In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Rowan Thomas, an educator, artist, and poet. Rowan is working on their dissertation on "Identity Battle Fatigue," a cumulative result of an identity-related stress response to distressing mental and emotional conditions. They talk about growing up in Houston, Texas as a "queer man in…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Shelley and Nick. They chose to celebrate their 9th anniversary on our show, discussing their first steps into the Ethical Non-Monogamy Lifestyle. They talk in-depth about what they want from each other and some of the escapades they have gotten into.…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji have a riveting conversation with Chris Wellman, a stand-up comedian who has boldly intertwined his humor with kink and BDSM. In this episode, Chris delves into his strict upbringing, a stark contrast to the liberation he found in both the comedy scene and the kink community. Discover how Ch…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome back onto our show, The Property Dominator herself, Kiki Stone. We blow the doors down with a deep discussion about Kiki's strict upbringing and religious indoctrination. Finding enlightenment through education and self-love, she broke free of her shame and found happiness and succes…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Quiver Ambassador Saatcha Foxx. She talks about her monogamous upbringing leading to divorce and discovering the kink community and, by extension, the Quiver App. Her desire in the lifestyle is to educate and inspire new people to find the lifestyle but with better tools. Join …

Justina and Kenji welcome Ti Murray, a Therapeutic Kink Practitioner, to Monogam-ish Podcast. In this episode, Ti discusses a community center in Seattle that caters to kinky people. Also discussed is Ti's performance piece "A Kink in the Cure," which focuses on sexual trauma, Kink, and BDSM. BDSM and Kink are therapeutic, but they do not replace t…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Stella Harris, a certified intimacy educator and professional coach. They talk about pleasure rituals, how important masturbation is for your personal sexual development, and why you must be patient with those new to the ENM lifestyle. Learn more from Stella Harris here.…

In this episode of the Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji converse with Jamila, who identifies as a unicorn, and how her journey began. Jamila explains why she values her space and describes how she expresses her love through food and much more.Curious about Ethical Non-Monogamy? Join us at the Share Event on September 29, 2023, at Tracks Night…

In this episode, we discuss the journey to re-open a relationship. Whether you're new or have been out for a while, this episode is for you! Joining them are Sante and Vera, the co-creators of Share: A Non-Monogamy Ball —an event tailored to the ethical non-monogamous community. The hosts catch up with Sante and Vera, discussing what has happened s…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Sex Coach and Author of "Living Your Erotic Potential," Mark Casey. He also talks about the importance of breathing and how it can affect your sexual performance. As an adult, Mark was a business coach, and when he chose to become a sex coach, he discovered those skills were still ap…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji continue their talk with Ray, Rae, and Lei. Ray talks about how his father's absence made him strive to be a better man to his children. Rae talks about when she came out to her family and why she was hesitant about it. Lei tells us about her pressure, setting an example for her younger sibl…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to a beautiful throuple whose names sound like notes in a solfeggio, Ray, Rae, and Lei. Ray and Rae are a married couple who met after Ray got out of a messy relationship; Rae had a child at a young age and only wanted a casual hook-up. Still, they caught feelings for each other and ded…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Duane Allen, Director of Colorado Center of Alternative Lifestyles (COCAL); Duane is a retired, disabled veteran and a self-described "hedonist." He has participated in alternative lifestyle communities for the last two decades. Duane tells us how he got curious about kink from when …

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji speak to the insightful "Pleasure Priestess," Erin Berry. She is a certified Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach that holds regular online coaching for people all across the globe—helping people discover their deeply held trauma so that they can heal from it. Erin also talks about her own expe…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome back to Trisha, Producer Drew's Wife. Trisha talks about how she viewed compersion and shaped her relationships with her husband and boyfriend. She also talks about how she discovered the pleasure of using a strap-on to play with other ladies and then other men—that and more on Monog…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Brenden and Danielle about their exploration into the Lifestyle. Brenden came from a traditional Christian family where those rules suffocated him to the point he needed to escape. Danielle was the black sheep of her family and refused to be shaped by her family. They both discovered…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome onto the show Yvenne and Genesis. Both girls have gone through tremendous hurdles throughout their childhoods. Yvenne had been dealing with her gender identity since high school and the aggravation that comes from that. Genesis grew up in a broken family that revolved around staunch …

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome onto the show Chanel Bee. Chanel is a content creator, web designer, and marketeer. She tells us about her upbringing, early relationships, and how they shaped how she wanted to be treated later in life. Find out why Chanel is the exception to the rule of never entering the lifestyle…

In this Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome an extraordinary guest, Ken, and Danyell, the owners and operators of Summit House Parties. They talk about how they first started running a Bead and Breakfast and throwing house parties and how vindictive and envious people in the lifestyle community attempted to shut down Ken and D…

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Nathan Travis onto the show. He is a part of a seven-person polycule and will be appearing in the Netflix show "Sacred Spaces," involving him and his polycule. Nathan tells us about his early days in polyamory, while he made every mistake he could. In doing so, he cultivated enough w…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Erin and Lucas onto the show. Erin has been a primary care and gynecology/obstetrics practitioner for six years. Lucas owns his security company. Before she met Lucas, Erin had been in the lifestyle for many years. Listen to the episode to learn more.…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Kris and Lisa to talk about being demisexual in the lifestyle. Lisa and Kris met while Lisa while working abroad in Canada; Lisa explored the scene while up north and ran into Kris on more than one occasion. Early in their relationship, they decided that jealousy was a waste of time …

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to a hardcore hustler, AJ Fox. Growing up, her exposure to abstinence-only sex education led her to believe that her sexual desires were shameful. Despite her staunch conservative upbringing and teen pregnancy, as soon as AJ turned eighteen, she began doing sex work. Her main clientele,…

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Mistress Saskia and Mike Charming to talk about BDSM and running The RACK room here in colorado. Mistress Saskia graces us with her decade's insights being a professional dominatrix, like how to remove someone who's passed out on a cross safely. Mike Charming tells us of how he start…

In this compelling episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Ella Barnett onto the show. Ella tells us that she didn't like being monogamous when she was younger and believed it was a defect in her character. After two failed marriages, she gave up on having any hierarchical relationships and concentrated on herself. Being a full-ti…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Sasha to talk about her adventure into the lifestyle as a single, Solo-Poly woman. Sasha started her journey when she realized that she needed to break her cycle of abuse from her former partners. After two disastrous relationships, she discovered the lifestyle and has never be…

In the Season 3 Premiere of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome; Helen and Roy are onto the show. These two sexy beasts talk about their journeys to the ENM lifestyle. Helen hails from a small town in Colorado, rife with conservative, abstinence-only sex education, and became the "Virgin Slip Collector" to many boys. Roy, also coming fro…

On our Season Finale Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome Michael and Bev onto our show. Michael and Bev are both famous for hosting the "Raven's Nest" house parties in Colorado. Michael had been active in the San Francisco swinger scene for years after discovering his innate need to have sex with multiple people, or as he puts…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji sit down with Urvashi and Kama, the owners and operators of Spark Erotic. An Erotic Film company that specializes in making high-end, cinematic, erotic films. What started as a fun hobby of shooting erotic photographs soon became a full-fledged career producing sincere and sensual films. Kam…

Justina and Kenji, welcome to the show, internationally-renown sex therapist and clinical psychologist Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb, to talk with us once again. Dr. Rhoda tells us about her experience as a sex therapist specializing in AB/DL, Adult Baby/Diaper Lover patients. and how she coaches them in accepting themselves and easing their partner's worries…

Justina and Kenji, welcome to the show, Award-Winning Documentary Filmmaker Dillon Birdsall. Dillon talks about his first documentary, "V-Card: The Film," and his journey to find out what people thought about virginity while he was a virgin at the time. For Dillon, if he hadn't had the group of friends and family he had, he thinks he might have bec…

Justina and Kenji welcome back on to the show, Torrey Lisa AKA The Polyamorous Cougar, AKA #WhorreyTorrey. Torrey regales us with stories from her solo, month-long trip through Europe, where her philosophy on how to live her life was reaffirmed. How her living her best life has continued to shower her with amazing opportunities and experiences. Lis…

Justina and Kenji leave the -Ish Tank and make their way to Las Vegas, where they meet their mirror versions of themselves, Jen and Gabe. These two have their hands in many lifestyle businesses, including running a house for private lifestyle parties. Jen and Gabe share stories about how they met their partners and how they became a happy family. A…

Justina and Kenji welcome to the show, Whitney Dean, a real estate wild child, forever on the hunt for the next endorphin rush. She tells her story about how she comes from a stable yet affectionless family; and how, from the beginning, she could not find her own tribe. Of course, a chance meeting on an Alternative dating website opened up her worl…

Justina and Kenji bring welcome to the show, Sherrie Murray LMT, a Licensed Massage Therapist, Ashiatsu Practitioner, and lover of Men's Prostate. Sherrie talks about her early years, growing up in a dysfunctional household, where her own mother slept in Sherrie's bedroom with her. To when Sherrie and her ex-husband were recruited to perform on Pla…

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Rich and Lea onto the show. Lea and Rich tell their tale from their southern upbringings in Alabama, to living in a nudist colony near Denver, to finding out that Lea is actually a "cuckquean", but didn't know it, yet.

This has been an episode we meant to do much earlier, and now we have finally got around to making it. In this episode we talk about Etiquette in the lifestyle, the Do's and Don't's of the lifestyle, and how following these simple steps can make your entry into the lifestyle that much easier.

On this enthralling episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome Ace and Sweeney Gray onto the show. Bringing so much needed Exxxtra energy into the "-Ish Tank" with their tantalizing stories about exploring their sexuality as young men, finding what their preferences are, and pontificating on what being "Queer" actually means. If you …

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome Isabella Dollish onto the show. Isabella is a Pro Switch, that travels around the world, beating asses and getting her ass beat. She can take as much as she can dish it out, so long as it's been negotiated. Check her out on Instagram and Twitter.…

Justina and Kenji welcome back Brianna, and her new fiancée Amber. We find out what they have been doing since her last time being on the show, and they discuss their adventures and obstacles as transwomen in the lesbian community.

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Kenji and Justina bring out Producer Drew, the man behind the camera onto the show to talk about where the show has been, where the show is at now, and what our plans for the future entail. We also go over numerous terms and phrases that people use inside the lifestyle. Consider this your non-monogamy cheatsh…

Justina and Kenji return in this enlightening episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. We speak to Anna and Skylar about how they work as a couple in the lifestyle. Anna's desire for women lead Skylar to discover a Lifestyle Resort in Southern California, which kicked off their adventure into the lifestyle.

Justina and Keji talk to Kenneth, Erin, and Tom about how they all got into the lifestyle and became throuple. From Erin and Kenneth's beginnings as a swinging couple, to how Erin and Tom bonded through a tumultuous experience. Kenneth shares his views on how he rationalized being in the lifestyle of a Christian man.…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Kathy Sloan AKA Kiki Stone, The Property Dominator, to talk about how the BDSM and the Swinger communities are subtlety different. The unforeseen pitfalls of selling a house with a dungeon in the basement. And how it's far too common that people are afraid to express their desires to…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Sante and Vera onto the show as they talk about their on-and-off relationship finally blossomed into an engagement, and Sante talks about his new Lifestyle App, PlayLove, a truly lifestyle-friendly application to talk to other members in the lifestyle around the world.…

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji are jointed by Daniel, a single male in the lifestyle, as he discusses his philosophy and rules for navigating the tumultuous seas of lifestyle. Listen as he breaks down his rules to find success and peace of mind.

On this triumphant episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Our hosts, Justina and Kenji welcome Dave and Ruth onto the show to talk about their journey into ethical non-monogamy, from their fateful voyage on a swingers cruise to starring in adult films. Dave and Ruth prove that, even after two decades of marriage, you can still find ways to surprise each o…

Kenji and Mike speak alone, without Jen and Justina and they talk about their personal experiences in the lifestyle. Mike tells his journey as a single man as a swinger before meeting Jen. Kenji talks about his observations in the lifestyle.

On this episode of Monogamish Podcast. Jen and Justina speak to the super sexy, Liz on living the life of a highly desired unicorn. Liz also talks about her upbringing from a country girl dodging tornados at her family farm, to unraveling the misconceptions people have about relationships. This Episode was previously a Patreon Exclusive.…

In his episode of Monogam-ish. Jen and Justina converse with Roger and Jessica about their success and failures while navigating the swinging lifestyle. From their trepidatious beginnings to keeping track of limited and discontinued stylish footwear.Monogam-ish