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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code. Resources: Www.captivatingcourts ...
 
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After 8 years of helping women attract partners so that they can get married I’ve learned that courtship is actually a simple process. It’s not easy. But it’s simple. Right now you may think it’s difficult and complicated because that’s what your past experiences have taught you. So because you’ve been winging it for so long you have patterns that …
 
Today's episode is a Monday Coffee Chat replay. Coffee Chats are living coaching calls in the CCC student community where students get to submit questions for live feedback and coaching. This call features insight on the first 30 days of courtship, the importance of being present during the first 30 days, and why it's more important to focus on int…
 
In today’s episode we speak with a CCC student as she shares her journey to leveling up her love life, business, and confidence as a divorced mom of three. We dive deep into healing and the necessary changes an ambitious woman must make in order to connect with your feminine energy, align your identity with the woman you want to be, and become your…
 
You’ve already tried therapy, reading books on attachment styles, and personal development so that you feel more confident, heal from your past, and invest in being a better you. Yet, you can’t figure out why all of the growth you’ve made isn’t working in your love life and helping you to attract better men? This is because feeling anxious and emot…
 
If you anxiously attach as soon as you like a guy and put all your eggs and focus in his basket this episode is for you. When you are dating & courted for a few weeks or months, and then the relationship doesn’t turn into actual commitment, it may cause you take some time off out of frustration and disappointment. Then after some time you may work …
 
A secret many high achieving successful women have is that they struggle with confidence and self worth. And society has made the mistake of confusing a woman with goals with a woman who isn’t fragile, fears rejection and failure, and a woman who doesn’t actually have it all together. So you’re often treated as strong, or expected to have all of th…
 
Being a matchmaker taught me there’s a luxury in the convenience of having help with love. The successful men and women I worked with as a matchmaker understood the benefit of accelerating their path to love. Yet they would overcomplicate finding a partner even with help. I realized there were key things happening: Overthinking, Anxiousness and Emo…
 
If you reflect on the last 6 months and you have had some ups and downs with meeting men, yet you are feeling confident that there are men available then you may be thinking something is missing that’s blocking you from attracting the right relationship for you. Maybe you feel challenged with getting to 3 months and exclusivity, or had a breakup wi…
 
Are you trying to figure out why your relationships aren’t lasting longer than 30 days? Do you want to know why after months of building an emotional connection the relationship isn’t moving forward to actual commitment or engagement? Do you want to actually take the next steps towards getting married? If you want to actually enjoy dating & courtsh…
 
Are you feeling clueless about courtship? If you've taken some steps towards attracting a compatible man for marriage but the relationships aren’t lasting or the men you are meeting aren’t fully committing and you’re not quite sure why, this episode is for you. Here's the thing, right now you may be taking some old outdated ways to date/court the m…
 
If you're meeting men and getting some good experiences, yet, you feel as though something is missing or not connecting during the courtship process, and your relationships with men aren’t leading to commitment and you don’t know why then this episode is for you. Not meeting men who are serious about commitment or you may thinking there’s something…
 
One mistake you may be making that you need to avoid is treating the first or second conversation like a job interview. You may be doing this unintentionally, but pay attention to the flow of conversations whether online or offline and if you’re communicating with the intention to quickly eliminate a man as not a match. When you first meet a man an…
 
Juggling all the things in life and trying your best to balance career and finding a partner is doable, even if you’re not having much success right now. If you are having conversations and meeting men but the experiences aren’t lasting very long: hot-cold relationships, the men appear incompatible, and you put men on pedestals then this episode is…
 
If you're a successful woman and you're actively meeting men, but the relationships don’t last very long and you find yourself always getting to the same relationship milestone and then the relationship falls off, then this episode is for you. Right now, it may feel like you attract hot-cold, start-stop relationships or men who just won’t commit an…
 
This behind the scenes episode of the courtship code podcast features a Monday live coffee chat about staying aligned during courtship, boundaries in relationships with men, and aligning with your feminine energy. Every Monday in CCC, The Captivating Courtship Code Accelerator program, Zara goes live to answer Q&A directly in the coaching community…
 
Do you want to attract more love and money in 2023? In this episode you'll learn the energetics of attracting more love and money, and why many successful, high achieving women struggle with attracting love and more financial abundance, even if you're already living a great life. If you want to attract a relationship and improve your dating & court…
 
In this episode we explore the common question today's woman faces, "Should I relocate to attract love?" If this is a question you've asked yourself, the answer may be YES and NO. Yes, because we've coached lots of women in CCC to attract and court men in long distance relationships successfully, and for some this could help solve their marriage pr…
 
In this episode you'll learn about attracting a match for marriage as a successful woman and why you want to be intentional about attracting a match for commitment so that you aren't wasting time with men who are not ready for commitment. We talk about strategic matching and how to quickly identify and meet men who are compatible and a good fit for…
 
Behind the scenes two part episode of a Monday Coffee Chat about changing your relationship with rejection and learning to accept your journey as a single woman. Every Monday Zara goes live directly in the coaching community to answer questions and provide direct feedback in real-time. This episode dives into the necessary mindset shifts, actions, …
 
Behind the scenes two part episode of a Monday Coffee Chat about changing your relationship with rejection and learning to accept your journey as a single woman. Every Monday Zara goes live directly in the coaching community to answer questions and provide direct feedback in real-time. This episode dives into the necessary mindset shifts, actions, …
 
Let’s address a big elephant you may not even realize is in the room. The belief that relationship coaching is for rich white women. The thought that only the privileged pay for relationship services like coaching, matchmaking, or other high-end love investments, and that it’s not what, “We do.” And you’re absolutely correct. So on this episode we …
 
Courtship should be a memorable experience, not a discouraging one. High achieving women, like you, work hard enough daily. You carry mental weight from work. Emotional weight from your family. And right now, your love life may feel equally heavy. This is why you SHOULDN’T have to work hard at attracting a partner, and carry all of the weight to ma…
 
You are not crazy for not being married yet. You are still a great catch even if you haven’t met your match, YET. Unfortunately, it’s normal to feel ashamed of your love life when you’ve done well in other areas of your life, yet, you still struggle with relationships. It’s normal to want to experience the next chapter of your life and be done with…
 
There are three skills high achieving women need for better courtship experiences. Right now, you may be lacking one of these skills. Or you could be lacking all three. There’s also the possibility that you have all three of these relationship skills, YET, you’re not applying them in the right way when it comes to dating & courtship. But if you wan…
 
Do you have a hard time balancing your career and making time to attract a partner? If you want to attract a great guy, have an interesting social life, and lessen burnout from always having to put work life and responsibilities first then this episode is for you. Right now, you may want to feel confident about options available and actually meetin…
 
On this episode Zara shares her journey with jumpstarting goals and coaching, the impact it's had on her life, and how to make the decision to jumpstart your love life with the same mindset and actions that's worked for her. DOORS TO THE RELATIONSHIP RESET ARE NOW OPEN Apply to Coaching Now www.captivatingcourtship.com/application…
 
On this bonus episode we discuss the importance of teaching men how to treat you and how to do it authentically to receive more love and commitment from men and the type of relationship you desire. Enrollment for The Relationship Reset Opens September 26th-30th Get on The Relationship Reset Waitlist https://app.convertkit.com/forms/designers/348580…
 
Today is a behind the scenes episode of our weekly Monday Coffee Chat. This live coaching snippet focuses on anxious attachment to men during courtship and the beginning of a relationship and how to reset it. Every week in coaching we bring you live coaching directly in our private student community, in addition to our weekly live coaching calls. T…
 
If meeting men has left you feeling exhausted, not getting past a few weeks or a few conversations, or you’re anxiously attaching to men as soon as you meet them then you may be meeting men the wrong way. Meeting more men doesn’t have to lead to painful disappointment and frustration. You may think the men you meet aren’t ready for commitment. But …
 
How you think about courtship will impact how you experience courtship. This means if you want courtship to feel good you must think good things about meeting new men, letting them know you’re single and looking, and accepting invitations to connect with them. When you tell your brain what to focus on, you will look for ways to make it happen. On t…
 
A part of resetting your love life is releasing your childhood insecurities so you can stop letting your wounded inner girl attract men. You’re not broken. You’re not damaged. You simply have some healing to do, that’s normal and okay. Stepping out of your Wounded Princess Energy will require more than writing in a journal or talking about your wou…
 
Anxiously attached women often find themselves putting all their eggs in one basket (the man) very early on in the dating and courtship process. When you first meet a new guy that you really like, focusing on him and pre-committing to the idea of the relationship may feel like the most natural thing to do. This often leads to cycles of hot-cold rel…
 
If you think being an introvert gets in the way of attracting a partner, let me share a secret. Introverted women can experience courtship and meeting more quality men easier than you think. Your introversion will activate your authentic ability to embody feminine energy, communicate on a deeper level, and create authentic connections with quality …
 
Right now, you may think you’ve made a lot of mistakes and feel hopeless. Or that you only attract men who aren’t ready, non-committal or emotionally unavailable. But the truth is you have to know how to qualify men and make high quality relationship decisions. Making decisions for your love life that don’t align or feel consistent with what you wa…
 
In this episode you'll learn 10 mistakes women make with courtship and attracting a relationship and how to avoid them. We also breakdown what's inside of the Relationship Reset coaching program, who it's for, and the enrollment process.JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP RESET WAITLISTCLICK HEREhttps://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/5625f6a1a1Questions? Send a DM…
 
The gap between thinking and knowing is stopping you from attracting long-term commitment, today. Here's what you must understand, it’s not that men don’t see your real value or that men like the idea of you and not the real you. You simply aren’t communicating your value to the right men, in an authentic way, that makes your value UNDENIABLE. This…
 
If you want to feel secure, valued and pursued by a man who wants commitment, letting relationship anxiety drive the courtship process will always backfire. Instead, you need to communicate your value without attempting to prove you’re good enough to be chosen by overthinking, overdoing, and desperate clingy energy. When you do this you will no lon…
 
What if you could hit the reset button on your love life and start taking action, increase your confidence, and meet lots of new men…would you? If so, then the first step to resetting is to break the pattern of not meeting men or meeting the wrong men. You can do this by getting clear on the current patterns that’s blocking love and reignite your i…
 
Taking action, repeating experiences, not seeming to get past the same relationship point. You’re tired of hot-cold relationships and you've been in this cycle for years. What you really want a loving, committed relationship with a man who is emotionally available and ready for commitment without having to apply pressure or convince him. Here's the…
 
Being a professional matchmaker taught me a ton of lessons that led me to creating the Captivating Courtship Code. Any of these lessons can get you one step closer to understanding what’s been making courtship difficult for you AND they will make all of your relationships better. Because how you do one thing is how you do everything. So, by improvi…
 
In today's episode I share my own personal journey with commitment and how I've had to learn to think about my own personal struggles with staying committed, and what I've done to focus on my health goals instead of giving up. I also share how the same mindset will help you in your journey to finding a partner and your relationship goals.Doors to C…
 
Doors to the Captivating Courtship Code 1.0 are closing for good June 15th. Want to know how to make courtship fun again and get back in control of your love life? This episode breaks it all down for you. In this episode you'll know all the details to know if CCC is the right fit for you before the opportunity to get coached to your happily ever af…
 
On this special episode a student of CCC shares how she went from experiencing deep relationship fear due to childhood wounds and her parents' marriage, to attracting her soon to be husband in less than 12 months. Learning to heal relationship fears and truly commit to attracting a healthy relationship wasn't easy, but with intentional effort, supp…
 
Whether you are ready to start your relationship journey or you hope to turn your current courtship into actual commitment…you deserve more than a situationship. Many women join CCC after a bad breakup, divorce, or when deep down they know their situationship isn’t going to grow into marriage…and they don’t have any more time to waste.It’s not easy…
 
It’s hard not to feel anxious, fearful of rejection or try to control the outcome with men when you don’t know how to court for commitment. Relationships can feel scary. You don’t want to get hurt or repeat past mistakes.And when you’re trying to figure out what you don’t know about courting for commitment on your own it’s easy to run back to past …
 
If you’re meeting men and not happy with the experiences, you have a connection block or a communication block. You can turn this around, learn to court for commitment, and feel good doing it in the next 90 days with my simple 6 step process. But right now, it’s either your communication or your connection skills that’s blocking love. It’s simple b…
 
If you hate dating apps you don’t have to use them to meet men. You can delete every single app, come off social media, and never use a third party connector to introduce you to new men, ever again. Because the truth is HOW you’re meeting men isn’t WHY you’re not meeting men, or why you don’t enjoy courting for commitment. Listen, dating apps aren’…
 
If you haven’t gotten to a space in your love life where you’re meeting new men, getting in person experiences, and working towards commitment with a man who is ready there are 3 simple things you can change to increase your pool of compatible options for a committed relationship. Yes, it’s just that simple. Any one of these 3 steps can increase yo…
 
If you’re feeling lost with where to start, how to actually court for commitment, courting a man who won’t commit, or can’t figure out why you’re always so close to being in the relationship you desire but conversations around commitment always go left, and you can’t figure out why…You’ll want to pay close attention to this episode.The path to cour…
 
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