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Connected Parenting

Jennifer Kolari

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Connected Parenting shares techniques that therapists use to help parents soothe their child as well as enhance the parent-child bond and is based on the understanding that correcting and guiding behavior works best when it is preceded by and linked to empathy. At the heart of this parenting model is the CALM Technique which helps parents accurately attune to children’s affect and experience. These empathic interactions release reward chemicals in the brain that stimulate positive emotions a ...
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Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged). Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
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Welcome to the Rooted Working Mom podcast! Find True Rest in Jesus, Rise in Your God-Given Authority & Raise Kingdom Kids Steward & Connect With Your Kids Through Gospel Centered Parenting, as a Busy Working Mom God-Led Wholeness Coaching in Faith, Motherhood, Wellness, & Mindset Find Clarity and Purpose in Your Motherhood Let Go of Working Mom Guilt Say Goodbye to Burnout Hey sweet mama! If you’ve been in a space of overwhelm, exhaustion, struggle, and feeling like you are just not good eno ...
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As the busy school year winds down, summer presents a unique chance to slow down, and reconnect. So in this week's episode we say goodbye to hectic schedules and explore how to make this summer as wonderful, connected, and fun as possible for you and your family. Jennifer's Takeaways: Intro (00:00) Parenting Techniques For Summer Break (04:45) Main…
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Parenting can often feel like balancing between maintaining authority and nurturing a loving relationship. Today, we're diving into Chapter 12 of the Connect Method Parenting book, focusing on "setting limits" with compassion and empathy. I kick things off with a powerful reminder: "It's not what you say, but who you are in that moment that matters…
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You are in for a treat today! No matter where you are on your parenting journey, you’re gonna find value, and some real nuggets of wisdom in this special episode. Today, I'm joined by one of my amazing clients, Amelia, who completed the February Parenting Pivot (where parents learn the entire CMP Framework in 8 weeks). During this episode, we dive …
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Today, we're diving into our Q&A series with a question from Maria on her husband who is struggling to buy into the Connected Parenting method, dismissing it as babying their kids and not being tough enough. This has led to constant clashes with their 10-year-old daughter, a strong-willed "gladiator," leaving Maria exhausted and feeling like her ha…
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I remember my toddlers trying to put on their shoes backward over and over again. They wanted me to watch but NOT help them. Today I started thinking about those crazy years when I had six kids eight and under, and a thought popped into my mind, "Your kids are figuring out the world one backward shoe at a time, and they need you to be there, really…
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Happy Wednesday! Today, we conclude the 3 Vital Parenting Decisions Series. If you haven’t listened to the episodes from Monday and Tuesday, check those out first because they lay the groundwork for today’s discussion. Today's Focus: Practicing extreme self-compassion. It’s essential. My coach emphasized the importance of being gentle and loving to…
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Welcome back to day two of the Connect Method Parenting workshop - 3 Vital Decisions! If you listened yesterday, you’ll remember we introduced the concept of stopping the negative energizing of off-track behavior. Today, we build on that foundation with the second decision: committing to using connection as your primary parenting tool. Stop Negativ…
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Hey Friend! Welcome to the replay of a live workshop called 3 Vital Decisions. Over the next three days, (yep we're replaying them all this week) we'll explore three vital decisions you'll have to make if you want to transition from corrective to connective parenting. AND I'll give you an actionable challenge to go do with your kids today. Because …
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In today's episode, we're diving into the world of fatherhood—the struggles, the joys, and the unique challenges that dads face. Here to share his insights and perspectives on all things Dad, I am thrilled to welcome a very special guest who is incredibly important to me: my husband, Barrett. So if you are a Dad or are soon to be a Dad this episode…
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Throughout this book, we've been chatting about a Connect Method Parenting way of interacting with your kids. I've broken down the CMP philosophy page by page. Now it's time to break down the process. How you do Connect Method Parenting in real life. The tool I'm about to teach you is called Seen and Heard. Think of it like a sandwich. Next Steps: …
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Ever wondered why, despite your best intentions, you sometimes fail to take action toward your parenting goals? In today's episode, we're exploring the perplexing gap between our aspirations and actions. I'm sharing personal stories and practical strategies to help you stay calm, confident, and connected with your children. Learn how to harness the…
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Today, I'm excited to share an insightful conversation with Laurie Couture, a licensed mental health counselor, author, and developer of the Couture Protocol. Laurie specializes in childhood development, trauma, and attachment, providing crucial guidance to families and professionals serving children and youth. Join us as we dig deeper into her gro…
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Behavior is your child’s way of communicating with you. You’ve come up with stories about their messy room, refusal to do homework, and skipping out on family dishes. But your stories are wrong. What?! In this episode, we're diving into Chapter 9 of my book Behavior Is Information! Next Steps: >> Get a FREE copy of my book and sign up for the CMP B…
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When we fear and resist negative emotions, we suffer. And when we have compassion for it and allow it, we grow and thrive. Welcome to the Connect Method Parenting podcast, where correction is out, connection is in, and your kids want to listen to you. In this episode, we're diving into an insightful coaching call replay from a year ago. Join me as …
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In today's podcast, we'll delve into the transformative power of wonder and awe—emotions that children embrace naturally but adults often overlook as they grow older. We'll explore the significance of reconnecting with these profound states of being to enrich your life and safeguard this sense of marvel for your children. Join me as we learn to cul…
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🎧 Dive into Chapter Eight: "Emotions are the Fuel," where I spill the tea on harnessing your emotions to supercharge your parenting game. 🌈 Ever feel like you’re drowning in frustration? I’ve got you covered. Learn to switch from "I am frustrated" to "I have frustration," and watch your relationship with yourself and your kids transform. 🗣️💭 And th…
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Do you find yourself tangled up in trying to control your kids? Wishing they would listen more, complain less, and for goodness sake go to bed on time?! But no matter what you try it feels like a losing battle?! You're not alone, and there’s a better way! In this episode, we’re diving into the art of focusing on what you can actually control as par…
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In this episode, I’m excited to share a special conversation I had with Ann Odom on her podcast, "The Reprogram." Ann, a seasoned social worker, combines over two decades of experience with a unique blend of somatic experiencing, nervous system healing, and inner child work. This approach addresses the deep-seated memories stored in our bodies from…
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There are five ingredients you'll need to create the life you want. Situations Thoughts Feelings Actions Results Your job is to understand how each of these works. Then, put them together intentionally. Don’t complicate it. What thoughts are you thinking? What emotions are you feeling? What actions are you taking or not taking? That is why you have…
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Prepare for a soul-stirring episode of Connect Method Parenting. 🤯 Today, we delve into a topic that resonates at the core of many belief systems: the concept of anger and judgment as portrayed in the scriptures, and how it aligns with the principles of Connect Method Parenting. 📖✨ Joining us is the insightful Natalie Hunsaker, a mom of four, a tal…
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In today's Q&A episode, we tackle a heartfelt and challenging topic that many families face. Janine writes in with a situation that may resonate with many: her 10-year-old son holds a deep-seated resentment towards his 8-year-old sibling, simply for being born. This type of sibling rivalry can be devastating and perplexing for parents. It's a commo…
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We're back with the next chapter in our 15-part CMP Book Club series, and today it's all about Chapter Six: "STEAR Your Own Boat." 📖 Get ready for a laugh with my "Baby Powder Blizzard" story – it's a whirlwind of chaos turned into a moment of clarity. 🌨️ I'll show you how to pause, take a breath, and choose responses that reflect the parent you st…
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Are you caught in the digital web of constant scrolling and screen time? 📱 In today's episode of Connect Method Parenting, we're diving deep into the heart of our relationship with technology and its impact on family dynamics. We're joined by Joey, a passionate advocate for helping families reclaim their time from the digital grasp and foster meani…
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In today's episode, we're diving into an essential topic: self-awareness and how we, as parents, can gift to our children this crucial skill for fostering good mental health, strong social skills, and building resilience as they navigate the complexities of growing up. By helping our children develop self-awareness, we empower them to handle life's…
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Connect Method Parenting is the art of subtraction and addition in your parenting journey. 🌱 By subtracting control, correction, comparison, and the need to fix, we make room for what truly matters: unconditional love, acceptance, trust, and the freedom to experience all emotions. 🤗❤️ This is not about spoiling our children, but about filling them …
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It's no secret that CMP believes: Everyone is 100% loveable. ❤️ Accepting 🙌 without condoning is totally a thing. Love is not just an emotion but a 🛠️ skill that benefits both the giver and the receiver. Difficult conversations 📣 are inevitable and a rewarding process. Loving without conditions is the 💡 way to go. In today's 🎙️ episode, we're chatt…
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When we think of separation anxiety, we often think about leaving little kids at daycare. But I actually see in my practice, lots of kids that are much older, even 11 and 12, who have real separation anxiety, where they're worried if you go out for dinner, or a walk around the block, and they're in the house by themselves. They just can't do it and…
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Ever caught yourself expecting perfection from your kids, only to realize you're holding them to a standard you can't even meet? In this episode of the CMP Book Club, we delve into the heart of empathetic parenting with a powerful reminder: our children mirror our behaviors, and kindness starts with us. Next Steps: >> Get a FREE copy of my book and…
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Do you feel overwhelmed by the emotional highs and lows of parenting? That used to be my story. That's why when Tori started sharing the emotional breakthroughs she was having because of CMP I knew I had to have her on the podcast! Learning how to process, feel, and regulate our emotions is critical if we want to show up as the connected parent we …
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Hello Mama! Welcome back to the Rooted Working Mom podcast! I’m Cynthia Castro, your host and it is an honor to be with you today as we talk about trusting God during seasons of waiting. As Rooted Working Moms we anchor our identity, purpose, and trust in Jesus. It's about deepening our relationship with Jesus and saying Yes & Amen to our calling o…
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Today, we’re revisiting a fan-favorite episode, featuring a special session with my daughter Zoe on the CALM technique. Listen in as we delve into managing schedules and maintaining order. We'll role-play typical chaotic home scenarios, demonstrating the transformative effects of the CALM technique before and after its application. If you’re new to…
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Hey there, welcome back to the CMP Book Club! Today, we're diving into Chapter 3: "Nothing Has Gone Wrong Here." I'm excited to tackle a common myth about parenting - the idea that good parenting is all about having perfectly behaved kids. Let's unpack why your child's meltdowns are actually important milestones, not a measure of your parenting ski…
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Drop the green juice, call a friend, and tune in for a game-changing episode! Michelle, fresh from the 8-Week Parenting Pivot, spills the tea on her parenting transformation. Swapping discipline for connection, she witnessed incredible shifts in her family dynamics. Michelle's story isn't just inspiring—it's a total game-changer in the parenting pl…
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A listener named Justin shared his frustration with his 13-year-old daughter's screen habits, feeling exhausted from constantly having to monitor her. He's also grappling with her claims that other parents are more lenient, leaving him questioning if strict rules hinder her ability to handle technology responsibly. This is a common dilemma, and wit…
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The "baby powder blizzard of 2007," was a pivotal moment that changed the trajectory of my parenting. I decided to abandon traditional disciplinary methods and began challenging the notion that discipline is the essence of parenting. Drawing from developmental psychology and attachment theory, I eventually discovered the five steps to transition fr…
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In today's episode, we're peeling back the curtain on one family's transformative journey with Connect Method Parenting (CMP). Emily, a dedicated mom of four adopted children, opens up about her path to connection, revealing the real, raw, and unfiltered experiences that have reshaped her parenting approach. As a teacher turned full-time mom, Emily…
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Ever felt like you were thrown into the deep end of parenting without so much as a “how-to” YouTube video? Today on the Pod, we're tossing out the old parenting playbook of timeouts and gold stars and diving into something truly revolutionary – Connect Method Parenting. Parenting can feel like getting ready to set sail only to realize your GPS is s…
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🔥 “CMP is the only thing that has actually worked, and I’ve tried everything. I had read over 40 parenting books when I found Connect Method Parenting.” -Mary Today, we’re sliding into your earbuds with a story that will make you rethink everything you thought was set in stone about wrangling your kiddos. Enter Mary. Six kids deep, including two se…
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Today we are diving into the idea that as parents, we're essentially acting as substitute frontal lobes for our children. After an Instagram short I posted went viral, I realized just how much this idea resonated with so many of you. We are looking at: Why are we more than just parents in the traditional sense? What does stepping into the role of a…
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Let's dig into the liberating truth that we can craft the future with our children, free from the chains of bygone days. This episode is not just about listening—it's about action. Andee unveils the three core strategies of Connect Method Parenting that guarantee results when applied consistently. She delves into the importance of safety, unconditi…
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Amidst the complexities and generational gaps, the profound love and unique connections Grandparents share with us and our families hold immense importance to our growth and overall life experience. Join me today to explore the richness of this relationship, examining the contrast between modern parenting and the practices of our parents' era, and …
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Today, we're diving deep into a tricky topic: off-track behavior. But don't worry, we're not talking about rules and punishments. Nope, we’re talking about how to handle these off-track moments with style and understanding! Andee shows us how to turn those "What on earth?!" moments into chances for connection, growth, and better listening. Get read…
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Why won't my kids listen? If you find yourself repeating instructions endlessly without any response, you're not alone. In this week's episode we explore the reasons behind this common parenting challenge and offer a treasure trove of tips and tricks to turn the tide. More than just getting your kids to listen, we'll discuss strategies for encourag…
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Do you ever feel like there aren't enough minutes in the day to connect with your kids? Or lament that you're not making the most of the time you DO have with your kids? What if your focus on how you're unable to create the relationships you want with your kids is the very thing getting in the way of creating the dreamy relationships you so despera…
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In this special guest series episode, I am thrilled to welcome Katie Kimball, a renowned advocate for healthy kids cooking and founder of the Kids Cook Real Food eCourse. Katie is on a powerful mission to bring families together through healthy food, aiming to teach every child the essential skill of cooking and instilling lifelong healthy habits. …
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One of the great paradoxes of parenting is learning how to be both firm and compassionate. Andee calls it the middle way of parenting. Seems kind of impossible but once you’re there it feels like coming home. Parenting Sovereignty opens up the possibility of showing up emotionally neutral regardless of how off-track their behavior is. Tapping into …
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In today's episode, we tackle a topic that many families face: divorce. It's a reality of our world, and navigating it with grace and care is crucial, especially when it comes to our children. Today we dive deep into questions like... How do we break the news to them? What are the do's and don'ts of discussing divorce with your kids? But more impor…
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Today’s episode is part two of a LIVE coaching series. In Episode 25, you were able to listen to a CMP coaching call I had with my amazing client, Jessica. A few months after that coaching session, we jumped on a call to document her incredible wins and progress. Now you get to be a fly on the wall and witness the process of implementing CMP in act…
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Do you ever feel like no matter what you try the kids won't do their chores? Or lament that if you were a better mom then they'd happily keep their room clean? What if your fixation on getting the kids to do their chores is the wrong fixation to have?! I'm fairly certain it is! If you can relate, I invite you to pull up a seat and listen in on this…
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In this episode, we dive into the world of blended families with a special focus on tips and tricks designed to help navigate the complexities and joys of bringing together 2 diverse family units. From practical advice on fostering harmony and understanding to creative strategies for bonding, this week's release is tailored to address the unique ch…
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