Why Patience Is Essential For Romantic Relationships, Ep. 51 Pillar Patience

KickAss Couples Podcast

This week Matthew and Kim take a deep dive into the fifth pillar of successful relationships, Patience. Patience with your partner is learning how to give them the right amount of time they need to process and address all of the various issues that arise in relationships. It takes practice and learning the art of timing to build and grow a beautiful, harmonious relationship together. That means patiently giving each other the time you need to achieve understanding of your differences. By taking the path of patiently waiting and not trying to force a solution, it creates feelings of safety, security and respect in your relationship. Tune in to learn how having more ‘pitiful patience’ with each other on a daily basis can make you a kickass couple.

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What You’ll Learn by Watching This Podcast:

• Why it’s important to be patient when resolving conflict with your partner
• Slow down to give each other time to think, feel, understand and accept new ideas
• In times of conflict, ask yourself, “Am I demonstrating and being patient in my communication with my partner’s fears, their anxiety, their concerns, with their hardships and troubles?”
• Pause, Breathe, Respond

Quotes:

“Am I demonstrating and being patient in my communication with my partner’s fears, their anxiety, their concerns, with their hardships and troubles?” 11:59 - 12:09

“Everyone is entitled to feel the way they feel. But you’re trying to understand why they feel that way. ” 12:42 - 12:50

“If there are some things that might gently need to be brought up, some things that are coming between the two of you, then I think you need to find a very calm way to address those things.” 13:20 -13:35

“You have to learn how to adjust and you have to learn how to compromise in your relationship. You really have to talk it out and figure out what a good solution might be for the both of you.” 14:39- 14:52

“If you’re expressing gratitude toward them because of who they are and what t

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