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You kid is blessed with extraordinary talents, or so they tell you. But by now you've found out it isn't all sunshine and rainbows. It's definitely not a given that they are happy and thriving. In this podcast Tijl shares daily stories, lessons and practical advice on how to help your gifted kid(s) thrive -and- be happy. While at the same time enjoying your own life as well. Want to learn more? Dive right in and start listening.
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Episode 67 - Exploring the World of the Gifted: The Reality Behind 'Scorpion' and the Unorthodox Genius of Walter O'Brien
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Unlock the mysteries of gifted minds with our exploration of 'Scorpion,' a series that dives into the life of Walter O'Brien, a prodigy who hacked NASA as a kid. My fascination with O'Brien's story was kindled after hearing his interview with Tim Ferriss, where he shared insights on building a company that defies the norm by focusing on raw intelli…
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Episode 66 - Harnessing Pop Culture Superheroes: Embracing the Complex Journey of Gifted Children
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Ever felt like you could unleash your inner superhero and save the day, just like in the movies? Prepare to have your perspective shifted as we delve into the world of pop culture and positive psychology, examining the profound lessons that can be applied to parenting gifted children. We're not just talking about any show; we're exploring a series …
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Episode 65 - The Cinematic Classroom: Harnessing the Power of Movies for Character and Well-being Development
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Have you ever wondered how the tales of Harry Potter and Matilda might shape your child's understanding of their own strengths and weaknesses? Join us as we unpack the extraordinary ways in which cinema and television can be more than just a family pastime—they're a treasure trove of lessons on personal development, framed through the lens of posit…
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Episode 64 - Awakening Your Inner Innovator: The Art of Transforming Mental Paths into Creative Highways
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Ever feel like your brain is on autopilot, trudging the same mental path day after day? Prepare to be awakened to a world where your intelligence is not just a static measure, but a vibrant, dynamic force that you can harness and enhance. This episode is inspired by Winwenger's Project Renaissance and the ingenuity depicted in "The Pretender," sett…
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Episode 63 - Unlocking Your Learning Potential: The Revolutionary Power of Mind Mapping with Tony Buzan
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Master the art of effective learning and retention with this mind-blowing episode! Join us as we uncover the transformative technique of mind mapping, a visual tool that will revolutionize your approach to learning. In our conversation with the mind mapping guru himself, Tony Buzan, we learn how to create powerful learning diagrams that simplify co…
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As someone who was once told my memory wouldn't cut it for high school, I'm here to tell you that I've cracked the code on memorization. It's not just for those with a knack for recall; it's a skill that, with the right tools and training, can be mastered by anyone. Today, I'll take you through my journey from memory muddle to becoming a whiz at re…
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Episode 61 - Unlocking Your Brain's Potential: Mastering Photo Reading and the Art of Speed Study Skills
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Ever wondered if your brain can juggle images of entire book pages and actually recall the content? Paul Scheele thinks so, and on our latest episode, we're diving into his revolutionary photo reading technique. It's a game-changer for students and lifelong learners alike. But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. We're also breaking down the holy gr…
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Ever felt overwhelmed by a complex task or project? We've all been there, but today's episode is a game-changer, as we draw inspiration from the strategic and analytical world of American Kenpo Karate, as pioneered by Senior Grandmaster Ed Barker, to tackle that daunting to-do list. By adopting the mantra "complexity is compound simplicity," we gui…
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Have you ever wondered what separates successful students from the rest? It's the power of self-regulation, and in our latest episode, we uncover how this key skill can be your ultimate tool for academic triumph. Self-regulation is a cornerstone of effective learning, yet many gifted students find themselves at a loss, having never been challenged …
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Ever felt like untapped potential was simmering within you, just waiting to burst forth in a brilliant display of achievement? Our latest episode is your playbook for transforming latent talent into concrete academic success, geared especially for high schoolers on the cusp of university life. We delve into the profound difference between raw intel…
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Ever wondered how high-stakes negotiation techniques could be a game-changer in a classroom setting? Your curiosity is about to be quenched! We unearth the fascinating association between nonverbal cues, emotions, personality, and how they play out in the dynamics of a classroom. Trust us, this is not your conventional classroom discussion. We take…
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Episode 56 - Compression versus Decompression: Balancing High-Intensity Performance and Mental Well-being
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Ever felt like you're running a marathon on a daily basis, compressing a week's work into a single day? You're not alone. This episode uncovers a powerful metaphor of compression and decompression time, a concept often associated with highly sensitive people. Have you ever thought about how we, akin to a squeezed sponge, require space and time to r…
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Can you feel your anger in your nose? That might seem like an odd question, but as I recount my journey of self-discovery in this podcast episode, you'll understand its relevance. After years of suppressing my emotions and losing my self-identity in my quest to conform to societal expectations, I hit a breaking point. A casual remark by my assistan…
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Ever wondered how one question can change your life? Our guest, a gifted counselor, shares his journey of working with thousands of students and teachers, and how a simple guiding question—"What are you going to do to make things better?"—made a huge difference in their success. He discusses his trial-error-triumph story when he was a high school s…
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Episode 53 - Breaking the Chains of Overthinking: The Leap from Paralysis to Purposeful Action
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Have you ever felt trapped in the cycle of overthinking, stuck in a state of inaction for fear of making a mistake? Our guest for this episode is here to challenge that mentality. Sharing a brutally honest recount of their own journey from feeling paralyzed by intelligence to becoming a transformative figure who has established multiple schools and…
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What if you could shift your focus from the results you want in your children to the parent you want to be? This episode explores the liberating perspective that comes from emphasizing the process over the outcome in parenting. We set the stage with a candid conversation about the realities of life, acknowledging that there are "some days and other…
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Ever wondered how to strike that perfect balance between your personal identity and the image you project to the world? Join us for a compelling conversation sparked by my coaching program, where branding expert turned coach, Shannet, opened up a whole new perspective on brand and identity management. Using her insights from the corporate world, we…
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Navigating the tumultuous waves of teenage popularity, as a former bullied dropout, I came face-to-face with the immense pressures of societal expectations. Through rigorous study of neuro-linguistic programming and group dynamics, I transformed my identity to conform and achieved popularity. Yet, this victory raised more questions than it answered…
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What if the secret to successful parenting lies in a children’s book? Brace yourself for an intriguing discussion as we uncover the profound life lessons hidden in Alice in Wonderland, particularly the wisdom shared by the enigmatic Cheshire Cat. Get ready to redefine your notions of parenting, as we emphasize the significance of having a direction…
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Ever felt like you're struggling to connect with your children? Ever wondered what it would be like to step into their world just for a day? We did just that and the results were nothing short of a revelation. From letting our kids be the 'boss for a day' to stepping out of our comfort zone and joining her in a game of Roblox, we found joy, connect…
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Have you ever told yourself the story that you simply don't have enough time to connect more deeply with your children? You may be surprised to learn that the time you're looking for is already there, just waiting to be utilized. We unravel our personal experiences and insights on transforming the seemingly mundane tasks of daily life into opportun…
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Episode 46 - Extraordinary in an Ordinary World: An Insight into the World of Gifted Children
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What if you were eight feet tall in a world designed for much shorter people? That's the intriguing metaphor we unveil to explore the challenges faced by gifted children in this enlightening episode. We pull back the curtain on why giftedness, a deviation from the norm, is not inherently wrong or problematic - rather it's the environment that's not…
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Episode 45 - Innovation through Neurodiversity: A Tale of Walter O'Brien's Unorthodox Strategy
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What if the road to innovation and progress was not paved with excellent social skills but rather with the brilliance of neurodivergent minds? We explore that fascinating intersection in this episode, where we delve into the challenges and opportunities of neurodiversity in the tech workplace. A deep dive into the management and productivity of hig…
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Ever wondered if you should focus only on your strengths and passions, or should life be a constant challenge, pushing you into areas you may not excel at? This episode conveys an enlightening conversation that explores this dichotomy, using a river delta as a metaphor for life’s journey. Whether allowing the current to carry you effortlessly or ch…
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Can you confidently say you have the perfect parenting strategy? Let's step into a fascinating dialogue with our guest Jack, who shares his intriguing insights on the challenging journey of parenting. Drawing from developmental and personality-based psychology, Jack argues against a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, he highlights the importance …
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Do you know what your learning style is? Well, I didn't for a long time. For years, I believed I was a poor student, even got kicked out of two high schools. But it wasn't that I was bad at learning, I just hadn't discovered my unique approach to it yet. So, this episode is all about the journey of discovering and embracing our own individual style…
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Episode 41: Reclaiming Control: A Parent's Guide to Navigating the Maze of Unique Children's Needs
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Navigating the parenting landscape with two children who possess distinct needs and personalities can be a challenging feat. As we discovered, one of our children is highly sensitive, and the other exhibits strong signs of ADD. Through a journey riddled with challenges and setbacks, we learned to become our own experts in understanding and guiding …
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Do you have a gifted child who seems overly critical of their work? Ever wondered if that's a good or bad thing, or how to navigate it? In this riveting discussion, we bring to light the different shades of perfectionism, particularly in gifted or smart children. Far from being a negative trait, we reveal how perfectionism can stem from a mismatch …
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Ever wondered how your brain navigates the complex process of learning new skills? Are you curious about how a simple change in perspective can turn a stumbling block into a stepping stone? Buckle up, as we embark on an enlightening journey with a young, ambitious programmer who is trying to crack the code of learning, making this episode a compell…
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Are you setting the bar too high? Not just for your gifted children, but for yourself as a parent? This episode takes you on a journey through the lives of profoundly gifted children at the Davidson Institute in Reno, Nevada. We highlight their exceptional abilities, such as undertaking university-level courses at the tender age of 14 or 15, as wel…
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Imagine getting that call; your child in an ambulance, heading to the hospital after a nasty fall. Terrifying, right? Welcome to my world. Our latest episode is a deep dive into the challenges of parenting, sparked by a personal incident that saw our middle child end up with six stitches after a climbing mishap. We take this event as a starting poi…
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Episode 36 - Turning the Tides: Transforming Parenting from a Rigged Game to a Winning Adventure
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Does parenting often feel like a rigged game to you? A game where the goal post keeps moving and no matter what you do, it seems like you’re going to lose? On today’s episode, we unpack the concept of parenting as an unwinnable game, using the simple analogy of choosing the right sunscreen for your kids. It’s a funny yet apt comparison that sheds l…
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Episode 35 - Unveiling the Power of Transparency in Child Psychology: A Dive into Psychoeducation and Its Impact
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Ever wondered why your child seems to be at odds with their psychologist? Or why they seem detached from the therapy process? We're peeling back the layers in a fascinating discussion on the power of transparency and understanding in child psychology. We share an eye-opening story about a young girl who felt misunderstood until her therapists embra…
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We don't believe there is a magic formula for raising gifted kids! We're bucking the trend in education that tries to put talented kids into neat little boxes, with the bold assertion that these one-size-fits-all strategies simply don't work. Drawing on a decade of experience with gifted children, we invite you to join us in an enlightening convers…
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Imagine embarking on a journey of self-discovery that could transform your understanding of giftedness, and possibly even shed light on your own or your child's unique challenges. This episode is that voyage, taking you through the nuanced landscape of giftedness, beyond the simplistic da Vinci-type brilliance, beyond even traditional IQ models. We…
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Have you ever wondered what makes a gifted child tick? What if I told you it's more than just their cognitive abilities? In this exciting episode, we dive headfirst into the fascinating world of gifted children, debunking common myths and changing our perspectives on what being gifted truly means. Our guest experts, seasoned in the field of gifted …
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How certain are you that intelligence can be neatly boxed and labeled through a singular metric? Does a high IQ automatically equate to genius or is there more to the intriguing world of giftedness than meets the eye? This episode invites you on an enlightening journey through the evolution of our understanding of intelligence, starting with Charle…
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Einstein, Da Vinci, Newton… ever thought that these were the only true examples of giftedness? Brace yourself as we bring a fresh perspective on this concept, debunking the myth that giftedness is a rare phenomenon. We're breaking down the concept of IQ, the conventional measure of giftedness, right from its inception by Biné to its current advance…
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Unravel the complexity of giftedness with me, as I share my personal expedition to decode the concept. Despite being a gifted child and working with gifted education for the past 15 years, I was often met with ridicule and doubted my prowess due to the lack of "required" knowledge. My thirst for understanding led me to gather wisdom from a myriad o…
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Ready for a wake-up call? What if I told you that being a thriving, happy, and healthy individual is the greatest gift you can offer your kids? It's time we tackled parenting, not as a sacrificial altar but as a learning, living, and giving journey that can be both fulfilling and personally enriching. In our circle of influence, we have the power t…
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What if the child you've dreamed of raising isn't exactly the child you have? Brace yourself as we tackle this difficult reality and rummage through the challenges it presents. No, it's not about changing them, but fortifying them with the right armor to navigate life's labyrinth. In this intense discussion, we'll be shedding light on the concept o…
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Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no end in sight? That's parenting for you, and today we are getting real about the struggles and triumphs we encounter on this journey. We examine the concept of parenting "standards", the energy we put into parenting, and its impact on our overall well-being. We invite you to reflect on your parenting …
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Picture this - you're tirelessly striving to be the perfect parent, juggling the complexities of life and parenthood. But are you neglecting the most crucial aspect of your parenting journey? Self-care. This episode unveils the paradoxical reality of parents often sacrificing their personal well-being in their pursuit of being the best parents for …
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Ever wondered why your gifted child, who is a star English student, hit a wall when trying to learn Spanish? You might be puzzled as they cruise through most of their classes with top grades, but then get stumped when encountering a new language. This episode unravels that mystery as we discuss the unique challenges faced by gifted students when th…
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Ever found yourself grappling with a challenge, ready to hurl it into the abyss of defeat? Well, I did, when I was knee-deep in the sea, battling the winds and waves as I attempted to master kite surfing. It was during these moments of frustration that I discovered the power of resilience, grit and the ability to push through. This podcast episode …
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Ever felt like group assignments only pull down your grades? You're not alone. We're addressing the elephant in the room - the struggle gifted students face when it comes to collaboration in our education system. We chat with a candid student who shares his firsthand experiences, painting the harsh reality of an A-grade student downgrading to a B o…
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Do you know a child who can solve a math problem faster than you can read it out? We've all encountered exceptionally bright kids who seem to operate on a level few of us can comprehend. But these gifted children face a unique set of challenges, particularly in a school system that often fails to engage their incredible minds. Join us as we share t…
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Are you stuck in a rut and unable to take on new challenges? Perhaps it’s time you understood the power of the success spiral. This episode unravels the concept and its key role in motivation and challenge acceptance. Just like a good game of chess, life demands that you face challenges slightly above your current level rather than those way out of…
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Episode 19 - Unleashing the Truth of Learning: The Balance between Understanding and Memorization
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Ever wonder why some kids excel in certain subjects but struggle in others? Ever pondered over the difference between understanding and memorizing when it comes to learning? Today, we unravel this mystery with our guest expert who shares his enlightening insights and personal experiences on the two main types of learning: understanding and memoriza…
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Imagine walking into a classroom where kids are busy solving anagrams. Now imagine some frustrated faces struggling over impossible anagrams while the other half breezes through. This scene sets the stage for our deep exploration of learning mindsets and how they shape our experiences in this episode. We delve into the lives of these students and h…
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