Do Love Languages Change with Age?

The Loneliness Project: Connection after 50 with Pam & Karyn

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This episode dives deeply into Gary Chapman's renowned concept of the Love Languages, now expanded to seven love languages. We ponder how our our needs have changed since we first talked about the book that took looking at relationships from a back street to the Autobahn.

Pam and Karyn ponder the possibility of a much-needed sequel: "Love Language After 50." Discover how to effectively communicate your evolving emotional needs to spouses, children, coworkers, and friends. Whether it's Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, or perhaps a new language entirely, understanding these dynamics is key to enriching our relationships.
Email us at pamkarynpod@gmail.com if you have any comments or questions after listening to this. We might read your message on one of our podcasts (if you don't mind).

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Spiritual Bypassing and Toxic Positivity: Going deep on why society is obsessed with these two practices 48:32

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Send us a text Pam and Karyn ponder WHY we: 1. try to make big problems small, 2. avoid the truth, 3. don’t accept our new normal, and 4. can’t stop guilting ourselves They discuss why we KNOW more than we can DO. Finally, is a pity party okay, EVER?

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The Future of Aging: Lessons Learned from Denmark, Japan & Beyond 54:28

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Send us a text Dive into "The Future of Aging: Lessons from Denmark, Japan, and Beyond." In this episode, Pam and Karyn explore how various countries support their aging to combat loneliness and manage dementia. There are lessons the U.S. can take from these truly inspiring initiatives. Plus, the gal pals love to gamify everything to make an episode more fun, so listen in as Pam and Karyn rate each program “weird, creepy, or cool.” You might be surprised by some of our responses—not everything gets our stamp of approval! Grab a cuppa and get cozy. It’s an all new Loneliness Project.…

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Sip & Chat: Catching Up with Pam & Karyn 45:40

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Send us a text Join Pam and Karyn this week as the gals take a break from the regular podcast format for a special episode of 'The Loneliness Project: Connection After 50.' It’s time for a heartfelt girlfriend catch-up. It’s all about the power of sharing stories, laughter, and even our pains to strengthen the bonds of friendship. Whether you’re sipping tea or coffee, you're invited to take a break and relax with us as we explore the happenings in our lives and celebrate the threads that connect us all. Don't miss this cozy and uplifting gab session!…

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Send this to your friends who will have an empty nest! 1:03:23

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Send us a text Do you fear the approach of Empty Nesting? Through our discussion with Ginger, a seasoned empty nester, we discuss how to prepare for a new normal. It's all about the planting of certain seeds. Please join us!

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Empty Nest, Full Life: Rediscovering Who You Are Truly Meant to Be 48:37

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Send us a text Join Pam and Karyn in "The Loneliness Project: Connection After 50" as they explore the transformative journey of rediscovering yourself after the kids have flown the nest. This episode dives into the emotional whirlpool that engulfs many moms transitioning from full-time parenting to finding their own passions and identity. Whether it’s reviving old hobbies, embarking on new educational pursuits, or simply learning to prioritize personal joy, this discussion is a heartfelt guide to embracing life’s second chapter, complete with personal stories and a practical Rediscovery Roadmap Quiz. Tune in to start sculpting a life that truly reflects who you are meant to be, with your partner and as an individual!…

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The Loss Report Card: Is One Loss Greater than the Other? 53:29

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Send us a text Is it easier to lose a loved one suddenly vs a slow death? Are we ever truly prepared for the inevitable loss of our elderly parents? What about when a loved one dies unexpectedly? How do we go from feeling devastated to being OK? Is Loss on a hierarchy? These questions and more are discussed by Pam and Karyn as they each share their own losses and discuss the toll it takes.…

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The Frenemy Factor: Older, Wiser, But Not Immune 1:00:21

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Send us a text Frenemies are TOXIC and it’s time to get them out of your life! Grab a cuppa something cozy and warm and join Pam and Karyn for a deep dive into the world of frenemies on 'The Loneliness Project: Connection After 50.' Ever wonder why these tricky relationships seem to hit differently for women than men– especially as we age? Well, we're unpacking all that with some science, personal frenemy encounters, and even some telltale scenarios to help you decipher if you’ve got an unsuspecting frenemy lurking in your life. We'll explore why these half-friends can be more draining than outright enemies and share some solid tips for how to handle them. Don't miss out on this eye-opening chat—it's like a little guide to peace of mind in every aspect of your social, work, family, and neighborhood life!…

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Why Karyn despises New Year's Resolutions 38:58

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Send us a text Karyn can't stand resolutions at the New Year. She shares with us why. We are republishing this from one year ago and plan to update it for 2025.

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What’s Guilt Got to Do With It? 1:03:18

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Send us a text Welcome back to "The Loneliness Project: Connection After 50," where today's episode dives deep into the complex world of guilt. Join Pam and Karyn as they explore everything from the motivating power of healthy guilt to the paralyzing effects of its toxic counterpart. In this thoughtful discussion, they unpack why we feel guilt, how it shapes our interactions, and what it truly means to manage this powerful emotion wisely. Grab a cuppa tea or coffee and join us, won’t you?…

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Stuck in the Middle: Unraveling the “Mom is the Glue” Phenomenon 48:30

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Social Experiment: How are you? (Really) 40:04

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Alone But Not Lonely: The Power of Solitude Later in Life 57:30

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Send us a text Explore the transformative power of solitude in this insightful episode of "The Loneliness Project." Join Pam and Karyn as they distinguish between the sting of loneliness and the peaceful embrace of solitude. Learn how solitude, when approached with a curious and positive mindset, can lead to self-discovery, creativity, and a renewed appreciation for relationships. The gals discuss simple strategies for cultivating meaningful solitude that enriches your life and strengthens your connections with others. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to turn their alone time into a rejuvenating experience.…

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To be a Caregiver : From Aging Parents to Unexpected Supportive Roles 40:44

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Family Rifts: Understanding and Healing Estrangement 37:10

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Chronic Illnesses after 50 1:02:46

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Winter Blahs: Seasonal Affective Disorder 55:54

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Retirement dreams 43:21

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Feedback from our community 29:07

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Send us a text We've missed you and now we know that you have missed us too!! Thank you, Listeners, for giving us your ideas and thoughts. Please keep your thoughts coming at Pamkarynpod@gmail.com.

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Pros and Cons of Pet ownership 46:31

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Send us a text We share how Karyn became a cat lover at age 50 plus we delve into the pros/cons of having pets. Let us know your opinion at our email: Pamkarynpod@gmail.com

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Thankgiving Updates: goals, fights, and illness 29:11

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Send us a text Thanksgiving was full of surprises this year and we both felt ready! Listen and then email us at pamkarynpod@gmail.com to share your Thanksgiving surprises.

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Elderly Parents Continues 56:18

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Send us a text This is the second part of our discussion of how we barely understand what it's like when our parents get older until we reach our 50s. We share the role reversal, changing dynamics, tough conversations, and action steps for maintaining dignity for them while managing our own struggles. pamkarynpod@gmail.com…

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Navigating Elderly Parents 42:40

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Send us a text Not many of us understand what it's like when our parents get older until we reach our 50s. We share the role reversal, changing dynamics, tough conversations, and action steps for maintaining dignity for them while managing our own struggles. pamkarynpod@gmail.com

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Reconnecting After.... 28:36

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Why we want to Pod with you (the full story) 28:06

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Send us a text Do you ever feel bored and lonely? Pam wanted to start this podcast to find more women like her. Karyn obliged her! pamkarynpod@gmail.com

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Send us a text Do you have an interesting guest at your holiday event? We share one or two with you. Email us at pamkarynpod@gmail.com

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