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"Sorry For Asking" brings together longtime friends and award-winning gay adult film performers, Cole Conner and Adam Ramzi, to ask all the questions (and they mean that literally). From talking shop to sharing stories about their experiences in porn, "Sorry For Asking" podcast will give you a behind-the-scenes look at the life and reflections of queer adult content creators. Between their conversations and the parade of guests that will join them, "Sorry For Asking" will ask all the sexy qu ...
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And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new…
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Lube up more than your nethers this time, folks. Your brain, heart, and soul could each use a good yank, as evidenced by today’s conversation with OG YouTube sensation turned holistic adult content producer, Davey Wavey. Adam and Cole dive deep into Davey’s history, growing up Catholic in Rhode Island, and falling into the early days of YouTube vid…
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After gushing about him at the end of our last episode, Adam and Cole give a warm in-studio welcome to the iconic emperor of trans masculine adult content and sexual healing, Viktor Belmont! In this hilarious and heady conversation, Viktor shares about his exceptionally unique experience of self-actualization, not only as a sexual healer and formid…
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Hey folks, let’s catch up! Cole and Adam get together this week to discuss a busy end of summer schedule, including some recent scene work and seasonally-themed collaborations. They also get into some of their younger scene partners and ask questions about whether or not the younger generation of queer men may be desensitized to sex, given its over…
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After a couple false starts, Adam and Cole finally get the chance to sit down with the legendary Reese Rideout to hear his tale. What false starts, you ask? Tune in to hear the wild story about what took so long to get Reese on the pod. Reese shares vividly about his path to gay adult film legend status, in the early days of Randy Blue all the way …
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Happy spooky season, listeners. To kick off the final stretch of season 3, Adam and Cole bring to the table just the dose of infectiously joyful, confident femme-dom energy in the form of iconic performer and producer, Siouxsie Q! Siouxsie is a captivating storyteller, sharing about growing up in the Bay Area and being drawn to the abundance of fre…
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Just Adam and Cole today, folks. After a last minute cancellation, the boys decide to hide from the insanity-inducing heat wave and get together to hang out and talk shop, starting with a little run down of how they feel about the upcoming elections. Then as they each catch up about their end of summer shenanigans, they begin a fun little discussio…
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All hail our first ever returning guest performer: this week the boys are joined again by Drew Valentino! Drew visits Adam and Cole this time to discuss what a difference two years make in the gay adult content industry, since the last time he was on the podcast. No longer an exclusive with the Falcon group, and seemingly less interested in making …
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Lots of stories to tell today, folks. Adam and Cole get together for a catch up after Cole’s exciting time in Chicago for the yearly Market Days summer festival. They then take turns telling some stories, including a fun birthday pool party that led to some mischief, on as well as offline, leading to a run in with an influencer who has joined the c…
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We’ve got daddy fever again this week, and this time it’s because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than one of the most prolific, hardworking, and evolved elders of the gay adult industry of our time, Mr Adam Russo! Adam tells stories of what it was like coming into his young gay adulthood in the 80s, during the rise and eventual height…
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Welcome back, listeners, and happy summer! Today, Adam and Cole are paid a visit in the studio by their dear friend, Brogan! The boys have a very fun chat about Brogan’s rise in the industry, starting as a young man in Minnesota undergoing a very unconventional bout with conversion therapy. Obviously, it didn’t work as intended, and Brogan found hi…
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As promised, Adam and Cole are here to deliver a follow up to the previous episode, The Taboo Twirl, to speak a little more seriously and directly on some subjects, specifically after the news broke about charges brought last month against prominent gay adult film star, Austin Wolf. They address some concerns and comments brought forth by friends, …
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Summer is underway folks, and Adam and Cole are feeling the heat in all kinds of ways. First off, the boys recap their first time shooting together for a studio scene in Palm Springs, where they got to flex their professional muscles together. Then Adam shares his summer bucket list of performers to shoot with, leading to a discussion about some of…
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Dear listeners, get your ears prepped because we’ve got Sir Peter calling in to talk to Adam and Cole, all the way from Madrid! He stayed up late just to hop on Zoom in his boxers and share with us his quick rise to gay adult star status. Growing up in Portugal, working for years as a flight attendant, and then landing eventually in Madrid, Sir Pet…
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Happy pride month, folks! This time our guest is an exciting combination of many things, for example, a native Californian visiting all the way from Berlin! Adam and Cole welcome tatted muscle stud Troy Daniels to the studio, who shares his lengthy path to current status as a queer adult icon. Troy came out at 14 in 1990s Los Angeles, moved to San …
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We are gearing up for pride season, and Cole and Adam get together in this catch-up episode to banter about the many goings on in their lives currently, as well as recent and upcoming happenings, in just the adorable way they always do. Cole discusses recent shoots in Florida, Adam talks about the ethics of canceling shoots, and the boys bashfully …
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We know sequels can be hard, but with a guest like the Dick Doctor, we are pretty sure we pulled it off. You may remember last season, when urologist, sexual health specialist, and purveyor of the Popstar sexual health supplement, Dr Joshua Gonzalez joined us to discuss all things in regards to penile health. This time he returns to talk about anot…
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Brace yourselves, folks, we are back in daddy territory. This time, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by the very sexy Christian Wilde, and this conversation goes deep into all of our sexual psyches on multiple levels! First, we get to know Christian a bit, as he details his sexual identity journey (and why he refuses these days to commit to labels) a…
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And here we are bringing you some more behind the scenes stories, folks, sorry in advance! This time, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by long-time adult film director Jasun Mark, who is responsible for bringing you some of the hottest gay scenes over the last nearly two decades. You may know his work best from his many years as the lead director of …
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Welcome back, folks - just the boys this time. In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up about some recent travels, shoots, and play dates, including Adam’s first time ever hooking up via the Sniffies website, prompting an important discussion relevant to the queer experience… are we hookup people? Do we like the anonymous situation, or prefer vibing…
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We are super excited about this one, folks, sorry in advance. Adam and Cole welcome gay adult superstar, Sharok, this time, who shares very openly about the journey that has led him to the upper stratosphere of the world of gay adult content. Growing up in an Iranian American household on the west side of Los Angeles, Sharok started out with an esc…
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Our first guest of the new season is here! We give you Rocky Unleashed - fairly new to the adult film industry, Rocky has rocketed into the stratosphere in a matter of nine months, and shares with us his very thoughtful approach to the art of adult content. Having grown up near the Bay Area of California a theater kid who grew into a busy guy in th…
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The wait is over! We are back, beautiful listeners, and we have got quite a season in store, sorry in advance! In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up about the trouble they got into over the holidays, including the sexy men they’ve been making content with lately and the events that have been keeping them busy off-camera. We also get some stories …
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This is it, folks! Here we are, at our season 2 finale, rounding out a full year of our amazing collaboration with the Fleshbot x Cybersocket team, featuring illuminating conversations and wonderful guests. In this episode, Cole and Adam cover a lot of ground speaking on their Folsom Street Fair experience, Halloween, and the upcoming holidays. The…
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For the past six or so years, the world has been falling in love with Max Adonis, for his sweet smile and demeanor in photos and TikTok videos, his stint as a contestant on OutTV's 'Go Go for the Gold,' as well as his very enthusiastic style of, um... 'delivery' in adult content. Now it's your turn, as you listen to this episode in which Max pays a…
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Gird your loins, listeners. Especially if you’re a twink. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by muscle man Jake Jaxx, who tells his very complex story that led him down into, and out of, the content creation rabbit hole. From moving around the midwest to a lengthy stint in Florida, Jake’s sexual experience began with girls, and didn’t really…
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Grab a coffee, it’s just the boys this time! In this episode, Cole and Adam shoot the shit about a variety of subjects, including recent shoots, travels, and happenings. Cole tells stories about his trip to Hawaii and Adam shares about his wild time at Burning Man, from the sexy boys to the harrowing escape from an unexpected mud storm. They also o…
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As promised, here is the second installment of For the Moms, this time with Adam's mom, Maral! In this hilarious and revealing conversation, we learn more about the history of Adam's coming of age, and into his adult film career, through Maral's eyes. She shares with the boys her experience witnessing the evolution of gay liberation from when she w…
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Ready to go deep into Cole's history? Who better as a guest than his mom, Paula? She joins us in this episode to discuss what it was like to raise a ham like Cole in Lexington, Kentucky, and what it's been like since to watch him grow into the big gay porn success story he is today. Some laughs, some tears, and many revealing insights into our swee…
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Summer is wrapping up, and this week it's just the boys! In this hilarious episode, Adam shares with Cole about a very scary health crisis he went through just before a lovely summer trip to Spain, and Cole expresses some excitement for his upcoming getaway to the Market Days festival in Chicago. Then we get into some discussion about when content …
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Picture it - Cole Connor goes on a content trip somewhere in Wisconsin, and among the sizable group of studs bouncing around and filming hot scenes together, a hot, blonde blue-eyed muscle man is in the mix. But wait… he’s straight? Fast forward to today, Adam Kubatzke joins Cole and Adam on the cast to share what led him down the path from being a…
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We’ve got royalty in the house this time, folks. Content creator, gogo star, and recent contestant on OutTV’s ‘Go Go for the Gold,’ King Dwarf is our special guest this week. In this episode, he joins Adam and Cole in the studio to talk about his experience growing up with dwarfism, the moment he realized he was packin’ some serious heat in his und…
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The boys catch up over their latest happenings and cover a random array of topics, successes, blunders, new kinks, old kinks, and other reasons to share regarding the this-and-that relevant to the life of a gay adult content creator, especially as the summer ramps up and things start to get BUSY. Join in our little conversation, sorry in advance! P…
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This week the boys welcome special guest, Mr Pam! Arguably the best-known cis female director of gay male porn, Mr Pam shares her journey to becoming one of the most beloved creative personalities in the industry. From her beginnings in the Bay Area squeaking into the biz almost by accident as an editor, to her creative director position with Micha…
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This week, Adam and Cole welcome trans performer, activist, and sex goddess, Küper, who shares their very unique perspective having grown up in a repressed environment while straddling the non-binary spectrum, becoming a sex worker and adult film performer in their male form, and eventually coming out as trans at the turn of the pandemic era. They …
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This week, Adam and Cole catch up about the very busy beginning of summer happenings, work and otherwise, focusing specifically on the ins and outs of shooting studio porn. Sometimes it’s fun, sometimes it’s difficult, sometimes it’s grueling, and sometimes it’s hilarious - the boys share stories of their recent brushes with studio work and compare…
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Get your ears ready. This week, Adam and Cole welcome prolific porn stud Derek Kage, who shares candidly about his journey to adult film work, from his mental health struggles early on to finding his footing in the industry and working for all the hottest studios. He also reveals the reason for his name, tells some very funny stories, and delivers …
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For nearly ten years, UK sensation Josh Moore has climbed the ranks from novice “demon twink” with Michael Lucas to Falcon Exclusive porn king with over half a million Twitter followers. In this episode, Adam and Cole get the low down on Moore’s beginnings in the industry, his current lifestyle in London, and how being a performer has affected his …
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This week, the boys fall deep into a discussion about general dating rituals and how life as erotic content creators has affected their own dating habits. What came first, the chicken or the egg? Has the evolution of their dating habits led to life in the adult film world, or has being adult film stars had an influence on the way they date? Is dati…
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Our first health segment! Have you ever wondered about penises? Like… what’s really up with penises? Adam and Cole get very lucky this week when they receive a visit from Los Angeles based urologist and CEO/co-founder of Popstar Labs, Dr Josh Gonzalez. In this episode, the boys get real deep with Dr Gonzalez, who shares his extensive knowledge abou…
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Strap in, folks. Our special guest this week is the prince of naughty and nice, the sexy and talented Devin Franco. Devin shares with Adam and Cole about his religious upbringing in rural New Mexico, takes them on a tour of the porn that inspired his journey, including an enlightened take on the ins and outs of fisting and bondage, and tells storie…
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In this episode, Adam and Cole catch up over the latest adventures in the world of content creation, including Cole’s 20-man excursion to the desert, which prompts the boys to discuss something very important - preparation! Yes everyone, it’s the douching episode. There’s no one way to do it, everybody does it, and we all have stories. How it works…
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This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by dom top superstar Wade Wolfgar, who gives the boys a glimpse into the many elements that have helped him compose his brand. From growing up in Calgary, to the winding road toward sex work and adult films, to his very unique delivery in his videos, to his propensity for older men; all of this rounds out t…
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In this episode, Adam and Cole welcome decorated gay porn veteran Steve Cruz, who shares with us the twists and turns of his unique journey in the world of gay adult films. Starting out at the top as a star performer at Raging Stallion Studios, Cruz spent over four years in front of the camera before making the permanent switch to behind, becoming …
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Welcome back to Sorry for Asking! In the season 2 premiere, Adam and Cole get used to the new and improved setup, provided by their partnership with Fleshbot x Cybersocket, while they catch up about the recent holiday season and share steamy stories from their recent sexy filming opportunities (including a shared group scene, in which Adam had a ve…
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In the final episode of season 1, Cole and Adam share their wisdom, insights, and experiences with the body dysmorphia that often plagues performers in the gay adult industry, as well as the gay community at large. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/supportUBNGO
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For the penultimate episode of season 1, Adam and Cole welcome actor and comedian Drew Droege to discuss a wide range of Hollywood’s film and television offerings that depict the evolving gay experience, sexual and otherwise. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/supportUBNGO
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Our Thanksgiving Episode! Adam and Cole discuss a delicious buffet of topics, including queer party culture, double penetration, Adam’s recent travels and Cole’s upcoming directorial enterprise, and link them all back to the spirit of giving (and receiving). --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support…
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Adam and Cole welcome porn performer and Falcon Exclusive Andre Donovan, who shares the evolution of his sexual tastes and performer journey over eight years in the industry, and discusses his perspective on the importance of diversity, representation, and visibility for POC performers in gay porn and beyond. --- Support this podcast: https://ancho…
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You know what doesn’t get talked about enough? Gay butt sex! The boys have an in-depth conversation about the ins and outs and the joys and woes of anal intercourse, on and off camera. Sorry in advance, Mom. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/supportUBNGO
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