersMatter
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Вміст надано Kiki Astor. Весь вміст подкастів, включаючи епізоди, графіку та описи подкастів, завантажується та надається безпосередньо компанією Kiki Astor або його партнером по платформі подкастів. Якщо ви вважаєте, що хтось використовує ваш захищений авторським правом твір без вашого дозволу, ви можете виконати процедуру, описану тут https://uk.player.fm/legal.
Welcome to "Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor" – the podcast where old money meets new manners, and your Auntie Kiki spills the tea on all things etiquette, with a side of laughter and a dash of aristocratic charm! Join the illustrious Kiki Astor, author of smutty romance novels and grande dame of decorum, as she tackles your most pressing etiquette questions with the finesse of a debutante twirling at a ball. Wondering about the historical roots of fork placement or the proper way to decline a social invitation without causing a scandal? Auntie Kiki has you covered, darling! In each episode, Kiki Astor delves into the archives of social graces, uncovering the hidden gems of bygone eras and bringing them into the 21st century with a wink and a nod. Learn how to curtsy with confidence, when to deploy the subtle art of shade, and why you should never, ever drop your pedigree papers, whether it's during a soirée, a cocktail party, or in the PTA or HOA meeting. From navigating the treacherous waters of modern technology to mastering the delicate dance of small talk, Kiki Astor is here to ensure you ascend the social ladder without stepping on any well-heeled toes. So, grab your monocle, straighten your tiara, and prepare for a delightful blend of refined advice and uproarious anecdotes that will have you laughing all the way to the gilded gates of high society. Subscribe now and embark on a journey through the annals of etiquette, where Kiki Astor transforms the socially awkward into the effortlessly elegant, one podcast episode at a time. After all, darling, why be gauche when you can be gloriously graceful? 🥂 #AwkwardEtiquette #KikiAstor #MannersMatter
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×In this episode of Awkward Etiquette , host Kiki Astor—former Greenwich golden girl turned Montecito-adjacent observer—dives into the psychology, etiquette, and everyday acrobatics of living near the ultra-wealthy without actually being one of them. Whether you're sipping $7 cold brew in the shadow of a $70M estate or attending a fundraiser where your thrifted Loro Piana blazer is one dry-cleaning away from falling apart, this episode is for you. Inspired by her deliciously sharp new novel Service Entrance , Kiki dissects the invisible rules of old-money enclaves, from how to dress when you're underdressed to the emotional labor of blending in with billionaires. She explores luxury envy, stealth wealth, club culture, class-passing, and the psychological toll of being close—but not in —the club. With segments on status symbols, social survival, aspirational interiors, and what your car says about your net worth, this episode is essential listening for anyone who’s ever parked a sensible sedan beside a Bentley and felt... feelings, or if you've ever wondered why we envy, admire, love and hate rich people- and how to live alongside them when you don't have the same means. These are the life skills for non-billionaires who nevertheless live near them, in what might as well be a different world.…
In this episode of Awkward Etiquette, host Kiki Astor explores the world of modern household staff in wealthy homes. The world of Downton Abbey is a bit antiquated- how do today's wealthy people run their homes? With sophisticated household staff. Discover how today's private service professionals differ from traditional butlers and maids, with many trained in luxury hospitality or even military service. Learn about the complex dynamics between staff and employers, including the differences between old money and new money attitudes. Get insider tips on hiring and managing household employees, from nannies to estate managers. Kiki shares etiquette advice for interacting gracefully with staff, whether in your own home or as a guest. Plus, get a sneak peek at Kiki's upcoming novel 'Service Entrance' which offers a fictional glimpse into the private world of household staff. Don't miss this fascinating look at the invisible engine that keeps luxury homes running smoothly.…
Have you been ghosted by your friend group without a clue why? Welcome to Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, your cheeky guide to modern manners and social survival. In this episode, Kiki tackles the concept of the real-life shadowban —when you’re not blocked or unfollowed, but subtly iced out of social events, text threads, and brunch invites. Learn how to spot the signs of a social shadowban, what accidental faux pas might’ve triggered it (yes, even your thirsty Instagram stories count), and how to gracefully re-enter the scene with charm, class, and a soft-launch-worthy glow-up. Whether you’ve been quietly canceled , ghosted by the group chat , or just feel like everyone’s “busy” all of a sudden, this episode serves etiquette advice with a twist of reality check…
In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, yes, we’re breaking down the myths behind the old money aesthetic- but we're sharing the secrets of all effortlessly stylish people. Think you can buy the uniform and waltz into the club? Think again. Kiki explores the difference between curating and cosplaying, and why real style can’t (always) be Amazon-Primed. We dive into the psychology behind inherited clothes and inherited neuroses, and how to decode your upbringing to find your true personal style. Why does new money often look so...tacky? Why do old money wardrobes (and homes) have that quiet, undone charm? It’s not about perfection—it’s about patina over polish, heritage over hype. With nods to Carolyn Bessette’s secret sauce, Kiki shows you how to train your eye, embrace imperfection, and stop copying starter packs in favor of becoming a classic in progress. Because style—real style—is lived in, layered, and entirely yours.…
Looking to marry up, move up, or simply mix with high society—without getting laughed out of the room? In this episode of Awkward Etiquette , Kiki Astor pulls back the velvet curtain on modern social climbing and how to do it with grace, discretion, and strategic charm . Whether you're angling for a seat at the boardroom table, a place in the Hamptons, or just a better table at Cipriani, this is your cheat sheet to elegant upward mobility. We’ll cover: The unspoken rules of old money circles, new money power networks, and the high-level corporate elite How to cultivate access and influence without looking obvious (or desperate) What to do and not to do if you're trying to marry into money—and whether you actually should Real examples of people who climbed tastefully... and those who absolutely did not How to avoid becoming a society cautionary tale (or group chat punchline) If you’ve ever asked yourself “How do I fit in with people wealthier, smarter, or more connected than me?” , this is the episode that gives you the etiquette edge—minus the cringe. Perfect for anyone navigating high society, luxury social circles, elite dating, or aspirational career moves.…
In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , your Auntie Kiki spills a whole chilled bottle of rosé worth of her best secrets on how to entertain with true old money elegance—no villa or vintage yacht required. From Newport-style lawn luncheons to boho-glam back garden soirées, learn the etiquette commandments of summer hosting: think linen chic dress codes, room-temp bites, and shady seats (always!). Listen in as Kiki dishes on everything from Dalí’s surrealist dinners and the mythic Riviera summers of the Murphys, to mosquito repellents that double as accessories and the art of making HomeGoods look haute. Whether you’re planning a budget clambake, a Como-inspired patio picnic, or just wondering how much ice you really need (spoiler: more), this is your cheeky, charming masterclass in old money-coded summer hospitality.…
This week on Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we’re diving into the enduring—and often awkward—tradition of the summer houseguest. From the Gilded Age to the Hamptons, summer hosting has long been a cornerstone of old money etiquette and upper-class rituals. But why did houseguests used to stay for weeks (or even months)? And how can you survive it today—whether you’re the host or the one unpacking in someone else’s guest room? Kiki shares the surprisingly elegant history behind long-term summer guests, the unspoken codes of how to be a good houseguest (and host), and what to do when things get awkward—like when you’ve overstayed your welcome or your friend is trying to “pop by” for ten days. Expect practical etiquette advice, personal stories, and subtle boundary-setting tips for modern manners. Topics include: – Old money rules of summer hosting – The art of being a charming houseguest – Setting boundaries with grace – Saying no (without sounding rude) – How long is too long to stay? – Funny (and painful) real-life guest stories Whether you're decamping to someone’s beach house or preparing for your own weekend guests, this episode is your social survival guide. Listen now and brush up on the manners that still matter.…
Planning a wedding? Attending one? Praying your drunk uncle doesn’t grab the mic during the toasts? You’ve come to the right place. In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we unpack the unspoken rules and social slip-ups that can turn a dream wedding into a diamond-studded disaster. Whether you’re the blushing bride, the groom with opinions , the mother-in-law with a seating chart grudge, or just a guest determined not to wear white (again), this guide to modern wedding etiquette will help you glide through the season with grace, style, and minimal scandal. From guest list drama and overbearing family members to dress codes, RSVP protocol, emotional outbursts, and the etiquette of elopements, Kiki offers practical advice and sly commentary with old money polish and new manners wit. Plus: how to behave at the reception, what to never say during a toast, and why good etiquette is the best insurance policy for your “I do.” You'll also be getting stories from Auntie Kiki's long-ago wedding.…
In this sun-soaked episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we unpack the storied tradition of “summering” in old money circles—from Newport to Nantucket, the Hamptons to the Highlands. Kiki dives into the social history behind the season: why certain destinations became icons of understated wealth, how WASPs made “going to the country” a ritual of quiet luxury, and what distinguishes a legacy summer spot from a flashy one. You’ll learn: The defining characteristics of old money vacation spots, and the key packing list items for each The etiquette (and quiet codes) of classic summering culture Key destinations like Bar Harbor, Watch Hill, Gstaad, and Cap d’Antibes—and what they signal socially, and how to romanticize your life until it really does feel like you're summering there How to channel old money summer vibes with elegance and humor, even if you’re staycationing, house-sitting, or renting the cheapest French Riviera adjacent flat. This isn't just about faking it til you make it, it's about curating summer rituals and enjoying the experiences that will leave you feeling refreshed and inspired come fall, even if your only vacation was a staycation.…
In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , we tackle the timeless, tasteful, and occasionally tacky world of monograms. From heirloom linens to luggage tags, monogramming is the original quiet luxury flex—if you know how to do it right. Kiki explores the history of monograms, their role in old money culture, and the subtle etiquette rules that separate timeless from tacky. Think: Where should your initials go? How many things can you monogram before it’s a crisis? Should couples share a monogram? (Spoiler: not always.) We’ll decode the do’s and don’ts of personalizing everything from stationery to sleepwear, and examine why the old guard swears by embroidery while the nouveau crowd goes straight for logo overload. Whether you’re wondering how to monogram a dinner napkin or considering your married monogram before there’s even a ring—this episode is your ultimate guide to monogramming with elegance, restraint, and just the right amount of self-regard.…
Today, we’re turning our lens—quite literally—toward the fascinating intersection of photography and old money. From the earliest daguerreotypes in stiff collars to the poolside glamour captured by Slim Aarons, photography has always been a mirror, revealing not just what we look like—but who we *think* we are. We’ll begin with a little history: how photography was once the domain of the upper class, with hand-colored portraits and family albums kept under lock and key, and how the arrival of the Kodak changed everything—from debutante balls to Riviera summers. Then we’ll tiptoe into modern-day etiquette: how to take a photo without looking like a try-hard influencer, when it’s actually charming to ask for a picture, and why certain kinds of candids will always feel more elegant than a staged selfie in a wine cave. And of course, we’ll spend time with the master of leisure himself: Slim Aarons. His lens didn’t just capture old money—it *created* its mythology. From sun-drenched villas in Capri to Ivy League tailgates, he defined what it meant to live “attractive lives in attractive places,” and he did it with a sense of ease, charm, and just enough detachment. Finally, I’ll share how to take your *own* iconic photos—yes, you too can look like a Kennedy on the Cape, even if you took the ferry—and how to display your images at home so they feel like heirlooms, not dorm room décor. Think archival mats, subtle frames, and a gallery wall that whispers rather than shouts. So put down your ring light, pour yourself a weak gin and tonic, and let’s dive into the art of appearing timeless on film. www.kikiastor.com/podcast/…
In this elegantly introspective episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , etiquette expert and romance author Kiki explores the timeless allure and quiet power of solitude. From the romance novel heroine brooding on a windswept terrace to the old money doyenne dining solo in a tucked-away bistro, being alone is not a condition to be pitied—it’s an art to be mastered. Kiki delves into the etiquette of spending time alone with intention and elegance, whether you’re reading on a park bench, traveling solo, or savoring a quiet meal at a fine restaurant. Learn how to navigate the manners of solo dining, embrace the understated glamour of doing things alone, and reframe solitude not as loneliness, but as personal luxury. With references to iconic solitary figures—think Jackie O, Greta Garbo, and mysterious heiresses who summered alone in the South of France—this episode is a cheeky-yet-chic guide to becoming effortlessly comfortable in your own company.…
In this episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we dive into the true value of luxury goods—especially designer handbags—amid a shifting global economy, social media overexposure, and growing transparency about where and how these so-called “heritage pieces” are actually made. In the age of the Wirkin, or Walmart Birkin, and in the wake of the Chinese revealing exactly how many luxury goods get produced in their factories rather than in chic Parisian ateliers, Kiki unpacks (pun very much intended) the history of handbags as status symbols, from old money necessity to nouveau riche billboard, and dissects the old money perspective on luxury: discreet, enduring, and never desperate. With juicy anecdotes from her recent travels through Morocco, Turkey, and China, Kiki shares firsthand observations of the proliferation of fake designer bags, the depressing state of luxury duty-free shops, and the disillusioning reality of modern production—even at historic maisons like Hermès and Chanel. Topics we cover: The erosion of luxury's mystique in the age of TikTok unboxings. Why handbag resale value isn’t the flex people think it is. How discerning old money treats luxury goods (hint: if it has a TikTok hashtag, it’s already over). Spotting a dupe without losing your mind (or your manners). Whether you're a bag lover, a social climber, or simply etiquette-curious, this episode is your guide to navigating the luxury landscape with wit, wisdom, and perspective.…
If you suffer from social anxiety, you might think that the old money, high society types you see effortlessly navigayting cocktail parties were simply born with a socializing superpower, or that they learned it in boarding school, and that it's too late for you, but that's not true. In this calming yet cheeky episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor , Kiki turns her velvet gloves toward a topic near and dear to many hearts: social anxiety. Whether you freeze at cocktail parties, overthink every interaction, or find yourself replaying conversations in bed at night, this episode is your invitation to breathe, settle in with something fizzy or soothing, and reclaim your social confidence—the elegant way. Kiki reveals her favorite etiquette-based social skills hacks designed for introverts, overthinkers, and those who never know what to do with their hands. You’ll learn how classic etiquette tricks—like the art of introductions, small talk that isn’t painful, and exiting a conversation gracefully—aren’t about perfection, but about making others feel comfortable, which (spoiler alert) helps you feel more at ease too. From how to glide through a room without breaking a sweat to using etiquette as armor in awkward social situations, Kiki shows that even the most anxious among us can master the social graces of high society—without faking a thing. Perfect for: Anyone looking for social anxiety tips, introvert-friendly social strategies, and a little old-school etiquette wisdom with a wink.…
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