Evolutionary Men podcast

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In this episode, I drop in with Michael Holt, founder of the Savage and Saint Collective. We explore what it really means to live as a whole man—one who’s both deeply sensitive and unapologetically strong. Michael shares his path from violence, rage, and addiction to embodiment, service, and sacred discipline. We talk about why the healed masculine isn’t soft, how true spiritual practice requires savage commitment, and why being dangerous and loving are not opposites—they’re necessary partners. If you’ve ever wondered what it actually looks like to hold both primal power and deep presence, this one’s for you. Learn more about Michael and subscribe to his free email course at https://savageandsaint.com Join a virtual Evolutionary Men group via the Men’s Group Experience Click the icon below to listen.…

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What Therapy and Coaching Can’t Give Men 20:45

22 дні тому20:45

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In this episode, I unpack the concept of men’s groups as the essential “third way”—a relational container that fills the gaps left by coaching and therapy. Drawing on personal experience and cultural insight, I explore how these groups serve as both a third place and a missing medicine for modern men—offering brotherhood, real-time feedback, and deep presence in a peer-led structure. With loneliness, isolation, and performative masculinity on the rise, I make the case that decentralized men’s groups aren’t just helpful—they’re revolutionary. Join a virtual group via the Men’s Group Experience Join a virtual group with live retreat in The Heart of Shadow Click the icon below to listen.…

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Awakening the Masculine Spirit (with Amir Khalighi)

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In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and brother in the men’s work space Amir Khalighi. He shares his journey into men’s work, discussing the importance of somatic healing and the role of community in personal growth. He emphasizes the need for men to reconnect with their true selves and the natural world, highlighting the challenges they face in today’s society. Amir defines ‘Embodied Masculine’ as a unique approach that integrates somatic and shamanic practices, aiming to empower men to live purposefully and authentically. We explore the evolving landscape of masculinity, emphasizing the importance of men’s circles, vulnerability, and the reclamation of feminine energy. Amir highlights the dangers of disconnected masculinity and the necessity for men to find their purpose within a community, ultimately advocating for a balanced approach to leadership that embraces both strength and vulnerability. More about Amir Khalighi at embodiedmasculine.com Join the Men’s Group Experience Click the icon below to listen.…

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Men’s Group Experience

4 weeks тому

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In this episode, I share the deeper “why” behind launching my new program, Men’s Group Experience—and what I’ve learned after decades in the trenches of men’s work. Yes, I’ve talked before about the power of decentralized men’s groups. But this conversation goes further. This one’s about what actually sustains a group—beyond the structure. What makes men stay, show up fully, and build something real together? I explore the difference between just “being in a group” and fully owning your seat in circle. I also break down what inspired me to create this new offering, how it builds on everything I’ve learned from leading and being part of men’s groups for over 20 years, and why now is the moment to reclaim this kind of brotherhood. If you’ve been circling around this work but haven’t taken the leap—or if you’ve done some groups but they didn’t stick—this is your invitation. The Men’s Group Experience is a 12-week, no-BS initiation into what it actually means to be in a functional, supportive, and sustainable men’s group. You’ll get the framework, the practices, and the chance to keep your group going indefinitely—with or without me. Learn more about Men’s Group Experience Click the icon below to listen.…

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How to Become a Dangerous Man (with Tripp Lanier)

5 weeks тому

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In this episode, I reconnect with one of the most important men in my journey—my first men’s coach, Tripp Lanier. We dive into a rich conversation around what it means to be a man today, the traps so many of us fall into with comfort and surface-level success, and why emotional intelligence isn’t optional anymore—it’s essential. We explore what it means to be a dangerous man—the kind that comes from being truly alive and present, not just posturing or playing a role. Tripp shares hard-won insights from his book This Book Will Make You Dangerous , and we unpack why vulnerability, real connection, and doing the inner work are the gateway to actual freedom. This one’s about breaking the mold, reclaiming our power, and leaning into the kind of masculinity that doesn’t run from feeling, but turns toward it. If you’re on the path—or ready to be—this conversation is a potent reminder of what’s possible when men come together and get real. Ready to experience the power of a virtual men’s group? Checkout the Men’s Group Experience now Or dive into a group in person with the Heart of Shadow men’s group & retreat About Tripp: Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous , and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times. Click the icon below to listen.…

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The Marlboro Trap (with Luke Adler) 36:00

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In this episode, I sit down with my friend and collaborator Luke to unpack the enduring myth of the Marlboro Man—and how it’s still shaping men’s lives today. We explore the fantasy of the rugged, independent cowboy and how it feeds into the “lone wolf” mentality so many men have been conditioned to admire. Luke shares some powerful reflections from his own background in Western culture and rural communities, where this archetype is alive and well. Together, we shine a light on the emotional cost of stoicism, the pressure to “just get to work,” and the way this legacy leaves so many men isolated and unsupported. This conversation is a call to reevaluate what real strength looks like—and how connection, not detachment, might just be the most courageous thing a man can choose. Ready to experience the power of a men’s group virtually? Checkout the Men’s Group Experience now! Want to experience it in person? Join the Heart of Shadow . Click the icon below to listen.…

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No More Mr. Lone Wolf (with Dr. Robert Glover) 53:55

6 weeks тому53:55

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy , to explore the root causes of why so many men feel stuck, frustrated, and disconnected—and what actually works to break that cycle. We dive into the cost of being a “nice guy,” how men’s groups offer a new form of masculine initiation, and why real brotherhood—not therapy, not status, not hustle—is often the missing piece for men. Robert shares his personal story of transformation, how No More Mr. Nice Guy came to life, and the rise of a decentralized men’s movement that’s quietly changing lives around the world. We talk shame, leadership, male friendship, and why emotional honesty is the foundation of everything men are looking for—whether it’s a better relationship, more purpose, or real peace inside. If you’ve ever felt alone, lost, or like you’re doing all the “right” things but still not feeling fulfilled—this conversation will hit home. Learn more about Robert’s work and community at https://drglover.com Ready to experience the power of a men’s group? Checkout the Men’s Group Experience now at https://mens.group Click the icon below to listen.…

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Why Success Alone Won’t Save You (with Luke Adler)

7 weeks тому

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In this episode, I’m joined once again by my brother-in-arms Dr. Luke Adler to dive into something a little different: a reaction and commenting on a recent Diary of a CEO episode featuring Logan Ury and Scott Galloway. We discuss the external challenges facing men today — loneliness, economic shifts, the dating gap — while highlighting the deeper root causes we see in our work: emotional illiteracy, the collapse of brotherhood, and the loss of true masculine initiation. We lay out why pursuing excellence and money alone isn’t enough, and what it actually takes for men to thrive in the modern world. This one’s packed — tune in. Want support starting or deepening your own men’s group journey? Checkout mens.group or heartofshadow.com Like the Podcast? Join the Discussion Community at evolutionary.men/discuss Click the icon below to listen.…

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The Weakness of Macho Men 16:00

19 weeks тому16:00

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In this episode, I explore the fundamental weakness of macho men and the “tough guy” culture that promotes isolation and emotional suppression. I explain how every man will eventually face physical challenges or illness that they can’t simply “push through,” revealing the critical importance of having a strong support system. Learn why posturing is still fear based and what you can do instead. Learn more and find a men’s group at evolutionary.men Click the icon below to listen.…

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Three Things Stealing Your Energy 13:00

26 weeks тому13:00

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In this episode I dive deep into the three major energy drains affecting men today and share how to reclaim your vitality. Drawing from both personal experience and years of coaching, I explore how neglecting body nourishment, suppressing emotions, and mental rumination are secretly depleting your energy reserves. I break down why proper sleep, nutrition, and recovery are non-negotiable foundations, explain how stored emotions create physical tension that exhausts us, and reveal why constant mental chatter is more draining than you think. Whether you’re feeling burnt out or simply want to optimize your energy, this episode provides the roadmap to get your power back. Click the icon below to listen.…

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Own Your Needs Without Being Needy 17:19

34 weeks тому17:19

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In this episode, I dive into the crucial distinction between having needs and being needy. Understanding this difference is vital for fostering healthy relationships and ensuring that we connect with the right people in our lives. The characteristics of neediness and how it can push people away. The importance of expressing our needs directly and taking ownership of them. How neediness often stems from a sense of urgency and a lack of clarity. The empowering nature of owning our needs and the vulnerability it entails. Practical strategies for cultivating a supportive network to help meet our needs. Tune in and learn how to transform your approach to needs and neediness for a more fulfilling life! Click the icon below to listen.…

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Our Three Biggest Fights as a Couple 43:41

37 weeks тому43:41

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In this episode, my wife Violet and I dive deep into the raw, real, and often messy side of relationships by sharing our three biggest fights and lessons from them. From trust issues and emotional disregulation to financial stress and fertility struggles, we explore how rupture and repair are essential for growth in any partnership. We also introduce our new programs, Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates, designed to help couples build stronger, more resilient relationships through skill-building, emotional connection, and polarity. Tune in for an honest conversation about the challenges of love, and how to navigate them with grace, tools, and support. Find out more about Evolutionary Couples which starts October 19th and has Early Bird until October 7th, and sign up for 12 Epic Dates anytime at https://evolutionarycouples.us Click the icon below to listen.…

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Evolutionary Couples & 12 Epic Dates 37:00

39 weeks тому37:00

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If you only had about 2 hours a week to spend on your relationship, how could you use that time most wisely? The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritize the relationship. Even when partners deeply love each other, they may face difficulties in maintaining passion, resolving conflicts, and growing together over the long term. Many couples are stuck in unfulfilling patterns, feeling more like roommates than lovers, or constantly bickering over small issues. Without the right tools and support, it’s easy for relationships to stagnate or deteriorate over time. My wife Violet and I created the Evolutionary Couples program as a structured experience to help couples revitalize their relationships and foster deeper connection. Through 12 carefully designed “epic dates,” couples are guided to explore key areas like communication, intimacy, finances, and shared purpose. The journey provides a mix of themed dates addressing practical issues and polarity dates to reignite passion and play. With options for self-paced learning or a more immersive experience with coaching and community support, couples can choose the level of engagement that works for them. By dedicating just two hours a week to intentional relationship building, partners can develop new skills, heal old wounds, and cultivate a thriving, passionate partnership that just keeps improving over time! Learn more and sign up at evolutionarycouples.us Click the icon below to listen.…

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Stories From Men in the Heart of Shadow (Panel Discussion) 53:00

41 weeks тому53:00

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Join Dr. Luke Adler and me in this powerful episode in the Heart of Shadow podcast series as we sit down with three courageous men—Michael, Sean, and Shawn—who have undergone the transformative Heart of Shadow program. They open up about their journeys – sharing how the program helped them confront and heal deep-seated anger, fear, and past traumas. The discussion delves into the unique and powerful process of shadow work, highlighting the profound impact it has had on their relationships, businesses, and personal lives. With candid reflections and inspiring insights, this episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the life-changing potential of facing one’s inner shadows. Register for the The Heart of Shadow men’s group and retreat now! Click the icon below to listen.…

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Shadows, Sex, and Showing Up 44:26

49 weeks тому44:26