Setting 2024 Intentions So The Universe is Your Sugar Daddy: with Dellara Gorjian

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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When you trust in the universe, the universe rewards you. Dellara Gorjian is a prime example of the beauty that can unfold when you are living a truly authentic life. The law school alum and immigration law advocate turned content creator (aka, our TikTok “legal baddie”) has cultivated a community of over 1.4 million. She keeps it real, raw and spiritual.

Today she shares:

What being a loner in school gave her
Her struggle with feeling both confident and insecure
Her incredible journey from lawyer to content creator
Her concerns about DACA
The toxicity of the content creator industry
Why influencers shouldn’t niche down on social
How the TikTok algorithm helped grow her audience
Where the term “legal baddie” came from
Pivoting from law to content creation
How the universe rewards you for acts of courage
Why she considers the universe her sugar daddy
How gratitude can lead to breakthrough and opportunity
Why disagreements are beautiful and have the power to connect people

Follow Dellara on Instagram @dellara

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Setting 2024 Intentions So The Universe is Your Sugar Daddy: with Dellara Gorjian

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Today she shares:

What being a loner in school gave her
Her struggle with feeling both confident and insecure
Her incredible journey from lawyer to content creator
Her concerns about DACA
The toxicity of the content creator industry
Why influencers shouldn’t niche down on social
How the TikTok algorithm helped grow her audience
Where the term “legal baddie” came from
Pivoting from law to content creation
How the universe rewards you for acts of courage
Why she considers the universe her sugar daddy
How gratitude can lead to breakthrough and opportunity
Why disagreements are beautiful and have the power to connect people

Follow Dellara on Instagram @dellara

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