Self-Discovery, Mentorship, and Personal Growth with Grace

IDK My BFF Jil with Jiliane Patriarca

The gem drop from Grace: “Regardless if there's pain involved, or challenges involved, at the end of it, you're going to grow somehow.”

In this episode, Jiliane and Grace delve into the evolution of Jiliane's life and mindset over time. Jiliane reflects on her role as the eldest in an immigrant family, highlighting the weight of unconscious expectations placed on her. She notes the pressure to conform to certain career paths and life choices, such as becoming a doctor, lawyer, or accountant, while also shouldering the responsibility of setting an example for her younger siblings.

As the conversation goes on, Jiliane and Grace emphasize the significance of embracing change and the unknown for personal growth. They talk about Jiliane's journey of starting her own business, "The Organization Organization," and her transformation from a high-stress career to a lifestyle focused on art and mental health.

Grace raises the topic of negative reactions and seeking validation from loved ones for one's dreams and aspirations. Jiliane shares her experience of facing negativity, and how she learned to trust her own decisions. She underscores the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the need to have open and honest conversations about sensitive topics.

Grace highlights the contrast between Jiliane's previous role and her current lifestyle as a full-time artist. They touch on the unexpected turns in life and how embracing change and being true to oneself can lead to growth and fulfillment.

Keep listening to learn about:

Mentorship and Personal Growth (28:34)

Jiliane and Grace touch on the importance of mentorship in personal and professional growth. They discuss how mentors have played a crucial role in guiding them through different stages of life and business development.

Building and Nurturing a Supportive Community (31:43)

Jiliane emphasizes the significance of having a strong and supportive community around you. She shares her experience of relying on her network of friends, mentors, and acquaintances for guidance and encouragement.

Embracing Change and Taking Personal Initiatives (52:51)

Jiliane and Grace’s discussion highlights the role of personal agency and decision-making, particularly in the face of challenges, negative feedback, and societal expectations. Embracing change, taking calculated risks, and prioritizing self-care are central themes.

When we flip the script, Grace asks Jiliane:

What did you feel were your expectations in life growing up? What childhood experiences led you to believe those expectations?