S2 E20 AP: I Throw Sex Parties, and There's No Boys Allowed

When We're Not Hustling: Sex Workers Talking About Everything But

In this When We're Not Hustling After Party episode, hosts Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, and Emery Fields discuss Josie Oakley's episode, highlighting her dedication to organizing safe, inclusive sex-positive events and her activism with SWOP Pittsburgh. They explore how Josie’s work extends beyond event planning, advocating for reduced penalties for prostitution to make sex work safer and more accessible. The hosts examine the social dynamics and thoughtful guest curation that go into Josie's events, balancing newcomers with regulars, while discussing the importance of consent, self-awareness, and accountability. Reflecting on Josie’s honesty about her personal growth around past consent issues, they emphasize the need for open communication and self-reflection in fostering respectful relationships.

In This Episode:

00:05: Introduction to the Episode

00:24: Meet the Hosts and Guest

00:59: Hosting Sex Parties with Josie Oakley

01:35: Similarities to Bartending and Event Hosting

03:15: Social Dynamics of Sex Parties

05:18: Gender Dynamics and Initiating Interaction

08:53: Importance of Emotional Safety

11:14: Trust and Curating Guest Lists

15:28: Navigating Consent and Boundaries

26:26: Validating Feelings and Effective Communication

People:

Guest: Josie Oakley

Hosts: Jessie Sage, Emily Foster, Emery Fields

Producer: Emily Foster

Music: Benjamin J Benamati

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