Kel Cal on Deconstructing You - Shattering Societal Success and Coming Back to Yourself

Deconstructing YOU

Kel is a life transformation & empowerment mentor, author, speaker, & the host of the Dear Dumb Bitch, podcast. Kel helps people transform their lives by transforming the relationship with themselves and healing trauma. She also helps women navigate the aftermath of toxic relationships and use the experience as a catalyst to unlock your Highest Self.

Kel was living what appeared to be her dream life but in reality was secretly miserable in an emotionally abusive marriage so she made the bold decision to leave her life in sunny South Florida and move across the country to restart her life in the rainy city of Seattle. She went broke overnight, didn’t have a job, & was technically homeless, but she had a vision of a better future for herself so she committed to her own personal healing journey.

Kel now lives in Bali, and her purpose in life is to empower people and share the message that you CAN have anything and everything you desire in life by healing trauma from the past, believing you are worthy of what you desire, developing unconditional love for yourself, and reconnecting with your personal power. She is incredibly passionate about teaching, inspiring others, and sharing tools and resources to help people return to their own divine sovereignty.

Kel's journey serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative potential of self-discovery. By courageously confronting inner demons and embracing vulnerability, Kel invites listeners to embark on their own path towards healing and wholeness, where you’ll discover: The Catalyst of Transformation:

• Kel's journey began amidst a seemingly perfect life that concealed internal turmoil.

• Struggling in an emotionally abusive marriage, Kel reached a breaking point that propelled her to seek change.

• A spontaneous decision during a two-week vacation marked the beginning of her transformative journey.

• Recognizing Unhealthy Dynamics:

• Kel reflects on the power dynamics present in conventional relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing toxic patterns.

• By prioritizing her partner over herself, Kel realized she was neglecting her own needs, leading to a profound shift in perspective.

• The Illusion of Restarting:

• Despite attempting to rebuild her life, Kel found herself trapped in a cycle of unhappiness, exacerbated by the challenges of COVID-19.

• Forced to confront herself without distractions, Kel embarked on a journey of self-discovery and spirituality.

• The Journey of Healing:

• Kel emphasizes the significance of inner child work and shadow work in understanding and addressing deep-rooted traumas.

• By delving into the past and unraveling conditioned beliefs, Kel illustrates the path to reclaiming authenticity and self-worth.

Key Takeaways for Listeners:

• Embrace the power of personal transformation, even in the face of adversity.

• Recognize and address toxic dynamics in relationships, prioritizing self-care and authenticity.

• Approach healing with curiosity and compassion, acknowledging the interconnectedness of past experiences and present realities.