YOU ARE AVERAGE OF FIVE PEOPLE YOU STAY WITH | DURGESH SINGH |

Durgesh Singh (Growth Mindset)

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You are average of 5 people you stay with. This is so true as one of the most important thing for success is mindset or to be more precise Growth Mindset.

A mindset that knows success. A mindset that knows that there is no failure only lesion, a mindset that knows no limit a mindset that is grateful for what it has and is working constantly for what it wants a mindset that knows that infinite possibility exists.

But how do you get this mindset, well one of the way is pear group. See Steve Harvey said if 9 of your friends are broke you become the 10thone. It simple all your broke friends will talk about all the excuse why they failed or why couldn’t they do it or why they are not capable. All this will enter your subconscious mind and will become your reality.

But if on the other hand your pear group has people who are purpose driven, hustling, grinding, and winning. That will become your reality.

Do this take a paper and write 10 of your friends name the top 5 are the people whom you are engage with most or have occupied your mind and if you notice careful your are not doing much better than any one of them either. So what do you do?

I apply 33% rule. That is

Spend 33% of your time with people who are doing less than you, this are the people to whom you teach or train them basically I am their mentor. The benefit is whenever you teach you get to learn more. Also when I mentor then it makes me feel good about myself, increase my, self steam and motivates me to serve more as the one who serves is the happiest person.

the next 33% I spend with people who are doing almost equivalent to me. These are mostly my friends not all but most, this are the people with whom you can share plans and discuss ideas. I do the same also they are the one who keeps you motivated and uplift you whenever you feel low.

the next 33% of my time I spend with people who are 10 years ahead of me. This make me very uncomfortable but that what I want because then it helps me push my limitation. Also because they are successful or living the life that I want I get to understand the risk that they took, the mindset they have. They make me push my limit and grow. They are my mentors.

So this is the 33% law which I follow and suggest you to do so.