Carolyn Laredo- From Childhood Pain to Professional Purpose: Changing the Divorce Narrative

Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

Episode 16: Carolyn Laredo- From Childhood Pain to Professional Purpose: Changing the Divorce Narrative

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Our Guest for Today's Episode:

Carolyn Laredo

Joining us today is Carolyn Laredo, owner of Law & Mediation, PLLC, with over 25 years of experience as an Administrative Law Judge, arbitrator, collaborative lawyer, mediator, and trainer. Carolyn is known for her exceptional ability to guide families toward collaborative divorce resolutions. Her passion for this work stems from her own experience growing up in the midst of her parents’ bitter divorce and the lasting silence that followed. Carolyn turned that challenging chapter into a mission: to help families prioritize healing, collaboration, and their children’s well-being during divorce. In this episode, she shares her journey, insights, and practical tools for navigating divorce with grace and compassion. Whether you’re a parent, co-parent, or simply looking for a healthier approach to divorce, this conversation offers a fresh perspective and valuable guidance. Let’s get started!"

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Summary

In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Carolyn Laredo, a seasoned mediator and attorney, about the importance of amicable divorce resolutions. They discuss the collaborative mediation approach, the impact of personal experiences on professional practices, and key strategies for navigating divorce with grace and compassion. The conversation emphasizes the significance of prioritizing children's well-being, maintaining open communication, and the transformative potential of divorce as a path to personal growth.

Takeaways

• Amicable divorce is possible and beneficial for families.
• Collaborative mediation can lead to better outcomes than litigation.
• Understanding the difference between uncontested and contested divorce is crucial.
• Having both male and female mediators can enhance communication.
• Nesting arrangements require clear boundaries and communication.
• Emotional readiness is key to successful mediation.
• Seek professional advice tailored to your unique situation.
• Divorce can be a transformative experience if approached positively.
• Open communication can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.
• Divorce is not a failure, but an opportunity for growth.

Sound Bites

"We measure success by what we give."

"You can always ask for a refund."

"You will get there, I promise."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Collaborative Divorce

06:29 Understanding Uncontested vs. Contested Divorce

12:26 The Concept of Nesting in Divorce

20:09 Carolyn's Personal Journey and Motivation

33:59 Top Tips for a Successful Divorce Process

39:13 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

40:42 Resources for Support and Growth

Keywords

amicable divorce, mediation, collaborative approach, divorce coaching, family well-being, legal advice, co-parenting, emotional growth, divorce resolution, personal transformation

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