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You might think you know what it takes to lead a happier life… more money, a better job, or Instagram-worthy vacations. You’re dead wrong. Yale professor Dr. Laurie Santos has studied the science of happiness and found that many of us do the exact opposite of what will truly make our lives better. Based on the psychology course she teaches at Yale -- the most popular class in the university’s 300-year history -- Laurie will take you through the latest scientific research and share some surpr ...
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://www.myrhythms.life Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mywellco.life Email us: community@mywellco.life
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Welcome to the podcast on how to heal from past painful relationships and set yourself up for relationship success. Helping business leaders and entrepreneurs to get relationship empowered, with actionable tools and specific information on how you can start creating happy and fulfilling relationships. Heal old wounds and fill your relationship with trust, security and love so you can be the most joyful version of yourself. I'm your host Dr Sarah, Relationship Coach, Expert Clinical Psycholog ...
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Kurt Jefferson’s University Leadership Learning Lab (U3L) Podcast focuses on leadership in higher education from leadership theory to applied leadership, online and digital learning, technology, higher education management, data-driven decision-making, etc. Send Dr. Jefferson your thoughts and ideas for topics at kjuleadershiplearninglab@gmail.com. Follow him on Twitter: @kjglobal88 and @U3LPodcast and read his U3L blog on LinkedIn. “Be part of the solution: Become ‘U’ in the Leadership Lear ...
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Welcome to 'The Success Lab' with, Dr. Lynda Barnes. As The Success Doctor, has journeyed through adversity, conquered chronic illnesses, and built successful businesses in diverse industries. And now, She’s here to empower you, the unstoppable woman. In this podcast, we dive deep into total health, business growth, and how to foster a resilient mindset that can weather any storm. With insights from industry experts, personal stories of resilience, and a healthy dose of inspiration, we're he ...
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My name is Dr. Kate. I am a movement educator, chiropractor, yoga instructor, and anatomy nerd. I want to bring more balance to people's lives and make it possible for them to continue to do their physical hobbies while staying injury free for the long term. I have a heavy focus in post partum, pelvic floor work, diastasis recti, c section work, and core function. I follow a lot of the principles of Dynamic Neuromuscular Stabilization. I feel that you can fix so much with addressing core imb ...
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. - Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://www.myrhythms.life Follow on Instagram: https:/…
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We often do things now that will make our lives more difficult or stressful in the future. We spend money, when we should save. We eat junk food, when we should exercise. We agree to commitments, when we should protect our free time. We act so thoughtlessly that it's almost like we hate our future selves. Dr Laurie asks UCLA's Hal Hershfield to hel…
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Learn about the 5 risk factors in communication within your relationship: criticism, defense, dismissive, gaslighting, and stonewalling. Join me on my Empowered Communication Workshop: www.relationshipsuccesslab.com/workshops Support the Show. Set yourself up for relationship success and get the best marriage advice. Whether you're surviving infide…
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Awe reduces stress, helps us forget our minor worries and makes us feel more connected to the people around us. We all need more awe in our lives - but surely it's not that easy to find awesome experiences on your average Tuesday? Actor Tony Hale explains how everyday awe helps ease his anxieties, while UC Berkeley's Dacher Keltner shows us how to …
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In this episode, we're diving into the complex topic of what it means to be a man, especially in 2024. You might think it's straightforward, but with all the mixed messages out there, it's anything but easy. Men often feel lost in a sea of conflicting expectations: be emotional, be strong, be a provider, but also be sensitive. It's like they're sea…
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Dr Laurie is stressed, and it's harming her health. Constant worry and stress is bad for our bodies and our minds, but how can we break the cycle and relax? It turns out scientists have learned a lot from one of America's most stressed-out communities - caregivers. Hollywood star Steve Guttenberg talks about the toughest chapter of his life - carin…
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If you have been trauma bonded, in a relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies, or have been in a battle where you feel belittled, controlled, criticised and coerced - this episode is for you. Support the Show. Set yourself up for relationship success and get the best marriage advice. Whether you're surviving infidelity, solving relati…
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Dr Laurie HATES boredom! Since childhood she's found it so painful that she'll do anything to avoid being bored. She'll watch crappy TV. She'll find extra work to do. She'll snack. But boredom is actually an incredibly useful tool to boost our happiness and creativity. With the help of leading boredom experts, Dr Laurie learns how to embrace doing …
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Today, we're diving into the complex question: "Am I a good enough partner, and am I doing the right things in my relationship?" This issue arises frequently in my practice, often tangled with skewed perceptions of what constitutes good partnership. Many strive to please their partner, often at the cost of neglecting their own needs or engaging in …
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Holding yourself to impossibly high standards is self-defeating and makes for a miserable life. Can Dr Laurie Santos find ways to tackle her constant perfectionism so she can perform better and have more fun? She hears from researcher Thomas Curran about a worrying growth in perfectionism in society, and asks "recovering perfectionist" Jordana Conf…
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Today's discussion is going to delve into a tough topic, but it's crucial for understanding. I've personally experienced hurt from my partner, and I yearn for them to acknowledge my pain, apologize, and grasp the impact of their actions. This sentiment resonates widely, whether in ongoing relationships or after a breakup. When we've been criticized…
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Sometimes the happiness teacher flunks her own class. In a deeply personal new season, Dr Laurie Santos opens up about the things she really, really struggles with. Things like crippling perfectionism, chronic stress and a paralyzing fear of death. With the help of world-class experts, a Hollywood star and a host of normal people who grapple with t…
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So, you're in a spot where you're putting in all this effort to make your partner happy, right? It feels like a constant uphill battle, and no matter what you do, it never seems enough. Sound familiar? Many of us have been there. It's like you're pouring yourself into every aspect of your life just to keep things afloat. For example, you might be h…
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Liz Dunn is a regular guest on The Happiness Lab, but in this extended interview with TED's Chris Anderson she take us on a deep dive into her research. It shows that by increasing our generosity and by giving to others we can significantly boost our own happiness. Listen to more episodes of The TED Interview wherever you get your podcasts. See omn…
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In this talk, I address the crucial issue of relationship dynamics, emphasizing the dichotomy between growth and stagnation. I assert that relationships are either flourishing, with mutual nurturing and attention, or deteriorating, marked by stagnation and mundanity. I highlight how distractions like children or caregiving can lead to neglect of th…
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A chance to hear a recent episode of A Slight Change of Plans in which Maya Shankar asks psychologist Adam Grant about his new book "Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things". They talk about how to filter out unhelpful feedback, the benefits of imperfectionism, and why we need to give soft skills more respect. Listen to more episo…
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Today, I'll discuss a common question from struggling couples or individuals facing relationship challenges: "Am I the toxic one, or do I do toxic things that harm the relationship?" Let's unpack this idea of toxic behavior, acknowledging that nobody is entirely good or bad; we're all human, prone to mistakes and blind spots. It's not about placing…
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. - Anatomy of an Attitude and Experience Graphic Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://w…
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Go from feeling lost and unloved, or the experience of a trauma bond, to feeling fulfilled and loved fully ans truly. Support the Show. Set yourself up for relationship success and get the best marriage advice. Whether you're surviving infidelity, solving relationship problems, improving your relationship, growing your self-worth and confidence ami…
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Work is a worry. Are we paid enough? Should we be getting promoted quicker? Is artificial intelligence about to replace us all? Speaking at SXSW 2024, Dr Laurie Santos argues that because of all our career woes we often neglect our happiness. She walks through her top five tips for improving our workplace wellbeing - which will not only make us fee…
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NOTE: This is only for couples who WANT to make their relationship work and rebuild trust. There's been an injury in your relationship. You might have been hurt by your partner's actions. They might have been critical or judgemental. They might have ignored you when you needed them or betrayed you when you trusted them. Your partner (who did the ac…
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Technology is amazing! We can make video calls, find facts in an instant and watch movies on our phones. We take all this for granted, but have we let our screens and devices take over too much of our lives? To mark Digital Wellness Day on May 3, we hear from Amy Blankson (author and "chief evangelist" at the Digital Wellness Institute) about her t…
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. - Anatomy of an Attitude Graphic Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://www.myrhythms.li…
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Karen Guggenheim was devastated by the death of her husband, Ricardo. She was alive, but dead to the world around her. Slowly she put her life back together and found growing happiness. To share her insights with others in need, Karen started the World Happiness Summit. Karen's campaign to spread global happiness is just one example of "post trauma…
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I get asked by my clients on a daily basis: Can I fix this relationship? Well, it depends. Mostly on whether you are willing to take action to get out of victimhood and empower yourself. If the relationship is meant to be for you - this would be welcomed with open arms. If not, it's time to say goodbye - and you'll also feel grounded in doing so gi…
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Love is simply not enough - and to believe it is deludes yourself into an unhealthy relationship. Support the Show. Set yourself up for relationship success and get the best marriage advice. Whether you're surviving infidelity, solving relationship problems, improving your relationship, growing your self-worth and confidence amidst a trauma bond, h…
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Medical doctors are waking up to the importance of happiness, partly prompted by the work of people like Rangan Chatterjee. Dr Chatterjee is Professor of Health Education and Communication, the host of the hit podcast 'Feel Better, Live More' and author of five best-selling books including Happy Mind, Happy Life: 10 Simple Ways to Feel Great Every …
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The US is sliding down the world happiness rankings - but it's the unhappiness of young people that's really dragging down the average. What has happened to make Gen Z so sad? And what can be done to turn the situation around? Jan-Emmanuel De Neve (director of Oxford University’s Wellbeing Research Centre) has been analyzing the figures for the Wor…
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Today, joined by Dr Matt Slavin, we delve into the question: "Would you erase your trauma if you could?" Exploring both big and little traumas, we acknowledge their impact on shaping us. Trauma isn't just about life-threatening events but also repeated feelings of betrayal or neglect. Our experiences, good and bad, mold us, propelling us towards ac…
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In the discussion about high achievers and their challenges in relationships, Sarah and Matt highlight the common issue of being overly focused on goals and rationality, neglecting emotional connection. They emphasize that success in relationships relies heavily on emotional and mental connection, which accounts for 80% of relationship longevity. S…
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://www.myrhythms.life Follow on Instagram: https://w…
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Age is the main risk factor for cognitive decline. So with more people around the world living longer, cases of dementia are set to rise. There's currently no cure - but research suggests that happiness can reduce the impact of this awful illness. Psychologist Emily Willroth helped write a chapter on this topic for the 2024 World Happiness Report -…
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Today, we are talking all things about how to deal with heartache and break ups: - How to grow self-worth and confidence. - Noticing traits inside of you and stopping sabotaging behaviours - Difficulties with boundaries and communication - Are you in love because you need them or you need them because you love them? Joined by guest speaker Erica Tu…
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://www.myrhythms.life Follow on Instagram: https://w…
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Feel like you have to achieve more to 'save your relationship'? How you should prioritise your relationship, life and work
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The most important decision you will in your career EVER make is the person with whom you choose to have a relationship. Today, I had the pleasure of chatting with Kelly Roach, an 8 figure entrepreneur, owner of 6 businesses, who successfully balances career and family. Kelly emphasizes the importance of prioritizing relationships and structuring b…
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There are certain nations which always top the rankings in the World Happiness Report. What are they doing right, that other countries are getting wrong? And what can you do to make your home country happier? John Helliwell of the World Happiness Report explains how things like wealth, freedom and friendship combine to make a happy society - and ho…
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Victimhood serves a function, responsibility is hard, and marrying yourself Ft Neeta Bhushan
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Welcome back, friends! I'm thrilled to be joined by Neeta Bhushan, author of "That Sucked, Now What?" and co-founder of the Higher Self Institute. Today, we're diving into trauma bonding and how to cultivate healthier relationships, even amidst pain. Neeta shares her journey, starting from a trauma-bonded relationship characterized by love bombing …
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Today, we're joined by Hoda Tahoun, a global consultant in talent development, known for her expertise in personal development, especially in business and relationships. Hoda emphasizes the interconnectedness of different aspects of life, particularly relationships, which can significantly impact personal growth. Hoda shares her daily routine, high…
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The Happiness Lab’s Dr. Laurie Santos brings together other Pushkin hosts to mark the International Day of Happiness. Revisionist History’s Malcolm Gladwell talks about the benefits of the misery of running in a Canadian winter. Dr. Maya Shankar from A Slight Change of Plans talks about quieting her mental chatter. And Cautionary Tales host Tim Har…
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Hello and welcome back. Today, I'm going to delve a little deeper into the issues we have about our self-worth. The reason for this is because many people come to me with relationship problems, feeling unappreciated or undervalued. Regardless of the relationship issues they present, the common thread is doubt in their self-worth. This doubt manifes…
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Let's talk about self-love today. Why is it crucial? It's necessary in any relationship, whether you're single and looking for a partner or struggling with your current relationship. Social media talks a lot about self-love, but here's my take. Loving yourself isn't easy. If you're listening, you've probably dealt with self-doubt and insecurity, ma…
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We often think adding more things to our lives will make us happier - more trips, more activities, more possessions. Sadly our minds find it hard to comprehend that having less and doing less is usually a better option. Dr Laurie Santos teams up with economist Tim Harford (host of Cautionary Tales) to examine why we find subtraction so very hard, a…
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Today, we're diving into why self-love is crucial for successful relationships, whether you're single, in a committed relationship, or navigating the dating scene. Let's explore why prioritizing self-love is essential for both you and your relationships. Many people hear the advice to love themselves more, but the true significance of this often ge…
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Welcome to My Well Lab with Dr. Andy Yarborough, your guide to hope, wellness, and life. Join Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Andy Yarborough as he discusses all things related to wholistic self-care, mental health, leadership, and personal growth. Dr. Andy's Course on Self-Care, Rhythms: https://www.myrhythms.life Follow on Instagram: https://w…
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want to talk about something many of us experience. You ever feel like you're working tirelessly, yet things just aren't improving? Maybe in your relationship, you're constantly walking on eggshells, avoiding uncomfortable conversations, or trying to make excuses for your partner's behavior. You find yourself doing more and more, hoping it'll keep …
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Fairy tales and Hollywood rom coms have taught us to expect perfection from a soul mate, but sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz says we need to be more comfortable with the idea that a "good enough" partner will do. Todd once bought into this perfection myth - wanting a boyfriend to meet all his needs without even being told. These expecta…
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I discuss how individuals often question whether their feelings of anxiety or insecurity are self-generated or provoked by their partner's behavior. I emphasize the importance of discerning between personal issues and those originating from the partner, as failing to do so can lead to ongoing anxiety and uncertainty within the relationship. I illus…
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In this discussion, we're exploring the recurring question of whether someone is in love with the reality of their relationship or if they're enamored with the potential of their partner. The speaker delves into scenarios where individuals might be facing challenges and repeating patterns in their relationships. The central question posed is whethe…
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Some people ask searching questions and then really listen to the replies. These so-called supercommunicators make great romantic partners, so can anyone learn to be more like them? Journalist Charles Duhigg (author of Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection) was unhappy with how he and his wife were talking, so he studi…
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In this discussion, I want to talk about the dynamic of victimhood within relationships. It's a challenging topic, and I always aim to be honest, even if the conversation is uncomfortable. My intention is rooted in compassion and love to help you improve, heal, and progress. If you feel triggered, seek support and prioritize self-care. Victimhood i…
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