152: Dealing with Conflict

Conflict is hard and it certainly is not fun. We struggle with conflict and don't know how to move through it in a healthy way. Listen as Pastor Jonathan shares that conflict is necessary and can be a blessing if we approach it the right way. It can bring growth in our relationships, in our circumstances, and will force us to deal with the things we would rather not deal with.

Jonathan shares 5 natural, unhealthy tendencies when dealing with conflict. Which one(s) do you gravitate toward? How can we do better? We need to first recognize our own tendencies and repent. Like David, ask God to reveal any way in me that offends you. Let's replace our unhealthy tendencies with healthy tendencies.

One way to begin moving forward is to identify your easiest win. Have a win and build momentum by tackling the small things first. Do all you can to stop the conflict spiral downward. Instead, how can we work through our conflict and take the relationship forward? Let's learn to honor God and the other person in our response.

You will want to listen to the end. Take notes regarding how we can communicate effectively. Consider the distractions, the internal distractions, and learn to ask good questions. And don't miss the 3 ways to win as you figure out the kind of solution you need. There are so many nuggets throughout this episode, you may want to listen several times.

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Special thanks to Pastor Jonathan Wallace of Getwell Church in Southaven, MS. We appreciate you sharing the table and all of your wisdom. God is using you to help the 3 of us as well as our many listeners.

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