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Frances Frei is a Harvard Business professor. Anne Morriss is a CEO and best-selling author. Anne and Frances are two of the top leadership coaches in the world. Oh, did we mention they're also married to each other? Together, Anne and Frances move fast and fix stuff by talking to guest callers about their workplace issues and solving their problems – in 30 minutes or less. Both listeners and guests will receive actionable insights to create meaningful change in the workplace – regardless of their position on the company ladder. If you want to be on Fixable, call our hotline at 234-Fixable (that's 234-349-2253) to leave Anne and Frances a voicemail with your workplace problem. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Вміст надано Zach Thinkshare. Весь вміст подкастів, включаючи епізоди, графіку та описи подкастів, завантажується та надається безпосередньо компанією Zach Thinkshare або його партнером по платформі подкастів. Якщо ви вважаєте, що хтось використовує ваш захищений авторським правом твір без вашого дозволу, ви можете виконати процедуру, описану тут https://uk.player.fm/legal.
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Вміст надано Zach Thinkshare. Весь вміст подкастів, включаючи епізоди, графіку та описи подкастів, завантажується та надається безпосередньо компанією Zach Thinkshare або його партнером по платформі подкастів. Якщо ви вважаєте, що хтось використовує ваш захищений авторським правом твір без вашого дозволу, ви можете виконати процедуру, описану тут https://uk.player.fm/legal.
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Want the book? https://lnk.to/GoodGirlsGossip Tova on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tova_leigh In this engaging conversation, Zach Watson and Tova discuss the importance of reclaiming the concept of gossip as a tool for female empowerment. They explore the significance of women's circles, emotional literacy, and the value of community in fostering connections. Tova shares her experiences with online criticism and the impact of social media on self-perception, emphasizing the need for transparency and empathy in conversations. The discussion culminates in a call to action for individuals to step away from their screens and reconnect with the world around them.…
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1 Ep 91: ERGs, How to make our orgs a better place 1:04:53
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Christy is an expert ERG leader, builder and speaker, so glad I got to have her drop knowledge about ERGs with us. Fin Her: https://stan.store/TheParentsTable Takeaways ERGs serve as a vital support system for employees, especially parents. Creating a sense of community in the workplace enhances employee retention. Many employees are unaware of the resources available to them. Childcare support is a significant concern for working parents. ERGs can help bridge the gap between employees and leadership. Effective ERGs align their goals with the company's mission and values. Measuring the impact of ERGs is crucial for demonstrating their value. Leadership often has misconceptions about the purpose of ERGs. Building a business case for ERGs can secure necessary funding. Collaboration between different ERGs can enhance their effectiveness.…
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1 Ep 90: Teaching Kids and Teens Invisible Labor - Lori Sugarman-Li 1:02:06
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Lori's Book: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Our-Home/Lori-Sugarman-Li/9781685554286 Summary: In this engaging conversation, Lori Sugarman Lee and her son Tyson discuss the often-overlooked concept of invisible labor within the home. They explore the inspiration behind Lori's children's book on domestic labor, the importance of fostering independence in teenagers, and the emotional labor involved in parenting. The discussion emphasizes the need for open communication, acknowledgment of contributions, and teaching life skills through household chores. They also address the mental load that affects both parents and teenagers, highlighting the significance of feedback and trust in family dynamics. Overall, the conversation provides valuable insights into navigating domestic responsibilities and fostering a supportive family environment. Lori's Book: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Our-Home/Lori-Sugarman-Li/9781685554286 Lori's IG: https://www.instagram.com/ourhomeourpride/…
Find Stephanie Here! https://www.instagram.com/hellonannydotcom/ Hiring a nanny can save marriages and improve parenting. The stigma around hiring help often stems from personal history. Financial barriers make it difficult for many families to seek support. Support systems are crucial for modern families to thrive. Pride can prevent parents from seeking the help they need. Community support is essential for raising children today. Parents should prioritize what is important for their family. Open discussions about support can reduce shame and stigma. Support is not a sign of weakness, but a superpower. Creating accessible support systems can benefit all families.…
Join the free community discussing this everyday: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about?ref=e3ce6e039d8b42dbb2a3e7c793b3c259 The 'boring meeting' is a valuable tool for communication. Routine and operations are essential for family dynamics. Nurturing connection involves discussing emotions and feelings. Game planning helps in managing family events and responsibilities. Setting up effective meetings can streamline communication. Incentivizing participation can make meetings more enjoyable. Real-life examples illustrate the effectiveness of boring meetings. Addressing emotional labor is crucial for relationship health. Creating a safe space for discussions fosters better connections. The goal is to manage the mental load effectively.…
Free Skool Community: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about?ref=e3ce6e039d8b42dbb2a3e7c793b3c259 Takeaways The mental load is often unrecognized and unaddressed in relationships. Cultural conditioning plays a significant role in shaping men's perceptions of their roles. Media representations of masculinity often set low expectations for men. Language matters; using terms like 'help' can undermine partnership. The role of protector has evolved beyond physical safety to include emotional support. Emotional safety is crucial for healthy relationships. The nag paradox highlights the challenges of accountability in relationships. Small gestures can have a significant impact on relationship dynamics. Men need to challenge traditional notions of masculinity. Unlearning harmful patterns is essential for personal growth and healthier relationships.…
In this conversation, Dr. Tracy Delglish and Zachary Watson explore the complexities of relationships, emotional intelligence, and the importance of vulnerability in therapy. Dr. Tracy shares her personal journey as a psychologist and couples therapist, emphasizing the need for individuals to connect with their emotions and communicate effectively in their relationships. They discuss the challenges of parenting, the dynamics of emotional labor, and the significance of interdependence in building strong partnerships. The conversation highlights the importance of creating a safe space for emotional expression and the role of emotional awareness in fostering resilience within relationships.…
Summary In this conversation, Dr. Morgan discusses the concept of mental load in relationships, particularly focusing on how it affects communication and dynamics between partners. She contrasts her approach with the Fair Play method, emphasizing the relational aspects of mental load and the importance of understanding emotional labor. The discussion also touches on the evolving nature of parenting and the pressures modern families face, advocating for a shift in how we perceive value and contribution within the home. For Her book: https://drmorgancutlip.com/bs-preorder/…
Get the book: https://www.marinagerner.com/ Summary In this engaging conversation, Zach and Marina delve into the importance of language in women's health, the challenges of discussing female anatomy, and the role of supportive partners in navigating the mental load of parenthood. They explore the concept of FemTech, the need for accurate terminology, and the impact of societal norms on both women and men. The discussion emphasizes the significance of open communication and the power of the pause in parenting, ultimately advocating for a more inclusive and understanding approach to women's health and empowerment. Takeaways The importance of using accurate terms in discussions about women's health. Children who know the correct anatomical terms are more likely to report abuse. Women are often burdened with the responsibility of contraception. Supportive partners can significantly impact women's health experiences. The normalization of side effects for women in healthcare needs to change. Men are ready to take on more responsibility in contraception. The mental load of parenting is a shared responsibility. Open communication about pain and health is crucial for both genders. The power of the pause can enhance parenting experiences. Changing societal perceptions about women's health is essential.…
Elijah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elijahjrunyan/?hl=en Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Connection Codes Coaching 01:46 Elijah's Journey in Mental and Emotional Health 04:34 The Core Emotion Wheel Explained 07:08 Real-Life Applications of Emotional Awareness 09:46 Navigating Personal Experiences with Emotions 12:47 The Importance of Holding Space for Emotions 15:34 Sharing Emotions: A Practical Exercise 18:04 Understanding Core Emotions in Relationships 20:20 Creating Safety in Emotional Sharing 22:01 The Importance of Curiosity in Relationships 27:52 Building Emotional Awareness and Habits 34:08 Understanding Emotions: Fear, Shame, and Anger 45:14 Core Level Anger vs. Secondary Anger 49:02 Holding Space for Others' Experiences…
Takeaways https://www.tamihackbarth.com/care-club Self-care is often viewed as selfish, but it's essential for well-being. Microaggressions from friends and family can undermine women's self-care efforts. Redistributing domestic labor is crucial for equitable partnerships. Finding 'unicorn space' is about pursuing passions outside of caregiving roles. Guilt around self-care can be deprogrammed through awareness and practice. Time management is key to achieving a balanced life. Self-care should be a non-negotiable part of life, not a luxury. Communication about household responsibilities can enhance relationships. Women often feel societal pressure to prioritize others' needs over their own. Coaching can help individuals reclaim their time and energy for personal growth.…
Summary In this engaging conversation, Zach and Mary discuss the complexities of mental load in parenting, the creation of Mom Life Comics, and the societal expectations placed on mothers. They explore the emotional labor involved in relationships, the impact of pregnancy on mental load, and the challenges of being a female content creator. The discussion also touches on the double standards in parenting, the creative process behind comics, and the importance of visibility in addressing these issues. Mary shares her experiences with societal pressures and the significance of her upcoming book launch. https://www.instagram.com/momlife_comics/…
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https://www.instagram.com/sheisapaigeturner/reels/ In this conversation, Zach and Paige Turner discuss the systemic double standards in society, particularly regarding gender roles in parenting and the invisible labor associated with childcare. Paige shares her experiences with viral content and the backlash she receives, emphasizing the need for advocacy in childcare and gun violence prevention. They explore the economic impact of the childcare crisis and the importance of understanding the value of care work. The discussion also touches on the significance of asking disqualifying questions when interviewing childcare providers and the difference between micro acts of feminism and more vocal advocacy for gender equality.…
Takeaways Emotional labor is often overlooked but crucial in relationships. Acknowledging each other's contributions fosters a healthier dynamic. Community support can significantly enhance personal growth. Identifying personal passions is essential for individual fulfillment. Practicing gratitude can improve relationship satisfaction. Communication is key to resolving conflicts effectively. Engaging in challenges can lead to meaningful insights. Self-reflection helps in recognizing one's emotional state. Accountability within a community encourages progress. Practical relationship coaching can lead to substantial improvements.…
Summary Get your book: https://www.motheruntitled.com/ In this conversation, Neha Ruch discusses her journey as a mother and career woman, emphasizing the importance of intentional pauses in one's career to focus on family life. She explores the societal perceptions of motherhood and career, the need for support and help in parenting, and the evolving dynamics of the workforce post-pandemic. Neha advocates for redefining success and contribution beyond traditional metrics, highlighting the value of emotional labor and communication in partnerships.…
Get the book: https://thetidydad.com/book In this conversation, Zachary Watson and Tyler Moore discuss the journey of tidying up both physical spaces and mental health. Tyler shares his experiences as a dad influencer, the challenges of writing his book, and the importance of emotional labor in relationships. They explore themes of privilege, the impact of societal norms on household work, and the messages of hope and connection that arise from their work. The conversation emphasizes the need for vulnerability and understanding in navigating life's messes.…
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Summary In this episode, Zach Watson discusses the backlash surrounding a podcast clip from Will Compton and Taylor Lewin, co-hosts of 'Bustin with the Boys.' The clip, which features Compton discussing his experiences as a new father, sparked criticism for its perceived misogyny and lack of accountability. Watson reflects on the responses from various commentators, including Paige Connell, and delves into the broader implications of such discussions on social media, gender roles, and the responsibilities of fathers. He emphasizes the need for men to recognize their impact and the importance of fostering a supportive environment for women.…
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1 Ep 75: Haters, Empowering Women with Caylee Cresta 1:07:44
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Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson and Caylee Cresta explore the complexities of parenting, content creation, and the emotional labor that often goes unnoticed. Kayleigh shares her journey as a creator, the challenges she faces with online hate, and the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in her work. They discuss the dynamics of communication in relationships, the societal pressures on women, and the significance of language in articulating feelings and experiences. The conversation highlights the need for empathy, understanding, and open dialogue in both personal and professional realms, ultimately aiming to empower individuals to express themselves and navigate their relationships more effectively.…
Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson speaks with Alyson Bullock and Sean about their experiences as Fair Play facilitators. They discuss their personal journeys into the Fair Play method, the challenges they face in implementing it within their own relationships, and the importance of communication and emotional labor. The conversation also touches on the creation of relatable content for couples, the significance of setting boundaries, and the impact of mental load on relationships. Overall, the discussion emphasizes the need for understanding, flexibility, and effective communication in maintaining healthy partnerships.…
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1 Ep 73: Laura Danger talks Equity and Weaponized Incompetence 1:08:22
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https://www.instagram.com/thatdarnchat/ Takeaways Laura's work has significantly impacted Zach's perspective on relationships. Communication is key in understanding mental load and emotional labor. Challenging traditional gender roles can lead to healthier partnerships. Community support is essential for navigating parenting challenges. Rethinking mediocrity in relationships can improve overall satisfaction. Humor can be a powerful tool in parenting and relationship dynamics. Self-awareness is crucial in addressing emotional labor. Content creators have a responsibility to drive social change. Understanding weaponized incompetence can help in managing household responsibilities. The importance of collaboration in fostering healthier relationships.…
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1 Ep 72: Top Researcher in the World for Cognitive Labor, Allison Daminger 1:01:14
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Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson and Allison Damager delve into the complexities of invisible labor and cognitive load within relationships. They explore the gender dynamics surrounding financial responsibilities, the cultural expectations placed on men and women, and the importance of language in discussing mental load. The discussion highlights the need for awareness and communication in relationships, as well as the role of workplace policies in shaping family dynamics. They also touch on the evolution of parenting and the journey of men engaging in these discussions, emphasizing the significance of mutual recognition and vulnerability in fostering understanding and equality.…
To register for the Mental Load Mastery Community: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadmastery/about Summary In this conversation, Zachary Watson and Ben discuss the September challenge focused on identifying mental load in relationships. Ben shares his experiences and growth throughout the challenge, highlighting the importance of awareness in domestic responsibilities and emotional regulation. They explore the impact of the Fair Play 101 program on their understanding of mental load and the significance of community support in personal development.…
Takeaways Gender equality requires conscious effort from both partners. Cognitive labor is often invisible but crucial in relationships. Benevolent sexism can undermine women's contributions. Empathy is a skill that can be developed in parenting. Communication is key to navigating household responsibilities. Cultural norms heavily influence gender roles and expectations. The COVID-19 pandemic highlighted the disparities in household labor. Men benefit from participating in caregiving roles. Language plays a significant role in shaping gender dynamics. Understanding personal upbringing can help address gender biases.…
Takeaways Many mothers feel isolated during the transition to motherhood. The concept of 'matressence' highlights the emotional changes mothers experience. Authenticity on platforms like LinkedIn can be challenging but necessary. Community support is crucial for mothers feeling overwhelmed. Validation from peers can significantly alleviate feelings of loneliness. Cultural expectations often prevent women from seeking help. The pandemic has catalyzed a shift in how mothers communicate their struggles. Women in leadership roles need to be vocal about their challenges. Subgroups within communities can provide tailored support for different motherhood stages. Change is possible, and mothers should prioritize their well-being.…
Summary In this solo episode, Zach reflects on his relationship with Alyssa and how they navigate challenges in their parenting journey. He shares a specific incident from the previous night where Alyssa wanted to attend a social event, causing a disruption in their nighttime routine. Zach discusses the struggles he faced in handling the routine alone and the impact it had on their toddler. He also explores the dynamics of maternal gatekeeping and the balance between allowing fathers to take on parenting responsibilities and the anxiety and control issues that may arise. Zach invites listeners to share their thoughts on this topic.…
Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson interviews Tara Wedges, the CEO of Connection Codes, about the core motion wheel and its impact on relationships. They discuss how the core motion wheel helps in better labeling and understanding emotions, separating emotions from behaviors, and building trust and connection in relationships. They also address common misconceptions about emotions and the importance of recognizing and processing emotions for overall well-being. The conversation highlights the power of the core motion wheel in improving communication and emotional health. https://zwatson--connectioncodes.thrivecart.com/foundations/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:43 Discovering Connection Codes and Becoming a Leader 08:32 Separating Emotions from Behaviors 12:58 Demonstration of the Core Motion Wheel 18:49 The Importance of Validation and Emotional Processing 25:34 The Impact of the Core Motion Wheel on Relationships 34:06 Conclusion and Discount Code…
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SummaryIn this conversation, Zach Watson interviews Rose Hackman, author of the book 'Emotional Labor.' They discuss the concept of emotional labor and its importance in various aspects of life, including relationships, work, and society. They highlight the value of empathy and the skills required to practice emotional labor effectively. They also address the gendered dynamics of emotional labor and the need for a more equitable distribution of this labor. The conversation emphasizes the significance of acknowledging and valuing emotional labor and the impact it has on individuals and society as a whole.Keywordsemotional labor, empathy, gender dynamics, value, equitable distributionTakeaways Emotional labor is the editing work of emotions that a person does on themselves to have an effect on the emotions of others. Emotional labor is not inherently about gender; it is about power and can be practiced by anyone. Emotional labor is essential in various contexts, including relationships, work, and building brands. Acknowledging and valuing emotional labor is crucial for creating meaningful connections and relationships. Emotional labor has quantifiable value, and it should be compensated and distributed equitably. The Value and Impact of Emotional Labor The Quantifiable Value of Emotional Labor "Emotional labor is not inherently about gender at all. It's about power." "Emotional labor is everywhere in the marketplace. It's the central component of millions of jobs." "Emotional labor is empathy in action." TitlesSound BitesChapters00:00Introduction and Background00:59Exploring Emotional Labor and Research08:32Emotional Labor in Everyday Life and Power Dynamics21:59The Future of Emotional Labor and Conclusion…
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1 Ep 65: Eve Rodsky Author of FairPlay Critiques my methods 1:08:37
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After coaching from her book and sharing on social media how I've been implementing her method for the past 2 years, I ask her for critiques on how I implement her method! Affiliate link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/shop/realzachthinkshare/list/19NJNPI4570A0?ref_=aipsflist_aipsfrealzachthinkshare Eve on IG: https://www.instagram.com/everodsky/?hl=en…
Here is an example of the boring meeting that Alyssa and I have on a weekly basis that I coach my clients to have. Persist:https://www.timeforpersist.com/free-careload-assessment Connection Codes: https://zwatson--connectioncodes.thrivecart.com/foundations/
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Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson discusses various topics during a board meeting. They talk about financial planning, including budgeting and taxes. They also discuss upcoming events, such as a wedding and a trip. Additionally, they touch on the importance of sharing interests and experiences with each other.…
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1 Ep 61: Professor Neil and Zach talk Masculinity and Parasocial relationships 1:25:50
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Summary In this podcast episode, Zach Watson interviews Professor Neil Shyminsky about his work in calling out toxic masculinity and making academic concepts accessible. They discuss the challenges of being a content creator and the importance of addressing misinformation. They also explore the themes of identity and transformation in the movie Barbie and the role of men in society. The conversation touches on the potential market for books on masculinity and the dangers of certain ideologies. In this conversation, Zach Watson and Neil Shyminsky discuss various topics related to content creation, parasocial relationships, and the impact of their work. They explore the reasons why certain messages resonate with young audiences and the importance of confidence in personal interactions. They also discuss the challenges and benefits of being recognized in public and the dynamics of parasocial relationships. Additionally, they touch on the process of creating content and the potential future projects they may pursue.…
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1 Ep 60: Renee | The Mom Room Talks domestic labor and social media 1:13:33
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SummaryIn this conversation, Zach Watson and Renee discuss various topics related to parenting, emotional expression, and shared responsibilities. They explore the challenges of default parenting and the societal expectations placed on women. They also discuss the importance of emotional expression and vulnerability, highlighting the positive impact of emotional masculinity. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication and planning in order to navigate shared responsibilities effectively. Overall, the conversation provides valuable insights into parenting dynamics and the importance of emotional well-being. In this conversation, Renee discusses her education and background in psychology, specializing in attachment, defense mechanisms, and reflective functioning. She also shares her research on the efficacy of psychotherapy for eating disorders, highlighting the challenges and nuances of conducting research in this field. Renee emphasizes the importance of a healthy approach to food and parenting, promoting a balanced and mindful perspective. She also discusses the limitations of clickbait and the need for nuance in understanding research findings. Finally, Renee shares her plans for the future, including live events, in-person interviews, and a second podcast.Takeaways Societal expectations often place a heavier burden of emotional labor on women, leading to challenges in communication and self-expression. Emotional vulnerability and expression are important for both men and women, and should be encouraged and celebrated. Shared responsibilities in parenting and household tasks require open communication and planning to ensure a fair distribution of labor. Modeling healthy emotional expression for children is crucial in fostering their emotional well-being and understanding. Recognizing and addressing default parenting dynamics can lead to more balanced and fulfilling relationships. Education and specialization in psychology can shape one's perspective and approach to various topics. Research on psychotherapy for eating disorders is complex and often limited in its scope. Promoting a healthy relationship with food and avoiding restrictive behaviors can positively impact children's attitudes towards food. Clickbait headlines often oversimplify complex research findings, and it's important to seek nuance and context. Future plans include live events, in-person interviews, and a second podcast.…
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1 Ep 59: Paige aka @sheisapaigeturner talks domestic labor and social media with me 1:03:04
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Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson and Paige Connell discuss the mental load and invisible labor that women often bear in relationships and parenting. They explore the impact of childcare on career trajectories and the financial implications of taking time off work. Paige shares her journey of becoming a content creator and the inspiration behind her viral videos. They discuss the challenges of vulnerability and receiving feedback, as well as the importance of consistent effort in sharing personal experiences. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of relationships and the need for open communication and shared responsibilities. In this conversation, Zach Watson and Paige discuss various topics related to gender roles, household chores, social issues, and privilege. They explore the challenges faced by women in managing the mental load and domestic labor, as well as the need for paid paternity leave and affordable childcare. Paige shares her perspective on the child care crisis and the importance of advocating for change. They also discuss the role of privilege in addressing social issues and the importance of acknowledging and learning from it. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for greater awareness and action to create a more equitable society. Takeaways Childcare has a significant impact on a person's career trajectory, and the financial implications should be considered. Sharing personal experiences and connecting with others can be a powerful way to create meaningful content. Vulnerability and receiving feedback are essential for personal growth and creating impactful content. Navigating dangerous advice and complex relationship dynamics requires careful consideration and understanding of individual circumstances. Balancing mental load and domestic labor is crucial for creating a harmonious and equitable partnership. Gender roles often contribute to an unequal distribution of household chores and the mental load, with women shouldering a majority of the responsibilities. Paid paternity leave and affordable childcare are crucial for achieving gender equality and supporting working parents. Addressing social issues requires acknowledging and understanding one's privilege, as well as actively advocating for change. Navigating conversations about social issues from a place of privilege involves listening, learning, and amplifying the voices of marginalized communities. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:26 The Impact of Childcare on Career Trajectory 04:22 Sharing Personal Experiences and Connecting with Others 07:04 Inspiration for Creating Content 09:11 Vulnerability and Receiving Feedback 12:06 Reflecting on Favorite and Vulnerable Posts 13:59 Learning and Growing as Content Creators 16:03 Navigating Dangerous Advice and Complex Relationship Dynamics 19:34 Experiencing Mental Load and Frustration 22:39 Reaching a Breaking Point and Seeking Change 24:48 The Importance of Consistency and Trust 27:28 Dividing Mental Load and Domestic Labor 30:09 Navigating Mom Guilt and Prioritizing Self-Care 32:06 Gendered Expectations and Shared Responsibilities 35:03 Creating Balance and Recognizing Personal Needs 36:51 Gender Roles and Household Chores 46:51 Identifying and Solving Social Issues 55:55 Navigating Privilege in Social Issues 01:02:37 Wrap-up and Conclusion…
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1 Ep 58: Ellie Windle CEO of Persist talks Solutions for Equity in Domestic Labor 2:06:08
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Summary Ellie Windle, the founder and CEO of the Persist app, discusses the inspiration behind building an app to quantify domestic labor. She shares her personal experience of struggling with the mental load and emotional labor of managing a household, especially after having children. The app aims to bring visibility to invisible labor and help couples have more equitable divisions of responsibilities. Ellie also highlights the importance of valuing caregiving and the challenges of being an entrepreneur. She emphasizes the need for couples to have open conversations and make adjustments based on their individual preferences and changing seasons of life. The conversation explores the challenges and experiences of finding personal fulfillment, navigating the identity of motherhood, the burden of domestic labor, defining roles and responsibilities, the impact of household chores, the power of supportive partners, validation and dealing with haters, the importance of cheerleading networks, the impact of partnership, finding inspiration, and introducing the Persist app. Takeaways The Persist app helps quantify and bring visibility to the mental load and emotional labor of managing a household. Swapping responsibilities based on personal preferences and strengths can lead to a more equitable division of labor. Having open conversations about domestic labor and valuing caregiving are crucial for healthy relationships. The app can be particularly helpful for couples before they reach a breaking point or experience burnout. Finding personal fulfillment is essential for both men and women, and it's important to prioritize activities that bring joy and fulfillment. Mothers often face the challenge of losing their identity in the role of motherhood, and it's crucial to create space for personal growth and self-expression. The burden of domestic labor often falls disproportionately on women, and it's important to have open and honest conversations about roles and responsibilities within the household. The division of household chores can impact the overall well-being of individuals and relationships, and finding a balance that works for both partners is crucial. Having a supportive partner and cheerleading network can make a significant difference in pursuing personal and professional goals. Dealing with haters and negative feedback is a common experience, but it's important to remember that their lack of belief often stems from their own limitations and lack of imagination. Partnerships and collaborations can provide validation and support, and finding like-minded individuals who share your vision can be empowering. Finding inspiration from others who have achieved success in similar areas can fuel motivation and drive. The introduction of the Persist app offers a tool to help identify and address the invisible labor in households, promoting more equitable distribution of responsibilities.…
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1 Ep 57: Look behind the Curtain, real time"boring meeting" Feb 12 2024 1:01:41
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I made this offer a way to consider having your weekly meetings, a lot of people ask what we talk about during these, this was our agenda: --Ireland Trip brainstorm/planning (lets create some homework we can do whenever) -state of social media and sharing messages? (has the initial upset subsided?) -choose a date for painting z-office -time on early saturdays for writing/unicorn space/office building -Zach gets Saturday mornings till 11am -Thursdays, Zach will checkin with Alyssa about friday status, if i forget it default to the current situation -ideal morning routine w/cats, goats, me getting up early, 10:15 bed time -babysitter -weekly cleaning -A needs time to paint and decorate guest room -A needs garden boxes built -A garden boxes…YES, in March we will talk about how -A would like to discuss fencing around barn -rental - unit 2 lease ending 3/31 - email them to discuss -rental - need to fix drywall in 2nd unit closet - schedule or hire? (I’m guess will be a $200 handyman fix) -rental - thoughts on securing state funding for fixing rotting porches, repointing bricks and fieldstone, and roofing? -Sterling - leaves out of gutters -home - schedule pool opening date (pool guys schedule far in advance) -home - driveway needs to be patched and sealed…
Alyssa and Zach breakdown an upset and how we go about repairing and thinking about an issue that has arisen.
SummaryIn this episode, Zach Watson interviews his father, Ken, about his upbringing and the inspiration behind his advocacy for gay marriage. They discuss the importance of emotional expression and the challenges of traditional gender roles. Ken shares his experiences with self-expression and the impact of the Landmark Forum on his personal growth. The conversation concludes with reflections on regrets and the resolution of self-expression.Takeaways The importance of emotional expression and creating a safe space for it Challenging traditional gender roles and embracing equality in relationships The power of self-expression and pursuing personal interests The impact of personal growth programs on self-awareness and relationships…
I go into some detail about an issue that came up between Alyssa and I where I reacted like an absolute entitled child and Alyssa did emotional labor for me.
Ben and I dive into a handful of things around fatherhood and expectations fro men around the time they are about to step into it.
Sharing some things on my concious and sound boarding through a better forward
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1 Ep 52: Equality in the Home and Content Creation with @itsme_abbye 1:24:58
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We talk about social equality in the home, her amazing Margot and Todd role plays, content creation, skills that help couples improve from either side of the table and the dark side of content creation.
Recently I posted 2 videos about tough conversations I had recently with Alyssa, this is the in-depth breakdown of this conversations
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This is an IG livestream I recorded with the purpose of uploading as an individual Podcast
After watching one of my new channels that have subscribe to, Jonah riddle I discovered how recent some of his big YouTube subscriber success has come, and I noticed some emotions and feelings that were coming up inside of me that I wanted to share with you all that I think I’ll creators should really consider as they continue to make great content…
After some consideration about what it is to be average I may have discovered that I’m closer to being average than not, and I think that scares me the most in life is to know that maybe I am just average or so close to it that there’s no real difference
After considering T-shirt ideas this morning I thought about my favorite Spanish phrase, and also considered one of my favorite phrases to tell people doubting themselves I hope this inspires you
After speaking with a friend this weekend about the pros and cons of football and rugby I want to share some of the highlights of our conversation with you all
Recently I’ve been developing a bad habit of depriving myself of sleep during the week because my priorities are not in order during the day, then I sleep in on the weekends in the process repeats
After finally figuring out how to do Google hangouts on air, and live stream it on my laptop on YouTube, I’m very proud to say I have found a new tool that I think will be one of the next things that I continuously do on my YouTube channel this is also an invitation to possible collaborators to reach out to me that might speak my language and want to get some air time on my channel!…
After discovering a channel on YouTube that has recently been racking up almost 50 subscribers per day and is similar in size, 1700, I’ve asked myself if the standards to which I subscribe to other channels are holding me back, or are they simply a product of me sticking to my integrity
After listening to two stories of wonderful forgiveness and creation of happiness in the world from a negative situation, I am requesting this of my viewers and listeners that the world become a better place if something bad were to happen to me if something ever happens to come back and share this podcast with me…
Tonight I’m going to be on a panel of authors sharing with an audience of our experiences authors in writing and marketing andPublishing, I’ve been nervous to share this with a bunch of my coworkers in fear of being judged as a shameless self promoter, this podcast has allowed me to hear my thoughts out loud thank you for listening to me make my decision!…
After celebrating teacher appreciation day with my dad at chipotle and give me a call to action to my YouTube live stream he wears I invite you as well to contact some of your favorite teachers and let them know the impact that had on your life
After having troubles creating my own logo and label I invited some subscribers to help me create it and it looks like I have a winner I really like something that one of the subscribers created and I’m looking forward to putting it on clothes and wearing them as my own brand, in my own label let this be a lesson to people struggling with things that they’re not good at, often you can find someone that would enjoy doing the thing that you cannot or don’t want to do…
After listening to a small portion of crushing it from Gary Vaynerchuk this morning, I had a new idea for an e-book I would like to produce and give away for free, let me know what you think of the idea I’d love to know what listeners would find valuable as an e-book?
After messing up some housework and leaving some possible lead paint dust on things my wife still at knowledges me even when I mess up God I love her I couldn’t ask for a better partner
After crossing paths with someone that had been yelling at me while I was in my car as they were crossing a crosswalk I wish I could have apologize to them after seeing that I had made them upset
After listening to Cardi B song, be careful this one line really hit me about relationships trusting yourself in comparing yourself to others hope it makes sense let me know what you think
First time with Everly away from our toddler more than 36 hrs, learning about erotic blueprints, learning about how to deal with FFTs, new things in the Stanstore
Reason for starting podcast, Moms longest time away from firstborn, safe spaces for me, maternal gatekeeping
So many people often have gut reactions and nervousness and anxiety about heading into a place for the first time and I wanted to share my perspective that has allowed me to stay somewhat calm in what many fun to be in anxious situation
Today is day one of the soul search
After fighting my way through a work out this morning with a 20 pound weight vest I realize if I were to stop midway through I would be as weak as a 20 pound weight vest which my ego would simply not allow, and I was able to push through the work out what’s your weight vest?
After being told I will not be back in September and challenged with the task of sharing this information with my students that don’t know yet
I often notice I don’t even know the lyrics to some of the songs that I enjoy and ask myself am I doing this with not just some lyrics but my life
After having the idea this morning to start writing lyrics, I just started writing up after feeling inspired and now I have half a song written
After reading a bit of a new book our administration has invited us to read for professional development I’m excited and concerned about my upcoming challenges!
After having some issues really connecting with people on the live stream on YouTube last night I wanted to share some challenges that I’m facing newly
I think we all want to live a legacy behind how are we doing in pursuit transcending time?
After choosing to prioritize something in my life over something else I had to face myself with reality and be willing to take on the consequences of the way that I prioritize things, when you prioritize things are you willing to except the consequences of what you prioritize?
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After listening to part of the Tim Ferris’s recent interview with the CEO of bumble, I’ve been overcome with a strong sense of wanting to challenge gender norms
After an interview last night on my YouTube channel with Ty speaks and Clifford Starks, along with the podcast I was listening to this morning with Louis house, I’ve been in the inquiry of what could be holding me back from being the goodest version of myself
After speaking about depression and the thoughts that we have in our head with somebody, I thought it would be appropriate to share my opinion and experience with discovering that I am not my thoughts
After officiating the high jump at high school track meet I was faced with the question of “is this a good opportunity for me to practice high jump, and or backflip in? “My internal conversation in the following episode
My favorite story that has inspired me to enjoy practice in the hardship purposefully
After attending a wedding last weekend I really enjoyed the experience that I had based on the fact that I had promised the bride and groom I would keep the dance floor alive here are some thoughts I’d like to share with you
After looking at Jaden Smith’s Instagram feed I was inspired to create more than just single individual pictures that standalone
After speaking with one of my friends last night after about six months of not talking with each other he shared his insights from the book Rich dad poor dad and the perspective his gain from it
After getting to officiate the high jump area I got an opportunity to really live and be a part of the lives of the current student athletes and give them a little bite of wisdom from when I was a jumper in high school
After a great night of physical learning, I wanted to get some sleep, and yet still found myself spending an abnormal amount of time flipping through Instagram, here’s my story on the dangers of social media
After receiving a ton of support from the gymnasium of athletes I got the opportunity to land my first backflip, in the presence of many young athletes that totally had my back mentally and spiritually even though I didn’t even know them I want you to be that for someone working on something on their bucket list…
After having a dream last night that my father was no longer with us, I’ve had a wonderful perspective shift that I wanted to share with you all regarding relationships
After my second session learning how to backflip I found myself challenged with understanding new vocabulary, I had no plan of having in English portion to this lesson
After hearing my mom ridicule someone for needing a weekend course to change their diet and use the knowledge they already knew, I share my point of you that I shared with her
After listening to the Tim Ferris podcast and Astro teller speaking on how to think and a 10 Times Bigger Way, these are some of my insides
After spending some time living with my parents and my wife’s parents for the past couple years I’ve grown a deeper appreciation for them as adults and peers
After spending an hour with my first ever personal trainer I am now able to do most of a backflip on a trampoline
Why I did it
After being really stuck in trying to figure out how to renovate some things in my new house, today I had a breakthrough in confidence around fixing things and I’m going to build a shower tomorrow!
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