You’ve probably heard of the growing animosity between Drake and Kendrick Lamar. And likely Will Smith slapping Christ Rock. And maybe even sex robots? Just like leaders, celebrities face the consequences of their actions. From Drake and Kendrick's feud to Will Smith's Oscar moment, we explore how their past choices influence their present behavior…

Hi! and welcome to the sixty-ninth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from May 2024. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https…

Are your eyes wide shut to the cost of the decisions you make? As a leader, every choice you make comes with its own set of losses, gains, and sacrifices to be made with both. In this week’s episode, we'll explore the intricate balance of weighing these costs and benefits. We discuss the value of having a deep understanding of the choices you make …

Hi! and welcome to the Sixty-eighth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from April 2024. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st April 2024 through to 30th April 2024, gives details of his upcoming projects, and gives us an overview of what else he has been doing. If you'…

Do you hoard power or do you give it away to empower the ones around you? As a leader, your journey of growth and empowerment isn't just about personal achievement; it's about creating an environment where everyone thrives. We discuss insights that illuminate how fostering development and empowerment among your team members isn't just a leadership …

Hi! and welcome to the sixty-seventh episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from April 2024. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠htt…

Have you ever had questions you wished you could ask someone before it’s too late? This week Bri does just that, as Adrian is in the hot seat! Join us for a special episode where we dive into a mix of leadership insights and a bit of fun! This week Bri takes time to ask Adrian questions she would want to know if anything ever happened to him. We ta…

Do you ever look around and wonder where did all the adults go? In this week's episode, Adrian and Bri discuss the nature of leadership and what it means to take responsibility for your actions as an authentic leader. Join us as we discuss: - How our extreme emotions have easily become the currency in this day and age - Maturity shifting to being t…

Hi! and welcome to the Sixty-sixth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from March 2024. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st March 2024 through to 31st March 2024, gives details of his upcoming projects, and gives us an overview of what else he has been doing. If you'd…

Does the wake of your leadership make people better? If the answer is yes, it’s likely you’ve had to undergo heavy weight that has required sacrifice. In this week's episode, Adrian and Bri discuss why effective leadership will cost you - and how to develop the tools needed to navigate this challenge in a healthy way. Join us as we discuss: Using d…

Hi! and welcome to the sixty-fifth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from March 2024. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https:/…

Decisions are what drives our life in any direction, whether positive or negative. We are often taught to ‘make better decisions’ in life, health, business, and beyond. However, if we don’t know what drives our decisions, how can we steer ourselves in the right direction when emotions are high? In this episode, Adrian and Bri talk through what it c…

Hi! and welcome to the Sixty-fourth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from February 2024. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st February 2024 through to 29th February 2024, gives details of his upcoming projects, and delivers a patreon update. If you'd like to support…

‘Values’ are terms given to define the principles that we embody in our personal and professional lives. However, many times we are unclear in our understanding of these important structures that make up the fabric of our lives. In Part Two of this Two-Part Episode, Adrian and Bri dive into what it means to truly live according to our values. We’ll…

When we hear the term projection, we often attribute it to how others dump their emotions in an unhealthy way. What if we could ‘project’ positive traits onto other people instead - simply through leading authentic lives? In part one of this two-part episode of the New Rules Podcast, we dive into “Projection Leadership” - and how those in power can…

In the fast-paced world we find ourselves in, we are constantly pressured to perform at a higher level. However, as authentic individuals, we know that leadership goes far beyond following trends and simple catchphrases. In an organization, it can be easy to be ‘seduced’ by a talent or skill - but culture prevails when it comes to longevity in the …

Hi! and welcome to the sixty-third episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from February 2024. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ https:…

Relationships are the cornerstone of the human experience. Whether positive or negative, they can alter how we live our lives, view the world, and even view ourselves. If living authentically is vital for our own flourishing, how do we set the standard for authentic relationships in our personal and professional lives? It starts off with being self…

Unity is not formed for the sake of unity. When we move forward, we must move with a purpose. To kick off Black History Month, we’re recognizing not only the leaders that came before us - but what it means to move with a mission. First, we examine the complex life of the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. - and how he represented the nuance of aut…

Hi! and welcome to the Sixty-second episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from January 2024. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st January 2024 through to 31st January 2024, gives details of his upcoming projects, and delivers a patreon update. If you'd like to support th…

Hi! and welcome to the sixty-first episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from January 2024. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ https://f…

Are YOU lonely? In a society built for fast-paced communication, with tools to link people together from all over the world, we still find ourselves feeling alone. In Episode 37, we take the necessary dive into why human beings are a “Loneliness Epidemic.” In order to solve loneliness, we first must give it an effective diagnosis - which we’ll find…

Our work should be art - a reflection of our authentic selves. In the last episode, we examined why our work should be deeper than a 'necessary evil.' But how do we actually push through the challenges required to live out our purpose and calling in this world? In Part 2 of this 2-Part episode, we discuss why people are hesitant to make necessary c…

Let our work be a masterpiece, a reflection of our passion and commitment. Embrace the canvas of your life, where your ‘art’ is a manifestation of creativity, purpose, and authentic development . I've often said that our work should be art - and still be challenging enough to pave the way forward. In part-one of this two part episode, we discuss ho…

Hi! and welcome to the Sixtieth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from December 2023. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st December 2023 through to 30th December 2023, gives details of his upcoming projects, and delivers a patreon update. If you'd like to support the…

Will 2024 be a New Year, New You? Welcome to Episode 34 of the New Rules Podcast, where we delve into the intricacies of authentic development and goal-setting entering 2024. We explore the realities involved in creating more realistic goals, tackling challenges along the way, and discovering effective ways to help someone envision their own future…

In the realm of leadership, there's a profound beauty in understanding the fuel behind your passions and values. It goes beyond mere goal-setting, serving as a pathway to genuine clarity that sparks motivation and transforms dreams into reality. As leaders, our responsibility extends beyond personal aspirations. It's about zeroing in on the passion…

In order to take your emotional health and self-awareness journey seriously, you must be willing to let other things go. As authentic leadership consultants, Adrian and Bri admit that their way of doing things is uncomfortable for most individuals. Why? Because most aren’t willing to lean into temporary pain and instead often settle to temporarily …

Hi! and welcome to the Fifty-eighth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from November 2023. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st November 2023 through to 30th November 2023, gives details of his upcoming projects, a patreon update, and gives us a roundup of GridCon 4. …

Hi! and welcome to the fifty-seventh episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from November 2023. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠⁠here⁠⁠ https://…

We have witnessed a notable shift towards an aversion to pain at both the individual and societal levels. In our quest for comfort and security, we often find ourselves navigating paths that steer clear of discomfort, challenges, and potential sources of adversity. This trend towards pain avoidance, if allowed to persist unchecked, carries the risk…

How do tough times shape us? Do challenges in our lives affect us for the better or for the worse? In Episode 30 of the New Rules Podcast, we discuss how pain often molds resilience - a vital trait of authenticity, which we believe brings true human flourishing. But first, we must begin by clarifying the true essence of resilience and acknowledging…

Hi! and welcome to the Fifty-sixth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from October 2023. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st October 2023 through to 1st November 2023, gives details of his upcoming projects, a patreon update, and tells us about his trip to Essen Spie…

Is resilience a gift or a curse? We must first define what it truly means to be resilient and identify the ways that culture has misrepresented what it means. Resilience, a term that is often used in the context of facing life's adversities and challenges, prompts a deep examination regarding its nature and impact on individuals. In Episode 29 of t…

Hi! and welcome to the fifty-fifth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from October 2023. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest ⁠here⁠ https://forms…

Just as an ordinary 'signature' serves as a distinctive mark of an individual's name on an item, situation, or event, our lives also leave unique "emotional signatures” on the ones around us Emotional imprints are intricately intertwined with our internal character and personal experiences, shaping our responses and reactions to the world around us…

The audio for this episode contains conversations related to sensitive mental and emotional health issues, including suicide. ---- “Triggered” is quite the buzzword these days, but have you ever taken a moment to reflect on the things that set you off? We all have our blind spots, and, in some way, we’ve all experienced the fallout of what our emot…

In the midst of war, an IED (Improvised Explosive Device) is strategically placed to cause physical harm toward an enemy. In the same way, our traumatic experiences can plant “Emotional I.E.D’s” into our lives, without us ever being aware of their existence. From childhood all the way through adult life, there is constant stress on us as individual…

Hi! and welcome to the Fifty-fourth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from September 2023. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st September 2023 through to 30th September 2023, gives details of his upcoming projects, gives a patreon update, and tells us about his honey…

Do you know where you come from? Where are you at? Where are you going? These three questions may seem simple, but they are perhaps the most vital questions you can ask yourself on the journey to discovering your authentic self. Emotional intelligence is the engine of a well-oiled enterprise, the heartbeat of a healthy individual and the compass to…

Hi! and welcome to the fifty-third episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from September 2023. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest here https://forms…

We’ve all been given the promise of hope - for a better life, an answer to our grievances, and an ease on our societal pressures. In the last episode, we explored how these promises were often empty - a disguise for another agenda which ended up hindering our progress. Now, in Episode 24, Bri and Adrian continue to explore practical solutions for h…

Hope is not just a buzzword, it’s a vital principle necessary for human flourishing. Without it, societies could not progress, individuals could not persevere, and purpose would be an afterthought. So, what happens when we embrace hopelessness as an ideology as a means to cope with the world around us? In Episode 23 of the New Rules Podcast, Adrian…

Hi! and welcome to the Fifty-second episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from August 2023. Paul discusses the games he played between 1st August 2023 through to 28th August 2023, gives details of his upcoming projects, gives a patreon update, and gives us a wedding update. If you…

In Episode 22 of the New Rules Podcast, Adrian & Bri break from the ordinary rhythm of the podcast with another "freestyle" episode! In this episode, we'll examine questions / topics such as: - Is it others responsibility to adjust to your personal "triggers?" - Why are more people in the older generation experiencing mental health issues than ever…

Information is coming at us from all sides. Consuming information these days can be compared to trying to drink water from a fire hydrant. Access points into our lives are everywhere. To what extent do these “access points” affect how we conduct ourselves on a daily basis? Do we ever slow down to evaluate our intake? Asking ourselves why we choose …

Hi! and welcome to the fifty-first episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! live YouTube Q&A session from August 2023. In this episode Paul answers questions posted by members of his Boardgamegeek guild and those posed in the live chat stream during the show. Link to contest here https://docs.goo…

Many times, we assume that we must be a corporate leader, owner, or in a position of power in order to claim ‘ownership’ over our meaningful work. However, this couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, if you adopt an ownership mentality- as an employee, a parent, or even a friend, it can transform your life in a positive way. In Episode 20 of …

Hi! and welcome to the Fiftieth episode of the Gaming Rules! Podcast. This episode is an audio recording of the Gaming Rules! YouTube Vlog from July 2023. Paul discusses the games he played between 3rd July 2023 through to 1st August 2023, gives details of his upcoming projects, gives a patreon update, and gives us a personal update. If you'd like …

We all want to separate ourselves from the pack, but how do we define what makes us different from the rest? In Episode 19 of The New Rules Podcast, we delve into the concept of being "One of One" and embracing our authentic selves. When we understand our positive and negative traits, we can leverage our strengths to better ourselves and the world …