Is there a difference between discipline and punishment? Are you a Leader of Character? Do you know the difference? Ms Dava and Chief share some thoughts, experiences, and events that describe the difference between the two terms. BTW, there IS a difference!Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

What happens when you don't live up to something you said you would do? Is there a way to apologize or make amends so that both people are not offended or hurt? That's the topic that Ms Dava and Chief discuss. It's real-world stuff. And it builds character.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava experiences some real conflicts in her new job. The theory of conflict resolution is all well and good, but when it actually happens in life, it can be difficult to resolve because it involves real people, real-time. Chief suggests Acknowledging that WE create or are part of the conflict, choosing a Win-Win Mentality, among other methods.…

Ms Dava reports back to Chief about how the week went after attempting to accomplish hers, and her husband's, Big Rocks. Chief suggests that we all have to prioritize ourselves FIRST.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Now that Ms Dava has time to read what she wants to read, having recently graduated from the University of Texas, she's selected The One-Minute Apology, written by Kenneth Blanchard & Margret Mc Bride. Chief gives Ms Dava his perspective.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief discuss the foundations of self-help, which Chief suggests include four domains: values, purpose, vision, and influence, and how to improve them. Chief suggests that you have to begin at the beginning, by doing some self-assessment and discovery.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava shares her perspective on what went on at her college, the University of Texas at Austin a few weeks ago.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief and Ms Dava continue their discussion on the merits of formal education vs trade schools. Is one more valuable, more important, than the other? Is there a balance to be struck?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

As Ms Dava gets ready to graduate from college, Chief asks her for her perspective on the value of formal education. Is it still important? Why? Does everyone need a college degree? What's the alternative?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Still discussing conflict resolution, Chief suggest a revolutionary way of thinking about the topic and how to apply different methods.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief discuss how to resolve conflicts. WAIT! Do they? Or is there a conflict between them that needs resolving?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief discuss the importance of communication in any relationship and how to improve on it.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief and Ms Dava conclude their discussion on the Character Identity Discovery Process proposing that the measure of our identity is based on what we do and don't do.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief ponder the question of whether we have multiple identities or just one with different parts.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief continue their discussion on the Character Identity Discovery Process, I DO!, as they touch on topics such as procrastinating, the OODA Loop, and the power of saying no.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Having discussed the first two parts of Chief's Character Identity Development Process in previous episodes, Ms Dava and Chief discuss the third part of the process that Chief calls "I DO!" Our character is measured by what we do, but doing what we know we should is not necessarily, nor always, easy. It takes a deep commitment. Here are their thoug…

Ms Dava and Chief finish off their discussion on the second step of the Character Identity Discovery Process, I WILL!, by sharing their thoughts on such topics as respect, forgiveness, motivation, and accountability, and their importance to helping one discover their Character Identity.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

To know but not to do is not to know. The first part of the process, the I CAN!, is important but is of no value until you DO IT! That is a matter of commitment, which is the I WILL! In this episode, Ms Dava and Chief discuss how to make that commitment. It takes discipline and willfulness. And it works best when it's habitual!…

Ms Dava and Chief introduce the idea of willingness as part of the Character Identity Discovery Process. It follows the self-efficacy part of "I can."Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief and Ms Dava continue their discussion on the Character Identity Development Process, particularly the power of self-efficacy.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief mentioned a four-part identity/integrity process last episode that he and Ms Dava discuss more deeply in this episode, specifically the first step, which is I Can or self-efficacy.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief share their thoughts on what the future might hold and how to envision the future. The holidays are a good time to seek solitude and answer the most powerful questions such as what ARE my values, purpose, vision, and influencers, and how will they affect my character development? This episode concludes Season 2. We'll take a break…

Chief and Ms Dava discuss some things that happened this past season that they call blessings and the value of assessing and measuring past achievements and plans as part of creating our character.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief share what they're grateful for this Thanksgiving holiday, which includes their listeners. Thank you! And Happy Thanksgiving!Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

As a new mom, Ms Dava's purpose and priorities have changed. Purpose and values are key parts of a person's character. Ms Dava's character has grown a lot in the past few months.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

First of all, BIG CONGRATULATIONS to Ms Dava and her husband, Jacob, on the birth of their son, Joel! Chief and Ms Dava talk about the biggest character test of her life. New responsibilities require adapting to a new life.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava is having a baby soon, very soon, so we'll be taking a break until after the baby is born. She needs to focus on more important things. Blessings for an easy birth, Ms Dava!Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

What's the real purpose of going to school? Is it to get good grades? Is it to learn?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

We all know that all high school and college students cheat! Or do they? Why do they, if they do? What's the answer?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Diet, rest, and sleep are critical to maintaining a resilient body. Here are some thoughts on how to do that.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief share some thoughts and ideas regarding the importance and value of physical fitness to maintaining and sustaining a person's resiliency. Gotta take care of the vessel to be a Leader of character!Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Ms Dava and Chief continue their discussion on where we get our CHARACTERistics.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Where do we learn or get our character traits? From our family is one place.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Listening is an important skill for Leaders of Character. What is EMPATHIC listening?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

We have different ways of showing respect. Some are generational.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief and Mrs Dava continue their discussion on the power of listening.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Mrs Dava and Chief talk about the importance and value of listening, not just hearing.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Who are we to judge?Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

What is your life's purpose and how do you find it? Those are the topics Ms Dava and Chief discuss in this episode.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief and Dava finish their discussion on values and start talking about purpose.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

We're constantly bombarded with influences, but, ultimately, our values are still a choice.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

Chief and Dava talk about the importance of spirituality.Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez

You may think you know what's important to you, but do you know what the labels you use mean? Yeah, more defining stuff....Dava Flowers & Chief Bob Vásquez