Recovery From Coercive Control podcast

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Please note this practice should only be done if you have practiced mindfulness for some time. Saira has created these mindfulness practices for you to try. You're best starting with the shorter ones. And just bring them in a few times a week. It can be hard breaking the patterns of our lives to begin spending time doing these exercises, but it is worth the trouble. Your mind is going to wander during these practices. Don't worry, it's what minds do and the work with mindfulness is when you notice your mind is drifting and bring it back to the present and the practice. Some discomfort and difficulty is expected because it is work. You are changing your neurological pathways and working on your attentional system, so bear that in mind when you're trying to decide if this is something that's going work for you. These practices from Saira are all trauma sensitive. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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Sitting Meditation Mindfulness Practice 27:20

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Saira has created these mindfulness practices for you to try. You're best starting with the shorter ones. And just bring them in a few times a week. It can be hard breaking the patterns of our lives to begin spending time doing these exercises, but it is worth the trouble. Your mind is going to wander during these practices. Don't worry, it's what minds do and the work with mindfulness is when you notice your mind is drifting and bring it back to the present and the practice. Some discomfort and difficulty is expected because it is work. You are changing your neurological pathways and working on your attentional system, so bear that in mind when you're trying to decide if this is something that's going work for you. These practices from Saira are all trauma sensitive. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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Sitting With Breath Mindfulness Practice 9:45

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Saira has created these mindfulness practices for you to try. You're best starting with the shorter ones. And just bring them in a few times a week. It can be hard breaking the patterns of our lives to begin spending time doing these exercises, but it is worth the trouble. Your mind is going to wander during these practices. Don't worry, it's what minds do and the work with mindfulness is when you notice your mind is drifting and bring it back to the present and the practice. Some discomfort and difficulty is expected because it is work. You are changing your neurological pathways and working on your attentional system, so bear that in mind when you're trying to decide if this is something that's going work for you. These practices from Saira are all trauma sensitive. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com…

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Full Body Scan Mindfulness Practice 25:13

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Saira has created these mindfulness practices for you to try. You're best starting with the shorter ones. And just bring them in a few times a week. It can be hard breaking the patterns of our lives to begin spending time doing these exercises, but it is worth the trouble. Your mind is going to wander during these practices. Don't worry, it's what minds do and the work with mindfulness is when you notice your mind is drifting and bring it back to the present and the practice. Some discomfort and difficulty is expected because it is work. You are changing your neurological pathways and working on your attentional system, so bear that in mind when you're trying to decide if this is something that's going work for you. These practices from Saira are all trauma sensitive. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com…

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Cultivating Compassion Mindfulness Practice 19:13

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Saira has created these mindfulness practices for you to try. You're best starting with the shorter ones. And just bring them in a few times a week. It can be hard breaking the patterns of our lives to begin spending time doing these exercises, but it is worth the trouble. Your mind is going to wander during these practices. Don't worry, it's what minds do and the work with mindfulness is when you notice your mind is drifting and bring it back to the present and the practice. Some discomfort and difficulty is expected because it is work. You are changing your neurological pathways and working on your attentional system, so bear that in mind when you're trying to decide if this is something that's going work for you. These practices from Saira are all trauma sensitive. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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Breathing Space Mindfulness Practice 3:47

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Saira has created these mindfulness practices for you to try. You're best starting with the shorter ones. And just bring them in a few times a week. It can be hard breaking the patterns of our lives to begin spending time doing these exercises, but it is worth the trouble. Your mind is going to wander during these practices. Don't worry, it's what minds do and the work with mindfulness is when you notice your mind is drifting and bring it back to the present and the practice. Some discomfort and difficulty is expected because it is work. You are changing your neurological pathways and working on your attentional system, so bear that in mind when you're trying to decide if this is something that's going work for you. These practices from Saira are all trauma sensitive. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com…

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The Benefits Of Mindfulness 12:29

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After a crisis everything can feel like a big ball of distress. Everything feels as though it is spilling out and it can be hard to make sense of what is happening internally. To help with this Saira uses mindfulness. In this episode she explains what mindfulness is and why it's so helpful in recovery from a psychological perspective. Of course as with every tool in the recovery toolkit it doesn't work for everybody. Trust your judgment and intuition. Presilienz | Mindfulness Closer To People From Various Walks Of Life - Saira and Nhi teach mindfulness courses based on and following the Oxford Mindfulness Foundation curriculum. Sign up for courses at this website. Amishi Jha - This is the podcast by Amishi Jha mentioned by Saira in this episode Resources & Free Audio Practices - Oxford Mindfulness Foundation - These are the resources from the Oxford Mindfulness Foundation mentioned by Saira in this episode. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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What Is Post Traumatic Growth? 13:36

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Much of the research around survivors of coercive control is grim and dark according to Saira. So in this episode she is sharing her thoughts around post-traumatic growth. Of course survivors, including Saira herself, have been through grim and dark times but they also have a real strength. Having said that it's important to note that post-traumatic growth does not mean that the crisis or the trauma that was experienced was worth experiencing in any shape or form, but the gains that happened were an unintended consequence of this horrific event. Post-Traumatic Growth Inventory We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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Going Back To An Abusive Relationship 17:01

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For people on the outside of abusive relationships it can be very confusing to see survivors return to the person who has harmed them. And it's often confusing for the survivor too, this desire or urge to go back to the person who has hurt them. In this episode Saira examines why this might happen. Harlow YouTube Video - This is the monkey experiment that Saira talks about in this episode. Please note these you may find the experiments upsetting. ALEXANDRA STEIN Ph.D. Understanding Cults and Extremist Groups - storage - In her book Terror Love and Brainwashing, Alexandra Stein explains how in this confused state, this disorganized attachment that's created that we can't think clearly. And internally there's a conflict. That causes one to collapse mentally, and we're more easily prone to adopt what others around us are telling us, because psychologically it's just easier. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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Recovery From Coercive Control 10:38

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Recovery from coercive control is possible. In this episode Saira explores how she works with survivors and the stages of recovery. Of course every survivor has their own story and it's not fair to generalise across everybody's experience but there are similarities in how people do recover. Saira's work with survivors is based on Judith Herman and her stages of recovery. And as you'll hear, more often than not, recovery is not linear - it's more like a spiral. Trauma and recovery : Judith Lewis Herman : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive - Saira's work with survivors is based on Judith Herman's work and in particular this book. We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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What Is Coercive Control? 15:37

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The first step in recovery is understanding what has happened to you. The next is making sense of what has happened to you, before you accepting that this has actually happened. And you can't start that first step until you know what coercive control actually is. In this episode Saira explores what coercive control is so you can recognise it happening. Duluth Wheel - In this episode Saira talks about the Duluth Wheel. This is We hope this podcast has been helpful in your journey to understanding what has happened to you and provided some new insights and perhaps, hopefully even helped you feel less alone. Any feedback, helpful suggestions or ideas on what you would like to hear more about are very welcome. Please get in touch on email saira@mendality.com or via the website mendality.com Copyright 2023 Saira Khan…

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Who Is Dr Saira Khan? 7:05

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