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This podcast is for recovering "Nice Guys" who are tired of people pleasing and always finishing in last. If you’re ready to uncover your purpose, transcend self-doubt, and start living the best version of yourself, then you’re in the right place. We're not here for temporary solutions but to forge a path of integrity and genuine self-understanding. Tired of feeling like you're not living up to your potential? Hit that subscribe button and engage in the conversation. I'm Chuck Chapman. As a ...
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One of the major reasons Nice Guys don't get the life they want is because they are bad enders. They tend to stick around when something isn't working claiming to be loyal when in reality they are simply afraid to end things. In this video I teach you how to become a good ender so you can get what you want in life, love and sex.…
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How do you create leadership and polarity masculinity in your relationship? Today we discuss the advice of authentic masculine leadership in relationships and address the consequences of role reversal between partners. Learn how to set the tone, create a vision, inspire your partner, and develop a definite plan to restore balance and connection in …
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We explore the deep connection between your relationship with money and your relationship with feminine energy. Masculine energy is what structures money. Discover how changing your view on feminine energy can impact your financial well-being. The video dives into the concept of financial independence, emphasizing three main pillars: mindset, habit…
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What is Positive Masculine Energy? It's needed in Positive Masculinity in men more today than at any other time. Discover the 30 rates of positive masculine energy and how the power of language shapes our unconscious mind and influences our actions. In this video, Chuck Chapman shares a personal mountain biking experience to illustrate the importan…
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I delve into self-improvement and self-development by teaching you the crucial questions to get what you want in life. I introduce six universal psychological needs—connection, security, respect, vision, purpose, and growth—that are essential for personal fulfillment. I also explore how societal and familial expectations can lead to feelings of sha…
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How do you accept yourself? How do you love yourself? In this episode, we explore the importance of having a strong sense of self to avoid becoming a people pleaser and to lead a fulfilling life. Learn about self-awareness, self-love, and how to set healthy boundaries. Practical advice includes daily practices like positive self-talk and understand…
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Discover the secret to emotional control, mastering emotional intelligence, and achieving emotional regulation. Learn impulse control, stress management, and resilience through mindfulness and self-awareness. Unlock your emotional mastery with proven strategies from behavioral psychology. Conquer emotional overwhelm and develop mental health skills…
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Struggling with relationship problems? Learn how to diagnose the health of your love life and decide whether to stay or leave. This video explores four critical questions to evaluate your relationship, covering topics like communication, intimacy, and fear. Discover the importance of physical and emotional connection, and learn how to cultivate a c…
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Breaking Free from Overthinking Learn how to stop overthinking for good and take control of your troubling thoughts. In this video, we'll cover tips on managing intrusive thoughts and improving your mental health. In this episode, I'm tackling the all-too-familiar problem of overthinking—how it paralyzes your decision-making, cranks up your stress …
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What Nice Guys Get Wrong About Women in their Marriages. If you've been a nice guy in your marriage and you're trying to reclaim your masculinity, this video is for you. We're diving deep into masculine embodiment and psychology, with insights from John Wineland. Feeling stuck in your nice guy persona? It’s time to step up and embrace your masculin…
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Toxic shame can be a hidden, yet powerful force, impacting everything from social anxiety to relationships. Healing toxic shame is crucial for overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome, as it fuels anxiety, depression, PTSD, and trauma. In this video, life coach and mental health advocate Chuck Chapman dives deep into the psychology of shame, providing insights…
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Looking back, it's pretty clear that controlling others is a major symptom of the Nice Guy syndrome. Who knew that being Mr. Nice Guy was just a passive way to be Mr. Control Freak? It's not a good masculine trait. And guess what? Being controlling doesn't create positive relationships or a fulfilling life. Shocker, right? It’s exhausting and total…
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Fair warning: You're not going to like what I have to say about Nice Guy Syndrome. Most nice guys will stay stuck in miserable, people-pleasing relationships, hoping for a different outcome. Moving from a nice guy to an integrated man is hard work. If you're ready to change, stay tuned. I'm going to give you the only thing you need to do to kill yo…
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Let's talk about the importance of rites of passage in the journey from boyhood to manhood, especially for us recovering 'NICE' guys. It's something we've lost and I think we should bring it back. I'll share my own story about a male rite of passage that helped me transition into adulthood and kick my addiction and 'nice guy syndrome' to the curb. …
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People pleasing and the Nice Guy Syndrome are common for the Nice Guy and one of the ways this shows up for Nice Guys is that they are always saying I'm sorry. It's weak and meaningless. In today's video, I talk about why I never say I'm sorry anymore, and how it has changed my relationships for the better.…
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In this video, I explore the concept of 'Monogamous to Mom,' and The Nice Guy Syndrome. The concept that Dr. Glover Talks about in No More Mr. Nice is how many nice guys, have with their mothers and how these bonds influence our romantic relationships. I discuss the common pattern of seeking motherly approval, which often leads to choosing partners…
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If you want to be more attractive to women, have more money, and success in life, the men with the Nice Guy Syndrome would do well to learn to be a leader, and self-leadership is the key to attraction and success. Until you learn to lead yourself, you won’t be able to attract (or keep) a really great woman into your life. You won’t have the kind of…
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Nice Guys struggle with talking to women because they are not confident. In this video, I'm going to share with you how you can learn to talk to women (or anyone, for that matter) with confidence and certainty. In this video, I dive deep into the crucial skills of communication skills as the number one way to increase your confidence and assertiven…
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Sex-starved marriage, Nice Guy syndrome, and dead bedrooms—let's dive into solutions to revive intimacy and passion in your relationship! In today's episode, I cover a detailed approach to moving beyond mere duty in your marriage and bringing back the spark using the R.E.P.A.I.R. method.Chuck Chapman, M.A.
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What's the most common mistake Nice Guys make while trying to recover from the Nice Guy syndrome? In this video, we talk about Dr Robert Glover's book and what most men do wrong when trying to stop being Nice Guys. This problem that most ignore, This approach leads to swapping one flawed paradigm for another and ultimately does not result in person…
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In this episode of The Recovering Nice Guy, the host delves into the practice of orgasmic meditation and its transformative impact on men's emotional intelligence and relationships, with guest Marc Wendt. Wendt shares his journey from a collapsing marriage and career to discovering self-awareness through various practices, including orgasmic medita…
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The Power of Courage, overcome the Nice Guy Syndrome. Masculine psychology expert Chuck Chapman shares how to face your fears. The video highlights the role of courage in breaking free from approval-seeking behaviors and embracing one's true power. It also discusses the significance of masculine energy, the transformative power of love over fear, a…
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If you have the Nice Guy syndrome, you might also have ADHD. At the core of the Nice Guy's psychology is that he feels unlovable and unacceptable just as he is. This comes from our childhood experiences of feeling like we don't fit in. For many Nice Guys this can be related to having undiagnosed ADHD. Let me take you on my journey, from feeling lik…
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Welcome to this episode of 'The Recovering Nice Guy,' where we delve into the critical role of men's groups in personal development and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. Our guest today is Jason Lange, a coach specializing in men's group work, who will share his insights and personal journey with us. Jason's journey began with overcoming social anxiety…
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Nice Guys like to live in the gray and, as such, often live lives in perpetual bad moods. It's part of our psychology, and it hurts men's mental health. One of the best ways to transform your life is to learn the skills for getting into and staying in a good mood. Today, I talk with an expert on good moods; we will discuss the importance of mood in…
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As a 'nice guy,' I struggled to find balance in my relationships because I wasn’t aware of how Masculine and Feminine polarity creates attraction. In this video, I dive into the concept of masculine and feminine energies and how as Nice Guys we have an overly developed feminine energy and an underdeveloped masculine energy. This overemphasizing fem…
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Nice Guys should embrace their shadow in order to confront their anxiety and reclaim their integrity. In this video, I delve into the psychology of moving beyond the 'nice guy' facade by acknowledging and integrating the shadow aspects of ourselves. By exploring Carl Jung's theory, I highlight the importance of embracing our darker parts to achieve…
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Why do Nice Guys get put into the friend zone, upset their partners, and never get what they want? They are out of integrity. In this video, I talk about why Nice guys are out of integrity, what this does to them in their relationship, and how to become men of integrity. I'll Emphasize the importance of the virtues that make up integrity and the ne…
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Addressing Female Disrespect: Why Nice Guys Fail at This Essential Component of Relationship Success
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The importance of Nice Guys not tolerating disrespectful behavior from their partner or anyone in your life. Nice Guys miss this essential component of relationship success because nice Guys tolerate the intolerable; female disrespect. In this self-improvement video, Chuck shares a personal story from his recovery from the nice guy syndrome and his…
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Nice Guys get it wrong about women and, as a result, don't get what they want. Here's something you need to know about the Nice Guy's psychology; Chuck delves into a vital topic in this insightful video, unraveling a common misunderstanding that many men have in their relationships with women. He emphasizes that the secret isn't about striving for …
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Learn to talk like a confident man and leave your Nice Guy persona behind. Discover the secrets to the inhibited voice and boost your self-esteem. Join us in this interview with voice coach Hoss Abostate as he shares his expertise in helping men overcome their inhibited voices. This also help for speaking to women! Don't miss out on this opportunit…
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Top 5 Self-Improvement Books to Read in 2024 for Personal & Business Growth: Men's Edition In today's video, I'm excited to share with you my top five book recommendations for self-improvement in 2024, specifically tailored for men seeking growth in personal and business aspects. These books are not just about building skills; they're about underst…
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"You will fail at life unless you do this one thing." That's a bold statement. But it's the hidden truth behind many people's lack of success. The secret? I will share that in this video. In this video, I'm sharing the secret no one wants to admit about success in life. Without it you will fail. 🌙 I share a story that's all too common - staying up …
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If you want to be attractive, they say don't be needy. But this is bad advice. It's not neediness that makes you unattractive; it's neurotic validation. This video discusses the crucial but often misunderstood distinction between men seeking validation and being needy. The speaker debates the commonly held belief that seeking external validation si…
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Do you experience nervousness at social events, particularly around strangers? This video addresses strategies for coping with and conquering social anxiety. It explores the reasons behind our apprehension in social settings and provides useful tips for fostering connections. Learn about the significance of open body language, maintaining eye conta…
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In this video, I delve into the topic of sexless marriages, discussing why this issue emerges and how to resolve it. I explore how sex is an integral part of marriage, and without intimacy, couples may experience severance in their connection. We discuss the necessity of regular sexual connection for maintaining a strong, intimately bonded relation…
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Many have a misconception that the pursuit of success is the ultimate goal. However, this widely held belief is misleading. The true essence of fulfillment doesn't lie in chasing success; it lies in pursuing purpose. When we prioritize purpose over success, we attain a sense of lasting fulfillment. Success may be transient, often disappearing as sw…
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If you're looking for some dating advice or relationship help, stay tuned. Central to this advice is the concept of dating a '10' or the ideal partner. In this coaching session, relationship expert Chuck Chapman M.A., guides viewers on how to evaluate their current or potential relationships. Dating with integrity means looking at the importance of…
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In this video, I explore how to effectively handle and overcome my sensitivity to criticism and how it affects your masculine energy and integrity. I delve into how perceived criticism or pushback emotionally impacts me, leading to feelings of withdrawal or hurt. I discuss some signs of these unskillful reactions and the concept of negativity bias.…
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Many men lack the integrity and masculine energy to assert themselves and confront things standing in the way of getting what they want in life. This makes them look wimpy and weak. On the other hands, all to often we assume we have to be a jerk if we are going to confront someone. However, this is not the case. In this video, we explore the concep…
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In this insightful video, Chuck delves into the pivotal role of masculine leadership in fostering healthy relationships. He underscores the importance of masculine energy in setting the tone, building a structure, inspiring partners, and establishing trust. Through the lens of a 'framework', Chuck investigates how leadership in financial matters in…
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In today's world, there's a profound confusion about the essence of masculinity. Many young men find themselves adrift, seeking a beacon to guide them through a maze of expectations and ideals. This confusion has led to a widespread crisis of masculinity. In this video, we delve into the crucial elements of what it truly means to be a man. We'll un…
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In this empowering self-help video, the speaker discusses the profound change that occurs when we accept full responsibility for our own lives. With examples from my coaching practice and my personal journey, I explore how taking responsibility can transform every aspect of our lives, from marriages and careers to mental health. I clarify that acce…
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In this video, we explore the concept of anger, how society views it, and the potential fallouts of repressing this powerful emotion. We uncover how anger can be transmuted into a potent tool for personal growth and resilience when understood and managed properly. Thoroughly discussing the four main triggers for anger - frustration from unmet wants…
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Overcoming Fear of Rejection: Tools and Techniques In this video, we delve deep into the primal fear of rejection and how it influences our daily lives, relationships, and personal growth. Drawing from personal childhood experiences of rejection, we analyze how such experiences shape our perception and cause us to refrain from taking risks in the f…
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Transformative Psychology Behind Conquering Fear of Success and Failure With Masculine Integrity
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Every man wants success in life, but most of us fear it. Do you hold back because of a deep-seated fear of what comes with it? You're not alone! In this transformative video, we delve deep into the psychology of success and the often unspoken fear that accompanies it. In this video, I'm going to talk to you about one of the biggest obstacles to suc…
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Today, I'm doing something a little different. I'm taking you on a journey of the mind that will take you to let go of all the attachments, stress, and anxiety you are holding on to. This meditation is designed for anyone who wants more freedom and relief from life holding you down and holding you back. Walk with me on a journey that leads to self-…
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What is Mindset? Maybe you've heard the term, but you're unsure what it means. In today's podcast, I will talk about the importance of mindset and how having a growth mindset instead of a fixed mindset will launch you into success like never before. Carol Dweck coined the term "mindset" in her research on why some people are successful and some are…
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In this podcast I interview Dr. Shawn Smith a clinical psychologist and theripst about his new book "Gatekeeper The Tactical Guide To Relationships" Shawn and I discuss men in relationships, what men shoud look for in their potential partner and how to avoid the traps of marring for the wrong reasons to the wrong person. If you are a man who is dat…
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In this video, I'm sharing why patience is so important and why few men achieve it. I'm also sharing some tips on how to develop patience and protect it from the harmful effects of impatience. Few men are able to have patience, and this is often due to the negative effects of impatience. If you want to be a balanced and healthy man, then you need t…
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