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Let’s talk about adulting— actual adulting. Not just paying bills or keeping a houseplant alive, but the kind that involves emotional maturity, healthy boundaries, and conscious self-leadership. Because let’s be honest, most of us weren’t taught how to be fully functioning adults… and it shows. Joining us is Michelle Chalfant , licensed therapist turned holistic life coach, creator of The Adult Chair® model, and author of the new book The Adult Chair: Get Unstuck, Claim Your Power, and Transform Your Life . With millions reached through her podcast, coaching programs, and retreats, she’s here to walk us through the five pillars of being a healthy, grounded adult. Here’s the truth: being an adult isn’t about checking boxes or pretending you’re fine. It’s about owning your truth. Feeling your feelings. Practicing compassion without letting yourself off the hook. It’s about setting firm boundaries—with no need for justification—and recognizing that your triggers are not flaws, they’re clues. None of us were handed a guidebook for how to grow up emotionally. We inherited patterns from people who were figuring it out as they went. But what Michelle shares today is empowering: it’s never too late to unlearn what no longer serves you and become the adult you were meant to be. Whether you’re starting this work or knee-deep in your personal development era, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you move forward with clarity, self-trust, and strength. Connect with Michelle: Website: https://theadultchair.com/ Book: https://theadultchair.com/book IG: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant/?hl=en FB: https://www.facebook.com/@TheMichelleChalfant/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/michellechalfant Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Boundaries vs. Ultimatums with Jan & Jillian Yuhas | 297 Gentleness: Cultivating Compassion for Yourself and Others with Courtney Carver | 282 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

No Regrets Leadership Podcast

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No Regrets Leadership Podcast

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Join Steve Sonderman as he interviews speakers, thought leaders and authors to encourage and equip you to more effectively minister to the men in your church and community.

100 епізодів

#Religion #Christianity #Self-Improvement #Steve Sonderman #Leadership #Podcasting Education

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Gearing Up Now for a Strong Fall Men’s Ministry 27:43

6 днів тому27:43

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This week on the No Regrets Podcast , Steve Sonderman is joined by Jordan Harnum from Impactus Ministries for a timely and practical conversation on preparing for a strong fall launch of your men’s ministry. Jordan, whose passion for equipping men started by simply showing up in young men's lives, reminds us that many guys are already doing ministry—they just may not know it yet. Together, he and Steve unpack key principles every men’s ministry should be using as they head into the fall. Whether you're starting fresh or building on existing momentum, this episode offers clear, actionable strategies to: Use your summer months to prepare for a strong launch Set a fall date and begin identifying and inviting leaders now Pray and cast a clear vision for what God wants in your ministry Engage men through doing—sports, grilling, or simple gatherings Build transparency and intentionality to draw more men in If you’re looking to equip, engage, and impact men this fall, don’t miss this energizing conversation packed with tools and inspiration to help you lead with purpose. Resources Mentioned: Impactus Ministries Articles & Resources Facebook | Instagram | YouTube LinkedIn | X (Twitter)…

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Capturing Momentum: Preparing Your Men’s Ministry for a Strong Fall 34:49

20 днів тому34:49

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Today on the No Regrets Podcast , Nate Gruber is joined by Jeff Dionne, Regional Director for Maine and the Northeast with Man in the Mirror . Jeff shares his powerful story of how simply signing up for a church softball team led him into men’s ministry leadership—and gave him a passion for helping churches disciple men with greater intention. In this episode, Nate and Jeff explore what it takes to create, capture, and sustain momentum in men’s ministry, especially heading into the fall. They offer practical insights on: Moving from random books and studies to a strategic discipleship plan Building effective men’s leadership teams Understanding the difference between vision-minded and mission-minded men—and how to utilize both Developing clarity around your ministry’s goals: Who are you trying to reach? What topics should you explore? Helping men move from cultural Christianity to an authentic pursuit of the God who is , not just the God we want Whether you're a pastor, small group leader, or just someone passionate about strengthening men in your church, this conversation will equip you with next steps for building an impactful and lasting ministry to men. Resources Mentioned: Man in the Mirror Ministry No Regrets Men's Ministry…

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From the Sidelines to the Frontlines: Reengaging the Boomer Generation 30:35

27 днів тому30:35

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This week on the No Regrets Podcast , Steve Sonderman sits down with Jim Stolberg for a powerful conversation about the untapped potential of the Boomer generation. Jim shares his personal journey of discovering his God-given calling in the “second season” of life—after years of gaining work, life, and spiritual wisdom. Through that process, he found clarity on what God was truly calling him to do. Together, Jim and Steve explore how leaders can help Boomers recognize that their time, talents, and wisdom are not meant to be buried—they’re meant to be invested in the next generation. It’s a challenge to move from the “state” to the “sage,” from success to significance, from retirement to reinvestment. You’ll hear practical ways to: Clarify your calling and listen for what God wants you to do next. Bridge the gap between church life and work life. Reframe success by using your business and life experience for Kingdom impact. Mobilize Boomers as mentors, leaders, and difference-makers in ministry and beyond. If you’re a leader—or if you’ve ever wondered what’s next or how to make your greatest impact in your second season—this episode is for you. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about serving with purpose, giving back with intention, and stepping into the calling you can’t not do . Resources Mentioned: Halftime: Moving from Success to Significance – Halftime Book Halftime Institute Faith Driven Movements Solving the World's Greatest Problems…

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Healing the Past, Discipling the Future with Pat Morley 31:36

5 weeks тому31:36

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On this episode of The No Regrets Podcast , Steve Sonderman sits down with Pat Morley—one of the pioneers of men’s ministry since the early ’90s and founder of Man in the Mirror Ministries. Pat shares his powerful and deeply personal journey: growing up in the church without truly knowing Jesus, and the life-changing moment when a group of men welcomed him in and pointed him toward authentic faith. He opens up about the hidden wounds from his family and past, and how those unaddressed hurts shaped his life until he began to truly heal. Together, Pat and Steve dive into why so many men are longing for deeper discipleship—and how unresolved pain from the past often stands in the way. Pat unpacks the heart behind his new book, Broken Boy to Mended Man , a powerful biblical guide to identifying and healing childhood wounds, breaking free from shame, and ending destructive cycles. Through honest reflection, practical steps, and spiritual wisdom, the book helps men face their past, process their pain, and emerge as whole, restored leaders in their families and communities. If you've ever felt stuck in your past, this conversation will help you begin the journey of facing your pain, finding healing, and moving forward in freedom. 🔗 Learn more about Pat at patrickmorley.com 📘 Get the book: Broken Boy to Mended Man or on Amazon…

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Why Every Leader Needs a Coach with Gary Rohrmayer 28:52

6 weeks тому28:52

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In this episode of the No Regrets Leadership Podcast , Gary Rohrmayer—church planter, missionary, and author of Ten Marks of a Coachable Leader —joins the conversation to unpack the power of coaching in the life of a leader. Gary shares from his own leadership journey and offers insight into what coaching really is, what it looks like to work with a coach, and how a coach can bring perspective, encouragement, and clarity to your calling. He explains how coaching differs from mentoring, what makes for a strong coaching relationship, and why setting clear expectations and building trust is essential. Together, we explore the key principles of coachability—humility, teachability, and a willingness to listen—and how leaders can cultivate these traits to grow and lead more effectively. Whether you’re leading a church, a team, or just stepping into leadership, this episode will give you a clear picture of how coaching can transform your leadership and your life. Resources Mentioned: Ten Marks of a Coachable Leader by Gary Rohrmayer Learn more at garyrohrmayer.com Coaching tools and resources at axelerate.org…

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Engaging Boomers for Kingdom Impact with Scott Papador 26:11

7 weeks тому26:11

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In this episode, Steve Sonderman sits down with Scott Papador to discuss The Grand Plan —a powerful 6-week curriculum designed to engage the often-overlooked force in our churches: Boomers. With 76 million Boomers in the U.S. and an estimated 35% of church attendees coming from this generation, Scott challenges us to consider: Are we fully utilizing their gifts, talents, and wisdom? Scott shares his personal journey to faith and what led him to help develop The Grand Plan , a tool designed to activate men and women aged 52–73 for meaningful kingdom impact. Drawing on insights from Wisdom at Work by Chip Conley and From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks, this conversation explores how Boomers can move from success to significance. Through a six-summit process centered on holistic health, vision planning, and intentional engagement, The Grand Plan helps Boomers discover how to serve with purpose—during retirement and beyond. Whether in small groups, businesses, or ministry, this episode encourages you not to bury your treasure but to live with impact throughout every season of life. Learn more and choose your path—live, self-paced, or facilitated—at thegrandplan.org . Books mentioned: Wisdom at Work by Chip Conley From Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks…

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Reaching the Next Generation: A Conversation on Discipleship with Troy Thomas 24:17

9 weeks тому24:17

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This week on the No Regrets Leadership Podcast, Nate is joined by Troy Thomas from Crossway Church teaching team for a meaningful conversation on discipleship and connecting with the next generation. Together, they explore the challenges and opportunities of reaching young men in today’s church and how spiritual formation is about more than just teaching—it's about doing. Troy shares how his journey has been centered around making disciples who make disciples, influenced by the writings of Greg Ogden, Dallas Willard, Eugene Peterson, and John Mark Comer. He unpacks the deeper dynamics of how men relate, addressing the widespread loneliness among men and the longing for authentic connection. Troy offers tactical insight into how older men can build meaningful relationships with younger generations. Resources Mentioned: Discipleship Essentials: A Guide to Building Your Life in Christ by Greg Ogden Crossways Church - https://www.crosswayc.org Listen in to be encouraged and equipped to reach and disciple the next generation of men.…

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Shaping Future Leaders: The Power of Mentorship with Josh Lindblom 30:18

12 weeks тому30:18

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In this episode, Josh Lindblom joins Steve Sonderman to discuss the power of mentorship and investing in the next generation of men. What does it truly mean to mentor a young man? How do you choose someone to invest in? Josh shares his personal journey of being intentionally mentored and how it shaped his leadership, helping him navigate transitions and learn to walk alongside others. Leadership is a lifelong process of discovering how God has uniquely shaped each of us for influence in His kingdom. Josh dives into the importance of relational depth, why true mentorship isn’t scalable but deeply personal, and how empowerment begins with understanding that our weaknesses don’t define us. He also shares practical steps for building meaningful mentorship relationships and training others to become mentors themselves. We believe this episode will encourage and equip you to invest in the next generation and mobilize more men for Jesus. Don’t wait—there is an army of men ready to be mentored. Resources Mentioned: The Making of a Leader by Robert Clinton Steps: A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isn’t Enough by John Ortberg Learn more at congruency.co Listen in and take the next step in mentorship today!…

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The Power of Apprenticeship with Matt Millar - Part 2 28:15

13 weeks тому28:15

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Join us for Part 2 of our conversation with Steve Sonderman and Matt Millar as we dive deeper into the importance of apprentices in ministry. Jesus intentionally chose His disciples, He set clear expectations, and prepared them for their mission—so how can we follow His model today? In this episode, we continue to explore: - Preparation – Teaching apprentices what they need to know before sending them out. - Empowerment – Encouraging leaders and helping men overcome fear of failure. - Giving Away Responsibility – Developing leaders by providing clear roles and expectations. - A Holistic Apprenticeship Process – Investing in people at every level of your organization. A structured apprenticeship involves a four-step process: modeling, assisting, empowering, and fully releasing the apprentice into leadership while offering continued guidance. When it comes to graduation apprentices, it’s about setting clear expectations, equipping them with what they need, and providing ongoing encouragement and support as they step into their role. Matt Millar also shares key questions to ask apprentices and practical ways to make apprenticeship a core part of your ministry’s culture. Resources Mentioned: Exponential.org – Free resources, PDFs, and booklets. Books by Dave Ferguson: Hero Maker, Experiential . Podcasts with Rob Wegner. Learn more about Matt Millar, Global Operations Director at NewThing: newthing.org Listen in and start building a legacy of leaders today!…

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The Power of Apprenticeship with Matt Millar - Part 1 24:54

14 weeks тому24:54

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Join Steve Sonderman and Matt Millar as they explore the vital role of apprentices in ministry. Discover how developing, deploying, and equipping apprentices can expand your impact and help you reach more men for Jesus. In this episode, Matt shares his personal journey and why apprenticing is a biblical mandate. Jesus calls us to make disciples, and that starts with intentional training and investment in others to create a lasting legacy for His kingdom. Learn the four key steps Jesus modeled in apprenticeship: 1 - Selection – Jesus specifically chose His 12 disciples. 2 - Expectation – He set clear expectations for their mission. 3 - Preparation – They saw how He lived and learned. 4 - Graduation – He sent them out to continue His work. Your ministry will only grow with leaders. Listen in and discover how to equip others for the work of Jesus and create a deeper impact with the men you serve. Learn more about Matt Millar, Global Operations Director at NewThing: newthing.org…

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Sharing Your Faith with Greg Stier - No Regrets Conference 32:18

18 weeks тому32:18

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Join us for today’s episode from the No Regrets Men's Conference as we hear from speaker Greg Stier, founder of Dare to Share Ministry, who shares the nuts and bolts of witnessing in a natural and comfortable way. Greg shares his journey—from witnessing to his own family to inspiring others to boldly spread the powerful message of the gospel. He reminds us that the gospel is like a grenade—no matter who pulls the pin, it has the power to transform lives. In this conversation, we’ll explore: ✅ How to make evangelism a natural part of everyday conversations ✅ The importance of fueling up with the right motivation—obeying Christ’s call to make disciples ✅ The Prayer-Care-Share model for reaching others ✅ What it means to be Radical Like Jesus Be encouraged, be equipped, and get ready to live out your faith with confidence! For more about Greg - https://gregstier.org Dare 2 Share Website for youth ministry - https://www.dare2share.org The Life in 6 Words app provides an interactive and engaging way to naturally initiate spiritual conversations. Use it to walk someone through a clear message of the Gospel and the hope found in Jesus Christ! Download on the App store or find out more at https://li6w.com 🎧 Listen now!…

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Investing in Men: Building a Culture of Discipleship with Nate Gruber 26:03

20 weeks тому26:03

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On today’s episode, Steve Sonderman welcomes the newest member of the No Regrets team, Nate Gruber. Nate shares his powerful journey to Christ, his lifelong passion for telling others about Jesus, and how waking up each day to follow Him can transform everything. Nate’s heart for discipleship fuels his mission to help churches build a disciple-making culture through the No Regrets Ministry. Steve and Nate discuss the importance of investing in a small group of men—affirming, encouraging, and walking alongside them in faith. Nate also shares his excitement about Basecamp , a powerful resource designed to equip men to deepen their walk with Jesus and experience the security of knowing they are fully loved by God. Together, Nate and Steve explore the beauty of a life rooted in Christ, the confidence that comes from representing the Father, and what it truly means to live fully alive in Him. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation! Links Discussed in Today’s Episode: No Regrets Conference Talks/Sessions No Regrets Follow-Up Study Basecamp – Go Deeper in Following Jesus…

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Impactful Leadership: The Power of Mentorship with Dr. Crawford Loritts 21:24

21 weeks тому21:24

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Join Steve Sonderman for an inspiring conversation with Dr. Crawford Loritts as they discuss the profound impact of mentoring and why it’s essential for every man. Dr. Loritts challenges men to remove boundaries and barriers, step into the role of hope-givers, and invest in the next generation of leaders. Mentorship isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about being available, accessible, and intentional. As older men, we have the opportunity to guide younger ones by sharing our failures, praying with them, and providing the encouragement they need to grow. True leadership is about taking your God-given equity and using it to empower those around you. They also explore the concept of finishing well —how living well each day leads to a strong finish. Decision precedes development, and responding to God in the moment shapes the legacy we leave behind. This conversation will equip and encourage you in the ministry God has called you to, helping you embrace mentorship as a calling and a privilege. Resources Mentioned: Learn more about Crawford Loritts’ work: Beyond Our Generation Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritts– Buy Here Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers by Dane Ortlund – Buy Here Don’t miss this powerful discussion on leadership, mentorship, and finishing well!…

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Stand Firm: Joby Martin on Facing Today’s Challenges for Men 20:15

22 weeks тому20:15

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Join Steve Sonderman as he sits down with Pastor Joby Martin, a dynamic leader from Eleven22 Church in Jacksonville, FL, and a featured speaker at this year’s No Regrets Conference. Together, they tackle the challenges men face today—from isolation and complacency to the ongoing crisis of manhood. Pastor Joby shares profound biblical insights on how men can "Stand Firm and Act Like Men," highlighting five key principles rooted in Scripture that every man should be on the lookout for. They delve into the vital roles of defending, providing, protecting, and leading within the family and the church. Pastor Joby also introduces his new book, Run Over By the Grace Train , a transformative guide to understanding the life-changing power of Christ’s grace. Perfect for men’s small group discussions, this book is a must-read for anyone seeking to grow as a Christ follower. Discover actionable advice, encouragement, and the tools to step up as Godly men in a world that desperately needs strong, faithful leaders. Don’t miss this compelling conversation! Additional Links: Learn more about Pastor Joby Martin: Eleven22 Church New Podcast: The Daily Blade New Book: Run Over By the Grace Train .…

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Engage, Equip, Evangelize: A Guide to Sharing Faith with Greg Stier 26:24

23 weeks тому26:24