SPOTLIGHT: Ashton Ng 黄敬凯 PhD* - Lowest Point of Life (Romantic Breakup, Counselling, Healing) | Coffee's on Me, David Quan 权丁文

Coffee's on Me, David Quan 权丁文

* CN: Deep, introspective reflections for a healing journey after the devastating conclusion of a romantic relationship that triggered the lowest point in life
Episode 78 of #CoffeesOnMeDavidQuan: Ashton Ng 黄敬凯, born and raised in Singapore, is a PhD candidate in Chinese History at Fitzwilliam College, University of Cambridge. He is a Kuok Family–Lee Kuan Yew Scholar and a Cambridge Trust Scholar. Ashton graduated with Distinction from the University of Oxford with an MSt in Traditional China. Prior to this, he majored in Classical Chinese at Peking University on a full Chinese Government Scholarship, winning the Outstanding Graduate Award and all top undergraduate prizes. Ashton was awarded the Young NUS Fellowship by the National University of Singapore and the Tan Kah Kee Postgraduate Scholarship, recognitions bestowed upon top Singaporean postgraduates worldwide. Ashton has a keen interest in swimming, punting, tennis, and going to the theatre.
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TL;DR: To process my emotions after a grueling campaign for President of The Cambridge Union, I reflected upon the influences of my late Grandfather and wrote him a letter: https://linktr.ee/DavidQuan . Drawing inspiration from him, I hope to learn more from others through genuine discussions – giving listeners heartfelt conversations filled with authentic insights, and giving guests legacy-worthy interviews to treasure.
To converse with someone without a strict time limit or structure – meticulously engaging in a curious process of clarifications or elaborations – is not only a rare privilege. This longer format also allows the sharing of otherwise unshared or unappreciated anecdotes. There are appeals to sound-bite media, of course, but the metrics that matter most to me are more about the uniqueness of contribution than measures of virality. Over time, I hope to be able to better deconstruct guests' fascinating experiences – to seamlessly tease out the insights for listeners to enjoy and learn from while cooking, commuting, relaxing, or walking their pet.
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